Men cheat. We cant take that away, but you gotta do it with sense. Respect who you claim to love. He's not ready to settle down Biko.

A girl sent you nonsense pictures and otondo brain no mature enough to delete after viewing?

Dont believe in all this African shame nonsense... if his not ready which sounds lik his not, den dont let im waste your time.... Husband is not scarce!

lefulefu:
sounds like a fukboy to me
there are men who get married not cos they like the girl but cos they want to fulfill all rightousness
it can be heartbreaking if u feel ur would be married partner cheats
wish ur friend d best of luck sha

Oga receive sense , did u read the post at all...where was it written that he cheated?

Now, this is serious

Na wah oh! Why must she think that way- of calling off the wedding simply cos a bunch of ladies keep calling her man. What kind of jealousy is dat.?

I hope when she eventually gets married, maybe to some other Guy, she may also call off her marriage...simply cos a bunch of ladies call her husband.

She shld better be wise and not make any hasty decisions.

paddyofboss:

Oga receive sense , did u read the post at all...where was it written that he cheated?

a young man that's about to get married wetin he dey do having liaisons with ladies and meeting dem in hotels. Bros step over one side abeg

lefulefu:
a young man that's about to get married wetin he dey do having liaisons with ladies and meeting dem in hotels. Bros step over one side abeg

Bro man! Don't be too quick to pass judgement. Do you have the full details or clear picture of all that happened. What kinda Guy he truly is?.. Its never wise to make hasty decisions without critical and well balanced thinking and even prayer.

if she was dating a born again brother now..i don't think she would be passing through this mess




i advice you to advice her to call it off to avoid stories that touch the inner core

karli4nia:


Bro man! Don't be too quick to pass judgement. Do you have the full details or clear picture of all that happened. What kinda Guy he truly is?.. Its never wise to make hasty decisions without critical and well balanced thinking and even prayer.

ok i have heard u. When next u see your girlfriend uploading a slaying pix of herself in a hotel room and underneath the bed in d pix u happened to sight a used condom pls don't be so hasty to pass judgement:p

highqueen:
so the last time I met my girlfriend was last two

weeks and she was complaining bitterly on how the guy she's about to get married to has

different female friends that always call him..

this guy has done introduction last month and they are gonna wed anytime this year...but the

fact is that he keeps receiving female calls

whenever they are together,..she told me she

saw pictures one of the ladies took with her husby to be phone in a hotel room....

she confronted the guy,,,and the guy said it was the lady that sent him those photos..

I don't know what to do because it keeps getting worse as the day goes by..And she is confused becuase he has done introduction and she
doesn't wanna bring shame to the family..please what is the best advice you can give her.

A broken introduction is better than a broken marriage

lefulefu:
ok i have heard u. When next u see your girlfriend uploading a slaying pix of herself in a hotel room and underneath the bed in d pix u happened to sight a used condom pls don't be so hasty to pass judgement:p

Some people have a very funny way of thinking. You don't need to bother explaining to them.

Maybe they feel the girls are wedding planners

UDUJ:


Some people have a very funny way of thinking. You don't need to bother explaining to them.

Maybe they feel the girls are wedding planners

or maybe they feel the girls belong to some dancing troupe.

Why does this sound fake though.....but if its true i wish you all the best mam

piagetskinner:
if she was dating a born again brother now..i don't think she would be passing through this mess




i advice you to advice her to call it off to avoid stories that touch the inner core

it has nothing to do about being born again cos there even some married men who are born again but they cheat on their wives. Some even have affairs with their fellow female church Members. Is it not these days that even pastors and prophets sleep with married women under the guise of casting out demons or giving them fruit of d womb. Lets be honest here.

easier said than done....
iroyin o to afojuba

QueenSuccubus:


If i were on her shoes, i wud rather call off the wedding than to suffer for the rest of my life...

Men with this kind of mentality means they are heartless, inconsiderate, disrespectful, & disloyal... They will never change.NEVER..

