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Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Orubebe01: 3:33pm On Mar 15, 2018
I met her when I was in school though then I was dating
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by daewoorazer(m): 3:38pm On Mar 15, 2018

Your story doesn’t add up. Many pieces missing hence it's hard to give a reasonable piece.

As for the infection, why should you burden yourself with someone else’s wahala.
Love is not blind

Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Orubebe01: 3:49pm On Mar 15, 2018
daewoorazer:

Your story doesn’t add up. Many pieces missing hence it's hard to give a reasonable piece.

As for the infection, why should you burden yourself with someone else’s wahala.
Love is not blind

Please point out the area that is missing , am ready to clearify.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Nobody: 3:53pm On Mar 15, 2018
daewoorazer:

Your story doesn’t add up. Many pieces missing hence it's hard to give a reasonable piece.

As for the infection, why should you burden yourself with someone else’s wahala.
Love is not blind

this not a novel na haba!!!
Op, follow ur heart.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Mar 15, 2018
My brother..
There are many fishes in the river..
She is the epitome of deception, marry her at your own peril..
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Ekiseme(m): 3:55pm On Mar 15, 2018
Orubebe01:
I met her when I was in school though then I was dating someone. I couldn't marry my girl then cos the parents insisted she must marry from her place. it was this reason that made me tell the new girl my intention, though she was in school in the east while I base in the west. she accepted dating me and I told her that my intention was to marry her. I equally asked her if she has someone which she said no. since then I have been trying my best in helping her financially especially when she was in school. the problem now is that she graduated last yr and I have been telling her that I want to meet with her people but she has been acting somehow until one day she told me she doesn't want to marry any man again. I tried asking her the reason but she never told me. I decided creating another Facebook account with different name, added her and decided toasting her. it was then she opened up to me that she was dating a lecturer who promised to marry her and just dumped her. it was from the chat that I discovered that she was even dating the Guy even when I was taking the pains to make sure she was comfortable in school and would have married him if the Guy had not disappointed her. so I later used my main Facebook account to ask her to tell me why she said she doesn't want to marry any man again, she decided opening up to me but told me she dated the Guy before she met me and that the Guy infected her with hepatitis B and denied her (note that she is yet to know that I was the one that toasted her).As it stands now the girl gives me attention like crazy now ,something I was complaining to her before and she wants to visit my parents . in short, she really want me to marry her . my question is should I dump her too? I tried researching about hepatitis B and discovered that it is almost the same thing as HIV,only that one can take vaccines to prevent the partner from been infected. kindly advice me please.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by daewoorazer(m): 3:56pm On Mar 15, 2018
Orubebe01:

Please point out the area that is missing , am ready to clearify.


1. The transition from avoiding to meet ur parent to suddenly craving your attention.
2. She told your fake identity the man just broke up with her while she told ur main identity that she dated him before u.

Most importantly, if truly her claims doesn't add up, that makes her non-worthy for ur love. Also, don't go and put head for hepatitis B wey u don't know about o.

Peace

Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Orubebe01: 4:04pm On Mar 15, 2018
daewoorazer:



1. The transition from avoiding to meet ur parent to suddenly craving your attention.
i suspect that maybe he was still the lecturer and was hoping that he will marry her. she suddenly started desiring to see my parents after telling me she has hepatitis and I tried telling her that it can be cured.
Thanks for your advice.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Mar 15, 2018
shocked
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by izaray(f): 4:43pm On Mar 15, 2018
Oga you should be able to kno what is good for you, as a mature man looking for wifey to settle down with na.

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Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by Splinz(m): 5:34pm On Mar 15, 2018
A deceiver and a great liar, who probably thinking she was playing smart, dated and was even planning marriage with some other guy whilst dating you, got infected with a deadly disease and summarily dumped, and is now...

C'mon...

It is divine to forgive but it's your right to do whatever.

And if you're asking me? I don't forgive; I only prayed that you may be forgiven, whilst it is my prerogative to sent you where you belong.
Re: Should I Forgive Her Or Dump Her? by DonroxyII: 6:02pm On Mar 15, 2018
No wonder so many Nigerian marriage is full of regret ...... See the pain this one had to pass thru to decode reason why his girl said No to his marriage proposal ......

Gawd, I gat no time for that ooo ... she no dey do , I sef no dey do again !!!

No time .... Life Na moving train, it wait for no one !!!

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