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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Nobody: 9:01am On Mar 21, 2018
Awoaa, Lots of people have given you an advice or two which some are crazy, others are sincere. Let me add that everything is possible. Peruse the advises and make informed decision with respect to your dream/vision.
It's not gonna be easy as you might even regret resigning ( if you will). But it will be worth it if you patiently pursue your dreams.
I'm sitting down here with my military friend who almost lost his left leg in Maiduguri mines, he joined out of unemployment. so I understand your situation.
It is possible if you remain positive.
Have a super day sir.

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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Kazeem47(m): 9:18am On Mar 21, 2018
sorry bro.may be you were posted to a unit or department that doesn't favour you.There are many units you can serve that you won't even think of leaving the job. I have seen many other ranks (or what do you call them self? )that are living big. still you can look for posting to unit or department that suits you or you resign. But if you want to resign i advice you to plan for something to do before moving on.
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Thomanad(m): 10:05am On Mar 21, 2018
Bro why all dis now..... Just blow AWOL kawai.... The population in the armed forces is very much now...Nobody go come find you Just gather enough money to live your life... Don't commit suicide please....my brother in arm!
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by DaAwesome1(m): 10:06am On Mar 21, 2018
EmmaJohn12345:
Bro.... I joined the Army with the hope of sponsoring myself to school... I have never had the thought of molesting anybody nor intimidating people. And God can bear me witness that I have never shed an innocent blood.... I have only served in maiduguri and presently serving in kaduna.
pussy soldier.
I think they made a mistake accepting you.
ur not rugged material.
get a medical discharge or dessert
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Sapiosexuality(m): 10:16am On Mar 21, 2018
Leave that horrible place. How I hate the army! Fighting stupid wars started by stupid people and claiming to be fighting for the country. You've not shed innocent but who is defining what innocent means? Stop fighting stupid wars of corrupt men. You are not helping the country but the fools who sent you. Jump off that zombie train.
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by QueTeddy: 10:22am On Mar 21, 2018
Try working your posting to the north... Which unit do you belong tonorthern states like sokoto, the soldiers stationed there use the opportunity to attend school (university)... Its quite easy....
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by cherriex(f): 10:37am On Mar 21, 2018
EmmaJohn12345:
I never dreamt of being a soldier when I was growing up. My dream was going into showbiz ;majoring in acting. At the age of 12 I was already writing scripts to be acted in our secondary school drama club of which I was always being casted as the lead role because of my level of talent and my ability to improvise when acting on stage. On the long run, I was only able to finish my secondary education and things went south.

I ended up in the army 2012. Initially I thought I would be able to come to the Army and sponsor my education but loo and behold what I met was something different. I came to realize that the Army is only enjoyed by the commission officers. The other ranks are just labourers in military uniform.

Frustration set in. All my plans and dreams are just vanishing before my eyes. I have attempted suicide for close to four times. And the thought is still overwhelming. I feel like run away from the Army and follow my dreams because being the Army is doing more harm than good. Pls advice me.


That is why is always good to do Enough research before venturing into anything,u go back to the rules of the army and find out the possible ways to quit the army, if there's any. Ps I can never join anything I can't quit anytime. Good luck bro.
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Sleekjunior(m): 10:41am On Mar 21, 2018
taylor89:
Hmmm



Bro i feel ur pain and i know 90% of those in the Army was due to unemployment



Now I've two questions to ask theee...



Are you among those that killed the armless IPOB agitators?



Are you in the military to intimate the civilians?


If non of the above then God will hear your cry


If you are involved in the number one above then there's a thunder currently drinking dry gin in Ejigbo waiting to do the needful


If you are free my only advice for you is to find a way and shoot BUHARI and run away



You will be handsomely rewarded here on earth and in heaven

savage
Thanks
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by BecaciaBarbie(f): 10:52am On Mar 21, 2018
Holamscoh:


It's ok then. I'm sorry i quoted u in that manner.
Awwwwh....it is fine smiley

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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by BdorianGray(m): 10:56am On Mar 21, 2018
MissRaine69:

You again ...Jesus

Yeah its mee... U know I like to play with you wink grin
Cos it seems to me like on d fiip side of what I like abt ur posts, u apparently too serious or Strict that I can't even sense an undertone of a smile, grin or LOl from your posts... What kinda principle is that shocked
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Aeman(m): 10:58am On Mar 21, 2018
taylor89:
Hmmm



Bro i feel ur pain and i know 90% of those in the Army was due to unemployment



Now I've two questions to ask theee...






Are you among those that killed the armless IPOB agitators?



Are you in the military to intimate the civilians?


