I know its 21st century and we all fight for equality between the two sexes but would it be contradictory if a girl expects a guy to make a few sacrifices sometimes(and she does too)? Is it wrong if she wants to feel appreciated or is the lack of appreciation part of the independence we ladies fight for. I am not saying he should pay rent and all but the little things now and again without always making a point of pointing it out to you won't hurt. Does it always have to be a give and take?

i expect understanding,truth and personality

Yup i second that opinion its not always about money,

TIPS FOR A HAPPY LOVE RELATIONSHIP !
Beauty is a good thing to behold,
There is a positive appeal to the
Mental faculty of human beings by beautiful things.
Married couples and couples in courtship should appreciate each other.
Under no circumstance should they
Take each other for granted.
Everybody (whether knowinly or unknowinly)
Craves for attention and appreciation.
It should be pointed out that your dresssing
Does a lot in complimenting your beauty.
Therefore, you should dress well and
Allow your partner to make corrections
Or suggestions concerning your dressing.
Keep your figure in the shape that is
Well-admired by your partner.
Be clean in your appearance.
Feel free to compliment each other
Whenever you are impressed by your
Partner's appearance or a show of affection.
Love is all about giving and receiving.
Go the extra mile in your giving
Towards the success of your relationship.
God is the greatest lover of all time.
God proved His love to man by giving his all,
That is His only begotten.
Both partners should keep giving and
Giving and giving towards the success of their relationship.
In as much as both partners are expected to
Keep giving in any relationship,
The male is expected to be the senior partner and
Should give more towards the success of this relationship.
Want to learn more,
Go to www.godswillfoundation.org
And you will be glad you did.

Dr. I. Aigboje

TIPS FOR A HAPPY LOVE RELATIONSHIP !
Beauty is a good thing to behold,
There is a positive appeal to the
Mental faculty of human beings by beautiful things.
Married couples and couples in courtship should appreciate each other.
Under no circumstance should they
Take each other for granted.
Everybody (whether knowinly or unknowinly)
Craves for attention and appreciation.
It should be pointed out that your dresssing
Does a lot in complimenting your beauty.
Therefore, you should dress well and
Allow your partner to make corrections
Or suggestions concerning your dressing.
Keep your figure in the shape that is
Well-admired by your partner.
Be clean in your appearance.
Feel free to compliment each other
Whenever you are impressed by your
Partner's appearance or a show of affection.
Love is all about giving and receiving.
Go the extra mile in your giving
Towards the success of your relationship.
God is the greatest lover of all time.
God proved His love to man by giving his all,
That is His only begotten.
Both partners should keep giving and
Giving and giving towards the success of their relationship.
In as much as both partners are expected to
Keep giving in any relationship,
The male is expected to be the senior partner and
Should give more towards the success of this relationship.
Want to learn more,
Go to www.godswillfoundation.org
And you will be glad you did.

Dr. I. Aigboje

juicy1:

i expect understanding,truth and personality

Hello Juicy i am just what you need

The ist key to every relationship is open communication btw the couple, they should be able to talk about anything, fears, worries, sadness, happiness, share each others point of view, tell themselves when they are hurting, when this is lacking then there would be a gap btw them.
In every relationship, compromise is important, tolerant is vital, sentiment should be thrown into the gabbage, love, care and atttention should move in.

wise saying jello, I reckon you're speaking from the heart.

Relationship requires mutual trust, friendship and as you said communication. Tradition has a way of re-defining relationship especially in the African context where the man is the Lord and master and the woman his subject. No wonder the out cry for women liberation.

Women are really from venus and men from mars, relationships requires efforts and time to bossom. Here are 7 things I learnt in the first 12 months of marriage http://www.peleodiase.com/blog/7-things-i-understood-better-12-months-into-marriage