Wedding is juz one day but marriage is forever..Juz imagine herself looking after the kids, cleaning the house, doing chores while her husband is keep fvcking these stuppidd bitches in the motel..SMH

Stop. She may even deserve such a person if she lived a useless life too. Karma always come for you if when you least expect it.

lefulefu:
it has nothing to do about being born again cos there even some married men who are born again but they cheat on their wives. Some even have affairs with their fellow female church Members. Is it not these days that even pastors and prophets sleep with married women under the guise of casting out demons or giving them fruit of d womb. Lets be honest here.

I'm not talking about the hypocrites who claim to be born again...I'm talking about the ones who are truly born again


you cannot tell me there ain't young men who are ..not everyone is hypocritical

There has always been checklists for what to look for as one approaches marriage.

In these end times we should include "social media" as one of the flags.

Is he always on social media?
Is he willing to give up social media?

daddycee91:
all your own reply na just "na wa ooo"

As in ehnnn, dude ain't even helping matters fa. He just dished out his candid advice (na waoooo)
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Is there a fixed date for the wedding already,if yes, she will need to talk to the guy seriously, they need to iron things out and if she doesn't change after, the decision is hers. but, why is she knowing these now, she cant tell us she has not notice this before intro. God help her.

highqueen:

and he has done introduction
the girl is just devastated. .

introduction shouldn't hold her back, it is very difficult but if she's no longer comfortable she should walk away, I know what I'm saying.

Tolu900:
Dont believe in all this African shame nonsense... if his not ready which sounds lik his not, den dont let im waste your time.... Husband is not scarce!

husband is not scarce my dear. But some ladies don't know sha

The guy is not a broke ass nigga... and as a rich guy your friend have become his property and has no say... Rich guys are in hot demand so let your friend shut up and share.

my dear if I was you I would be calling her day and night pleading with her to end the marriage. I have never seen family where the mother and father went to suffer with the daughter in her matrimonial home never. please let her know that there are some crosses that u must not bear being with an unfaithful man is one of them doesn't help any lady at all. so please beg her to stop the marriage I tell u as a fact its better to be single than to lack piece of mind.

No

QueenSuccubus:


If i were on her shoes, i wud rather call off the wedding than to suffer for the rest of my life...

Men with this kind of mentality means they are heartless, inconsiderate, disrespectful, & disloyal... They will never change.NEVER..

Wedding is juz one day but marriage is forever..Juz imagine herself looking after the kids, cleaning the house, doing chores while her husband is keep fvcking these stuppidd bitches in the motel..SMH

...or in a hotel or brothel.

There are questions to ask before going into conclusion.how long have they dated before the introduction.what is his occupation?how rich is he?is he stunningly handsome? what family is he from?.in physics there is what we call inertia.reluctance to stop .there is a possibility that he has many girls as friends but has chosen you.especially if some factors above are positive.so don't conclude yet . but I will advice to give your relationship More Time before taking the next step.

highqueen:

and he has done introduction
the girl is just devastated. .

And so what?

Introduction my foot. How is that going to bring happiness? The problem with this generation is that we exaggerate every celebration,. We do introduction now as though the couple are being wedded already.

It is an intro and nothing more. If the guy is not worth it call it off. People will see abusive relationship, go into it and later start crying for help as if they did not have a choice before going in full fledge.

This is the best time to call it off. No shame, let his family be the one begging, the shame is on them

Its the best time to and save your future!

Beta pray to God and be sure if the guy is truly your guy cux all men are cheat .....don't be surprised most advising you .....their guy or husband got side chick.....thank God u know but still let the holy spirit lead your path and use your guys weakness as your own strength to overcome the situation and be a beta wife.... He loves u doesn't mean he can't cheat cuz we men love adventures alot......I can see most comment are from ladies....the Lord is your strength my dear..... Leaving or canceling the wedding isn't going to solve the matter cuz u never know the kind of guy u might meet next.