She's the kinda girl a reasonable guy won't dare losing, the thought of letting her go can only come to my mind if I'm insane. I love her so much and i believe she loves me too but she has another boyfriend, which I knew about but she didn't know that I'm aware. I think i have 80% of what a normal girl wants in a guy, I'm handsome (at least) with the qualities of handsomness, rides a car, have little bucks to spend in school, understanding, romantic, caring, meet up with most of her needs (If not all). Amazingly, she's a virgin (Though that doesn't freak) I don't know what else she wants, I don't know why girls don't feel satisfied with what they have, please advise what do you think i should do?? I feel so cheated but playing along. We'll see where it leads you know like a movie

Poster,she is feed up & bored,maybe u r a boring kind of guy.most ladies like guys dat r not boring,my advise forget her or try 2 b interesting so as 2 get her back.

Chaoga:

i believe she loves me too but she have another boyfriend

huh  if she loves why then does she have an assistant boyfriend? And you know there is a difference between having a fling and having another boyfriend right?.
And you said:

Chaoga:

She's the kinda girl a reasonable guy won't dare losing. . . .

   hmmm. . . maybe I'm not being reasonable but I don't think I would want a girl who doesn't have the decency of ending one relationship before starting another one.

Chaoga:

I feel so cheated.

 
That's cos you have actually been cheated.   and its possible that while you are here expressing you feelings on Nairaland she might be in the arms of the other guy expressing her feelings for him.  

Since you say you love her and don't want to let her go then my advice is that you let her know how you feel about the tripartite relationship and make her understand that she's been unfair to you by cheating on you. Then see if she is willing to let go of the other relationship. If not then let her be.
Alternatively, you might want to break up with her (that's after letting her know the reason why) and if she really loves she will come back to you. If she doesn't then I suggest you move on with your life.

Left for me I'll say you let go of the virgin b!tch although its really going to hurt but you'll be fine trust me 

Possible they've been dating before i met her, but it's later i found out.

You had a choice when you knew of her relationship with another guy. You should have a rethink and decide if you want to leave or continue to struggle. My advice - take the path of honor and leave, she's insulted you enough. Stay in and enjoy yourself if this is just a school romance.

I believe she's the kind of girl a reasonable man will toss out ASAP so he doesn't go insane.

@ Poster,

I really think you should leave the girl. It might seem tough for you, but if you still value your self-esteem, that might be the best decision.

She is more into the other guy. Would you want your name to be a topic for their intimate discussions? I guess not.

The more you stick around, the more she has a reason to see you as a JERK. You'll earn more respect from her and the other guy when you leave (but leave in a friendly and confident manner).

I wish you the best
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@ Poster,

I really think you should leave the girl. It might seem tough for you, but if you still value your self-esteem, that might be the best decision.

She is more into the other guy. Would you want your name to be a topic for their intimate discussions? I guess not.

The more you stick around, the more she has a reason to see you as a JERK. You'll earn more respect from her and the other guy when you leave (but leave in a friendly and confident manner).

I wish you the best

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