@OP: Ha! Isn't the girl's name Ekaette?

:-x

buttkick:

you are simply obsessed at keeping her. you may wish to know that if she stops the promiscous behaviouh the love you so profess will be gone as you have no battle on your hands again. some babes are that way. they believe they have a honey pot that some men will die for and thats their power grip. they will use it even if does not make sence at all. i had a neibourh in an ajourning flat a couple of years back. she was def ok, pretty and ggod dress sence. she also had a decent job in a construction firm also had a regular boyfriend whom she had been with for four years who comes in from lagos every 2-3 months. believe it or not she had tonnes of male sleep overs.

i knew she had a lot of respect for me, so one day i confronted her out of the blues and she was down in tears that she didnt feel loved and since any guy she floored was ever willing to have another dig she gave in since she knew that was one thing she was good at and was appreciated for. you will be fooling yourself that you can change her. the best you can do is to stand by her through whatever phase she is going through. she will do what she wants, when and how.

Me and you don wear the same shoe guy. What i don;t understand is if this is natural or some crazy habit they cultivate to show off how cheap and senseless they can be. Crazzzzy.

Coldheart:

@OP: Ha! Isn't the girl's name Ekaette?

Me Ekatte? God forbid.

Maybe she's a ny.mp.ho.
Ny.mp.ho's can't help themselves.

I saw this somewhere.

Originally Posted by JD2009  View Post
I am a young Australian woman who at 27years of age has clinically been diagnosed as a nymphomaniac.

Part of me wants to scream it from the roof tops. Hello world, my name is Naomi and I am a ny.mph. While another part of me wants to crawl into a dark little hole and disappear.

While I do not fall into the category of highly risky behaviours such as approaching randoms in the street and doing them in dark alleys, I have a much higher than normal desire for s,e.x. So high in fact that I spend a great part of my waking life focussed on s,e.x. I have lost count of the partners that I have had since the age of 15,  Yes this started when I was 15,  At the same time that I went through puberty and started mass producing hormones, I started craving sexual gratification and it has been my downfall for the past 12 years.

The problem with being a ny.mph is that I have a great deal of trouble holding down relationships. I have one failed marriage behind me which was followed by 3 years of rampant one night stands, short term relationships and affairs. Flatmates, Friends, Strangers, they were all fair game.

Then 3 years ago I met someone in a swingers club and thought that I had finally found someone with a desire for  to match my own s,e.x drive ,  Only to find after three years and the introduction of a child that he is satisfied with s,e.x once a week and I want it three or four times a day.

We bicker about small things and it feels like my condition is sabotaging our relationship because I am not sexually satisfied, and I wonder if I ever will be.

Being this way does not make me happy. It is a very lonely life when the only way you feel satisfied is when you are getting all you can from someone and either have them running away from the pressure as the midlifebachelor has explained in his post, or alternately having to leave the situation yourself because you are finding yourself feeling unsatisfied when things go off the boil.

If I could find someone who could keep up with me, laugh with me, enjoy life with me and manage to keep the spice and desire at a constant I would be amazed, delighted even, alas I feel like that may never happen.

Instead I live life in a daze, trying to subdue my urges to jump on the closest man,

Woe is me.

check her background well, if she was exposed to life early in life bro der is nothing you can do to stop her even after marriage. serious, the sooner you pull out the better but dont leave her at once cos if u do u will end up not leaving her, your mind is fully with her, just take some time like call once in 2 days , once a week continue dat way till your feeling reduce to a controllable state, and try to see other ladies to reduce the pain , dont enter relationship with them just talk them out and chat with them even if u no like them at all, it help me to break out 7 years relationship with a LovePeddler. not easy a stitch in time saves 9. pls dont have se-x with her again if not u will neva leave her.

BlueDiva:

Maybe she's a ny.mp.ho.
Ny.mp.ho's can't help themselves.

I saw this somewhere.

What a shame, she's more than a nympho. She is the devil we hear about.

Madukaele:

check her background well, if she was exposed to life early in life bro der is nothing you can do to stop her even after marriage. serious, the sooner you pull out the better but dont leave her at once cos if u do u will end up not leaving her, your mind is fully with her, just take some time like call once in 2 days , once a week continue dat way till your feeling reduce to a controllable state, and try to see other ladies to reduce the pain , dont enter relationship with them just talk them out and chat with them even if u no like them at all, it help me to break out 7 years relationship with a LovePeddler. not easy a stitch in time saves 9. pls dont have se-x with her again if not u will neva leave her.

