this happened today..
to my lil one
what do you guys think about this
ordinary when do you want to come to warri turned into this


UDUJ,HEENDRIX,LEFULEFU

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Bestypretty:
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broke guys don't have the right to ask a lady to come visit them. pad money got me.

broke guys don't have the right to ask a lady to come visit them. pad money got me.

marvin906:
this happened today..
to my lil one
what do you guys think about this
ordinary when do you want to come to warri turned into this


UDUJ,HEENDRIX,LEFULEFU

Bro your little bro is inviting the chic to Warri na! I believe she lives outside Warri.

The normal thing when inviting a babe over (across towns) is to send her enough transport money to cover her transport expenses to and fro.

From the chat I see the babe really likes your little bro. It's just that she expects him to at least keep a little something for her (apart from the transport fare) for her to use for her upkeep. It's a normal thing sha as long as she doesn't expect him to keep a ridiculously large amount of money. I believe your younger bro should be a student and the babe should know this so it will be very wrong of her to expect him to do more than his means.

Na normal boyfriend, girlfriend stuff. Tell your younger bro to send her the transport money (if he has) if he wants her to come. If he doesn't have it he can postpone her trip till when he is able to afford the transport fare.

Bro once a lady says you don't pay her bills, then there's cause for worry. As that's the first excuse for them to get another boyfriend that can pay their bills. She could also be saying that just to shake your little bro a little so he wakes up.

UDUJ:


Bro your little bro is inviting the chic to Warri na! I believe she lives outside Warri.

The normal thing when inviting a babe over (across towns) is to send her enough transport money to cover her transport expenses to and fro.

From the chat I see the babe really likes your little bro. It's just that she expects him to at least keep a little something for her (apart from the transport fare) for her to use for her upkeep. It's a normal thing sha as long as she doesn't expect him to keep a ridiculously large amount of money. I believe your younger bro should be a student and the babe should know this so it will be very wrong of her to expect him to do more than his means.

Na normal boyfriend, girlfriend stuff. Tell your younger bro to send her the transport money (if he has) if he wants her to come. If he doesn't have it he can postpone her trip till when he is able to afford the transport fare.

Bro once a lady says you don't pay her bills, then there's cause for worry. As that's the first excuse for them to get another boyfriend that can pay their bills. She could also be saying that just to shake your little bro a little so he wakes up.

dude this chick coming to warri is set
hotel accommodation is set
feeding is set
shopping is set
when you wan come warri turn into this
not that my lil one told her the amount hes gonna send to her for transport
benin to warri is how much 800

I think this is wat u get when ur relationship ONLY evolved in money...


And i hate when i see a series of replies nothing but emojis...really? For real?

If that's the case , i will juz drop the bomb and block his azz.. I got no time of that kind of BS...

marvin906:





dude this chick coming to warri is set
hotel accommodation is set
feeding is set
shopping is set
when you wan come warri turn into this
not that my lil one told her the amount hes gonna send to her for transport
benin to warri is how much 800

Haa if that's the case then your lil bro goes all out to make sure she's comfortable when she visits.
I believe this is not the first time he is inviting her to Warri and she should be aware of the luxuries awaiting her (hotel accommodation, shopping et al). Just leave the two lovebirds, they will sort themselves out

UDUJ:


Haa if that's the case then your lil bro goes all out to make sure she's comfortable when she visits.
I believe this is not the first time he is inviting her to Warri and she should be aware of the luxuries awaiting her (hotel accommodation, shopping et al). Just leave the two lovebirds, they will sort themselves out

the chick is naturally materialistic
and this chick hasnt even sent 100 naira card to my lil one willingly..
and the otondo is working
and the two werey have been dating for a year plus

marvin906:




the chick is naturally materialistic
and this chick hasnt even sent 100 naira card to my lil one willingly..
and the otondo is working
and the two werey have been dating for a year plus

hmmm na wah So the babe is working The question your brother should be asking himself is if the babe is really into the relationship for gains or love. As for you and I we already know what we will do in such situations. Let him decide.

Lefulefu will give some sage advice soon

marvin906:





dude this chick coming to warri is set
hotel accommodation is set
feeding is set
shopping is set
when you wan come warri turn into this
not that my lil one told her the amount hes gonna send to her for transport
benin to warri is how much 800

what do you mean by something is set?

Is she aware things are set?

Haba na, d discussion is straightforward, if he wants her to come he should assure her that he will take care of things most especially financial wise. If he can't take care of her now is it when (if) they get married he will take care of her?

Your bros no try Abeg. No vex.

marvin906:




the chick is naturally materialistic
and this chick hasnt even sent 100 naira card to my lil one willingly..
and the otondo is working
and the two werey have been dating for a year plus

You're waiting for the girl to send your bro recharge card?





Another man go soon collect am if dem neva collect am already

Prognose:


You're waiting for the girl to send your bro recharge card?





Another man go soon collect am if dem neva collect am already

i just used that as an example

Prognose:


what do you mean by something is set?

Is she aware things are set?

Haba na, d discussion is straightforward, if he wants her to come he should assure her that he will take care of things most especially financial wise. If he can't take care of her now is it when (if) they get married he will take care of her?

