You are in your late 20s and early 30s and almost all your
friends are married; including that ugly, short and fat Jane!
Yet you think you are a good wife material, but you are still
single and getting really worried. Well maybe guys are not
looking your way because you are guilty of a number of
these offenses:

1. You are too haughty. You are the “independent”
type that acts as if you don’t give a damn about guys.
Your oversized ego has
beclouded your reason for so
long to make you think you don’t
need men and you can do well
alone all by yourself. Typically,
you will quickly size up the guy
and bring him down with
intimidating looks and sarcastic
responses. Well, I suggest you
marry yourself.

2. You are looking for Mr. Perfect.

You want a well-
built, neat, romantic, hardworking, honest, God-
fearing, faithful, dark, tall and handsome gentleman
man from a good background who has a good job,
drive a good car and loves you unconditionally. I’m
afraid that perfect guy you read about in a romantic
novel isn’t real. He only exists in the writer’s
imagination – and yours. Wake up gurl. You’ll never
find a perfect guy – anywhere. Just like you, everyone
else is imperfect. Accept that fact or wait for the guy to
emerge from the book and marry you.

3. You smell desperate.

Men have a special ability to
smell desperation in a woman. Unfortunately, we find
that odor very offensive and avoid it like a plague. Now
your parents and friends are asking you frustrating
questions about marriage, and you are so sick of
those questions so you’d do anything to get the next
available guy to marry you. You need a man so badly
and justifiably so. Unfortunately for you, the more
desperate you are, the less attractive men find you.

4. You pay too little attention to your appearance.

You don’t want to look like a bitch. So you always
dress down, doesn’t wear make ups and are unkempt.
You are just pathetic. Even stunningly looking ladies
are still in the husband-haunting market; and you
really think a guy will leave all the attractive women
and come for you because he’s “good guy”? Well, if
your goal is to have him sleep with you, some men
won’t mind. But if it’s to get him to marry you, then,
you are so mistaken. Haven’t you been told that men a
visually stimulated?

5. You pay too much attention to your appearance.


The fact that men are visually stimulated doesn’t mean
they are unreasonable. Some men may make
awkward choice of a sex partner, but when it comes to
a life partner, men are painstakingly selective. If not
you’d be married by now. Every man dreams of
marrying a decent lady, not some bitch who won’t
mind going Unclad on the street to get cheap attention.

6. You are rather too sexually naïve.

Each time he talks about sex, you act like he has just committed a
crime, because you are a virgin or you don’t want to
appear promiscuous. When you do that you only
make him wonder how boring or frigid you are in bed.
Normal men like sex. And whether you want to agree
to it or not, if he doesn’t have a hint that you can
satisfy him sexually(either practically or by
insinuations), he’s put off (most of the time)
subconsciously. That’s when men say things like
“there’s no chemistry”, “I don’t feel her” or “we don’t
connect”. In other words, your insensitivity to his libido
repels him.


7. You are too boring.

If you could choose between
two guys with equal qualities in all ramifications
except that one is boring and another is interesting,
which of them will you rather pick? The interesting one
of course! So why do you think if he has to make a
similar choice, he’ll prefer the boring you to an
interesting lady? You excuse yourself by saying “I’m
the quiet type”. Being an introvert is different from
being boring. Men are logical by nature and therefore
they tend to be more futuristic species. So, he’ll picture
the two of you alone in your home. No one looks
forward to a boring home. Some ladies are
uninteresting and uninterested.

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Nawao shey singleness na crime ni

agbonkamen:
Nawao shey singleness na crime ni

Societal pressure is much nii

Me sef, ayam gamophobic...

I can't relate. Sorry.