If non of the above then God will hear your cry


If you are involved in the number one above then there's a thunder currently drinking dry gin in Ejigbo waiting to do the needful


If you are free my only advice for you is to find a way and shoot BUHARI and run away



You will be handsomely rewarded here on earth and in heaven


Thanks


O boiiii

Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by MissRaine69(f): 11:00am On Mar 21, 2018
BdorianGray:


Yeah its mee... U know I like to play with you wink grin
Cos it seems to me like on d fiip side of what I like abt ur posts, u apparently too serious or Strict that I can't even sense an undertone of a smile, grin or LOl from your posts... What kinda principle is that shocked
That’s the thing
You don’t know me at all personally to reach that conclusion so how I write is not a definitive reflection of my persona
When a lol , grin or smile are necessary they will be included .....
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by Tunks2017(m): 11:05am On Mar 21, 2018
sad

Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by newoffer: 11:17am On Mar 21, 2018
Keep dreaming o.
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by akaahs(m): 11:20am On Mar 21, 2018
BiafranBushBoy:
Just resign. It is gonna be tough for the first few years, but it will all end in smiles.
just wondering whether they don't resigne in the army??let him just his resignation letter to them abi d something na cult wey dem no dey commot ni
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by crispus09(m): 11:52am On Mar 21, 2018
taylor89:
Hmmm



Bro i feel ur pain and i know 90% of those in the Army was due to unemployment



Now I've two questions to ask theee...



Are you among those that killed the armless IPOB agitators?



Are you in the military to intimate the civilians?


If non of the above then God will hear your cry


If you are involved in the number one above then there's a thunder currently drinking dry gin in Ejigbo waiting to do the needful


If you are free my only advice for you is to find a way and shoot BUHARI and run away



You will be handsomely rewarded here on earth and in heaven


Thanks

chai you dye vex o.
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by madgoat(m): 12:04pm On Mar 21, 2018
taylor89:




Oga officer run for your dear life with your two slippers on your hand before Shekau and APC Nigeria Ltd locates you








I rather die on top of woman in a hotel with my Diick standing erect than die as a soldier



I love you bro

See ur life... U want to die with ur dick erect grin grin
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by BdorianGray(m): 12:33pm On Mar 21, 2018
MissRaine69:

That’s the thing
You don’t know me at all personally to reach that conclusion so how I write is not a definitive reflection of my persona
When a lol , grin or smile are necessary they will be included .....

Hmmmm... Rannie rannie...my intellectual salald and cream... wink always gat a delicious way to appeal to my intellectual and aesthetic sensibilities.

But c, U don start dey talk wetin i no like...I no conclude jor..na mere observation, albeit, a wrong one...I suppose..
Cheers..
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by MissRaine69(f): 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2018
BdorianGray:


Hmmmm... Rannie rannie...my intellectual salald and cream... wink always gat a delicious way to appeal to my intellectual and aesthetic sensibilities.

But c, U don start dey talk wetin i no like...I no conclude jor..na mere observation, albeit, a wrong one...I suppose..
Cheers..
You are something else

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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by DaAwesome1(m): 5:30am On Mar 28, 2018
Lifesummary:
Young man listen up, I joined army few years before you, with same intention as yours but it didn't work as I intended, I tried to secure study leave, no connection, I managed to gain admission in a nearby polytechnic (school of evening studies, spat) they frustrated me with outside duties until I went to peacekeeping mission in Liberia, came back then tried to leave, they said no, me said yes and left in peace. It is a crime to leave without proper procedures but my brother Army won't look for you as long as you didn't runaway with there rifle, and you maintain a peaceful lifestyle that won't result into investigation of any kind. You are too young in the job, they won't accept your resignation now, except you are willing to wait for 10 years (or there about) in service before submitting your resignation letter. Army work is not kinda work for those that has dreams, if you can think outside the box then army work isn't for you. As I type now, I'm few borders away from Nigeria. Why kill yourself over what you can do away with? Army work commands respect and you wouldn't like to give up such respect, if you can't stand the ..... you can make it a secret with only your family knowing about that, others will still see you as a soldier. I visited Nigeria 2015 And went straight to the police station to release my younger brother from detention with my "soldier influence", once a soldier is always a soldier. Stop giving details of your location. You know what I think? I think you are just seeking for unnecessary attention because you knows what to do but if I'm wrong, just leave in peace, and before you leave please and please make sure you plan well with some savings so as not to regret it, the worst thing is to go back to your vomit. Good luck
pls give this man one beer
let that big softy of a soldier know

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Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by anitasoll(f): 6:06am On Mar 28, 2018
You are going to do more harm if you will kill yourself. God wouldn't want to see you suffer. He knows your sufferings. Keep your faith in Him and in yourself. Everything will be alright.
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by EmmaJohn12345: 9:48pm On Apr 05, 2018
U have said it all bro.
mkoabiola:
U can only enjoy d military as a commissioned officers

Rank and files are wack

Study leave is not eazy infact hw won't b granted study leave


I was once in his shoe
Re: My Job Is Making Me Suicidal.. Pls I Need Advice by NobleKaY7(m): 11:45pm On Apr 05, 2018
EmmaJohn12345:
I never dreamt of being a soldier when I was growing up. My dream was going into showbiz ;majoring in acting. At the age of 12 I was already writing scripts to be acted in our secondary school drama club of which I was always being casted as the lead role because of my level of talent and my ability to improvise when acting on stage. On the long run, I was only able to finish my secondary education and things went south.

I ended up in the army 2012. Initially I thought I would be able to come to the Army and sponsor my education but loo and behold what I met was something different. I came to realize that the Army is only enjoyed by the commission officers. The other ranks are just labourers in military uniform.

Frustration set in. All my plans and dreams are just vanishing before my eyes. I have attempted suicide for close to four times. And the thought is still overwhelming. I feel like run away from the Army and follow my dreams because being the Army is doing more harm than good. Pls advice me.

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