I feel you on this one bruv. One of the most sincere comment i'v read. I started out with her when she was 18. 2nd yr in school when I was in Final yr. I am trying to convince myself that she is no more needed so that I can move on.
Thanks a bunch.

BlakkBoi:

What a shame, she's more than a love addict. She is the devil we hear about.

I feel you on this one bruv. One of the most sincere comment i'v read. I started out with her when she was 18. 2nd yr in school when I was in Final yr. I am trying to convince myself that she is no more needed so that I can move on.
Thanks a bunch.

i have worn the shoe for a longer peroid, i know were it hurts . anytime. if u need 1 on 1 help email me gbachano@yahoo.com

So have u decided to leave her??

If u love her, have u imagined how bleeped her life will be without you?? Maybe your the change she really needs,how long have u guys been battling this behaviour?

Madukaele:

i have worn the shoe for a longer peroid, i know were it hurts . anytime. if u need 1 on 1 help email me gbachano@yahoo.com

I will. Thanks.

baybbootz:

So have u decided to leave her??

If u love her, have u imagined how bleeped her life will be without you?? Maybe your the change she really needs,how long have u guys been battling this behaviour?

And maybe she's the devil that will snap life out of me. We've been together for almost 3yrs, If there is a chance she is something different i would have known before now. I bet u can't imagine what i pass through.

guy simple word---leave this babe. I very much understand how u feel, cos my broda has been there b4, at the end of d dat, he realised d girl dey use jazz tie am down, and that was after 8yrs, pls d earlier d beta for u, all d best.

valacious:

guy simple word---leave this babe. I very much understand how u feel, cos my broda has been there b4, at the end of d dat, he realised d girl dey use jazz tie am down, and that was after 8yrs, pls d earlier d beta for u, all d best.

OMG! Jazz ?. She went nuclear on that one. She must love the guy to have used science on him for 8yrs. Sound more like a lifetime to me man. I feel sorry for your brother. Xtend ma warm pity to your bro and thanks for your concern.

guy, i feel u, but hers is a psychological problem, its medicall, it seems wat eva u give her, she\s still shag others, u shag her well, u give her money plus wat she gets so money is not it, its psychological asides therapy, ders nuthin u can do, run, i had a similar though lesser proble, my own gurl was just a flirt, she loved flirting wit men, not necessarily sleepin wit dem, but it riled me no end, we'v dated for 5years now, n though i suspect she has slept with maybe a couple of guys since we started, she has not taken another boyfriend since me, though i know she still sees, probably still sleeps with the guy who was with her before me.

Theres nuthin you can do except u want to be a cukoo

apache77:

guy, i feel u, but hers is a psychological problem, its medicall, it seems wat eva u give her, she\s still sleep with others, u sleep with her well, u give her money plus wat she gets so money is not it, its psychological asides therapy, ders nuthin u can do, run, i had a similar though lesser proble, my own gurl was just a flirt, she loved flirting wit men, not necessarily sleepin wit dem, but it riled me no end, we'v dated for 5years now, n though i suspect she has slept with maybe a couple of guys since we started, she has not taken another boyfriend since me, though i know she still sees, probably still sleeps with the guy who was with her before me.

Theres nuthin you can do except u want to be a cukoo

Don't wanna be a cukoo. I have moved on. She is just exactly what you described. Lesson learnt, Never fall in love with all your heart.

eehya, another man who will be scarred for a long time. It is always the same thing, a boy/man falls in love with a girl, they get their heart broken, swear never to love again and treat women like sh*t from then on. Just be strong, it's one of the things you have to go through in life.

[/quote]Don't wanna be a cukoo. I have moved on. She is just exactly what you described. Lesson learnt, Never fall in love with all your heart.[quote author=BlakkBoi link=topic=441260.msg6035678#msg6035678 date=1273840370]

t00my:

eehya, another man who will be scarred for a long time. It is always the same thing, a boy/man falls in love with a girl, they get their heart broken, swear never to love again and treat women like excreta from then on. Just be strong, it's one of the things you have to go through in life.

No way man.