My babe of two years has always complained about my family issues, telling me that my family hates her and all of that. She is a very close friend of my sister, but she complains bitterly to me about my sister's behaviour towards her. This girl loved me a lot when we started dating, but things went sour with time as she always complains about her discomfort with my sis. Meanwhile, I made her to understand that I don't share the same mum with my younger sister. Sometimes she will just start giving me attitude without any arguement or somtin, and weneva I get worried and asked her what's the problem she will be giving me vague answers. She would smetimes tell me she is no longer interested, and after somtime she wil com back again, telling me she really loves me, that it's just that she's not confortable with my family. Her sudden changes in behaviour keeps affecting my emotional state to the extent that I mostly find it difficult to concentrate in school. I have told her severally to shift her focus from my family but she wouldn't. Whenever I ask for a breakup she will plead and make things fine again. After a while we would find ourselves in the same poo again. Now I got really tired and totally depressed about everything so what do u think is the best way to treat her? Honest opinions pls. Thanks.

My son face your books and forget about women. Its obvious she's causing you more harm than good.

The girl is unstable. Perhaps, you're the kind of guy that gives her too much attention and pleads even when she's wrong.

Take a break from the relationship. Concentrate on your studies.

Treat her that poo you said.

enesty77:
My babe of two years has always complained about my family issues, telling me that my family hates her and all of that. She is a very close friend of my sister, but she complains bitterly to me about my sister's behaviour towards her. This girl loved me a lot when we started dating, but things went sour with time as she always complains about her discomfort with my sis. Meanwhile, I made her to understand that I don't share the same mum with my younger sister. Sometimes she will just start giving me attitude without any arguement or somtin, and weneva I get worried and asked her what's the problem she will be giving me vague answers. She would smetimes tell me she is no longer interested, and after somtime she wil com back again, telling me she really loves me, that it's just that she's not confortable with my family. Her sudden changes in behaviour keeps affecting my emotional state to the extent that I mostly find it difficult to concentrate in school. I have told her severally to shift her focus from my family but she wouldn't. Whenever I ask for a breakup she will plead and make things fine again. After a while we would find ourselves in the same poo again. Now I got really tired and totally depressed about everything so what do u think is the best way to treat her? Honest opinions pls. Thanks.

I'm passing through same issue with you
But I guess mine is a bit soft cause I joined one group called "I DON'T A FVCK UNION OF NIGERIA "


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It's the best so far
So please join me and you'll conquer all ya

Leave her and face your book so you will make 2_1 in peace.

In line with the comment above mine, I will advice u to go with the option of making a first class from sch because 2.1 no get level again.

Chikita66:
Leave her and face your book so you will make 2_1 in peace.

thanks a lot for the advice. I was on first class though, but I've dropped wella, and am currently in my fourth year. So I just want to stick to my 2.1 and move on.

pedrilo:
In line with the comment above mine, I will advice u to go with the option of making a first class from sch because 2.1 no get level again.

yeah bro.. I was formally on first class, but I dropped due to lack of concentration. I'm currently in 400level, so I just want to graduate with my 2.1 jejelly

Dannieln1:
I'm passing through same issue with you
But I guess mine is a bit soft cause I joined one group called "I DON'T A FVCK UNION OF NIGERIA "


This society is just a wonderful society
It's the best so far
So please join me and you'll conquer all ya

loool.. my niggaa. I'm damn with you on this one bro. Thanks man

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