Your bros no try Abeg. No vex.

dude for someone to call a chick to come to another state
dont you think everything is already in place
to make her comfortable

marvin906:






dude for someone to call a chick to come to another state
dont you think everything is already in place
to make her comfortable

Dude I've seen here in this forum on a thread where a guy invited a girl over meanwhile Na face-me-i-face-you e dey stay and he didn't offer her any transport. It's just basic courtesy bro. She just needs assurance or dem dey quarrel be4?

Honestly though I don't see this conversation as too serious. The girl really likes your bro but she's using style to tel him to step up a bit. I'm assuming the N1k he gives her is a joke and just her way of teasing him to loosen his hand small.

Like someone else has said.
If I'm inviting a girl over from another town e.g PH, I send money for transport to and fro and then add a little change on top. Nothing much but just enough to ease her stress. Do this one or twice and the next time she won't ask for t-fare before showing up.

I don't know what other guys think about it though.

Prognose:


Dude I've seen here in this forum on a thread where a guy invited a girl over meanwhile Na face-me-i-face-you e dey stay and he didn't offer her any transport. It's just basic courtesy bro. She just needs assurance or dem dey quarrel be4?

well thats low of him
buh this different she knows there wont be fvck up
her own issue is my lil one isnt spending heaven and earth for her
and you cant blame him
the little things you do matter somethings and she hasnt done anything to deserve it
and i cant really allow my lil one spend stupidly on a chick

Prognose:
Honestly though I don't see this conversation as too serious. The girl really likes your bro but she's using style to tel him to step up a bit. I'm assuming the N1k he gives her is a joke and just her way of teasing him to loosen his hand small.

actually he did that
i think he was in auchi last year when he invited her from benin over there
nigga sent transport and liitle something on top
the otondo used the money for something else
promising shes gonna use her own money to come
time came madam said she doesnt have money to come
my lil one called me that period
i told him to send her 1k
bad enough it was exactly 1k to auchi

Tah u r talking abt urself!! N by the chat u hv issues!!! So u want someone to leave her house with out assuring her she would be happy when she comes! As she is ur slave na!!! All the stresss n if she regrets it! She keeps blaming herself 4 being cheap!! Nonsense! If u know u don't know how to handle distance stuff stick with ur babes in ur streets!!!

marvin906:





well thats low of him
buh this different she knows there wont be fvck up
her own issue is my lil one isnt spending heaven and earth for her
and you cant blame him
the little things you do matter somethings and she hasnt done anything to deserve it
and i cant really allow my lil one spend stupidly on a chick

Oya do it for your bro na.
I saw one thread of how an elder brother helped fixed a date for his lil bro and gf.
Benin to Warri is not that much, but giving her 1k is not enough.

Shugavee:
Tah u r talking abt urself!! N by the chat u hv issues!!! So u want someone to leave her house with out assuring her she would be happy when she comes! As she is ur slave na!!! All the stresss n if she regrets it! She keeps blaming herself 4 being cheap!! Nonsense! If u know u don't know how to handle distance stuff stick with ur babes in ur streets!!!

who is this
do i look like the author of your frustration
or do i look like the revelation of your fustration
c me see trouble
if you say is me hows that my problem

marvin906:




who is this
do i look like the author of your frustration
or do i look like the revelation of your fustration
c me see trouble
if you say is me hows that my problem

*eyes rolls*

Divay22:

Oya do it for your bro na.
I saw one thread of how an elder brother helped fixed a date for his lil bro and gf.
Benin to Warri is not that much, but giving her 1k is not enough.

have done my part
the rest belongs to them
what i understand about them is that my lil one
doesn't spend crazily on her
like monthly allowance and all that
and thats the origin of all this not the transport
left to me both would have broke up a long time ago

Shugavee:
*eyes rolls*

keep rolling
now buzz off
haba

marvin906:




have done my part
the rest belongs to them
what i understand about them is that my lil one
doesn't spend crazily on her
like monthly allowance and all that
and thats the origin of all this not the transport
left to me both would have broke up a long time ago

na so u 4 talk!!!! U don't want them to date!!! Cause this chat is mainly expecting people to bash her!!

Shugavee:
na so u 4 talk!!!! U don't want them to date!!! Cause this chat is mainly expecting people to bash her!!

that wasnt my intention
furthermore that chick is materialistic
place your brother in my lil one shoes
would you want him to date someone
whos mindset is just to recieve
and the best she can do is just offer sex

marvin906:




that wasnt my intention
furthermore that chick is materialistic
place your brother in my lil one shoes
would you want him to date someone
whos mindset is just to recieve
and the best she can do is just offer sex

If she's materialistic, then your bro should do away with her if he can't give in to her demands.

Divay22:

If she's materialistic, then your bro should do away with her if he can't give in to her demands.

both of them are complicated
i think this will be their 30th or so break up
and the thing is just a year plus
aint kidding

marvin906:




that wasnt my intention
furthermore that chick is materialistic
place your brother in my lil one shoes
would you want him to date someone
whos mindset is just to recieve
and the best she can do is just offer sex

r u in a relationship?? Cause if u think there is something with what she said!! Then i doubt u r in the best position to give advise!! Materialistic Is not like u gave her enough n she is complaining!!! 1k is peanut!! Is not like it's money 4 her to buy something 4 herself but to cm see him!!!! By this I know that babe has been trying!!! Tell him to dump her na!! Will she die?