So basically,

in 2014 I made a friend with a girl with mental health issues.

Long story short she introduced me to a mutual friend, he was very strange and extremely overweight e.g. takes up two seats on the bus

I decided to still be his friend, as I do not judge.

However, he would often ask to meet me after work - when I did not want him to, and he would turn up anyway. Nonetheless, I would still follow him and allow him to meet me after work and meet me at the bus stop.

So, then after he proceeded to ask me whether I was a virgin, if I masturbate etc. Stupidly, I replied. I said Yes I was, I said yes I did.

From then on, he continued to always bring it up even though it made me feel uncomfortable and I told him to stop.

We often had many fall out in our friendships.

So, once I sent him a picture of my breasts as he was my friend and I wanted his opinion as I was too ashamed of my breast size - just wanted a male opinion. And, he then proceeded to save the photographs and always bring it up and call me "juicy tits" when I told him many times not to.

He used things I told him against me, e.g. when I told him about my mental health issues, my family problems he would use it against me in the future.

Always trying to get me to meet him etc.


So, I tried many times to end the friendship. However, because he was at times often nice to me and he did give me little money nothing much just like 5 dollars, and he often gave me things like second hand phones. So I kept the friendship going.

However, I spoke to him recently - and he kept bringing up past things, and kept calling me "boo" etc even though I told him not to , he said that he calls every girl boo and then he proceeded to call me his favourite virgin. (I am 25 now and still a virgin)

I feel like I can do better than him, and he is dragging me down. Is it ok to cut the friendship off or am I over reacting?

over reacting

how

blackboy:
over reacting

I can't even make any sense of anything written up there...


Guess we plenty wey get mental issues

because u are a village monkey who nor sabi english

decatalyst:
I can't even make any sense of anything written up there...


Guess we plenty wey get mental issues

2morogobeta:
because u are a village monkey who nor sabi english

Hey, don't make the worse mistake of your life on social media! De catalyst is the 'wrongest' person to do e-fight with. Amma take you to the cleaners!

Respect your genotype oooooooo

Don't smell what you cannot eat