I always believe that courtship before marriage is very necessary. It is through courtship you will know the kind of partner you have. Courtship that involves sex is now a problem in the christian doctrine. But I want to point out that if you dont have sex with your partner how can u know if he can father a child or she can be pregnant? If he is impotent or if she is infertile. Or do u want to believe in God will provide for us? I am not against pre-marital sex but it has been a problem between couple who cant give birth today.

well i always beliefe in the bible principle, which state dat marriage is honourable above all the bed undile, i think dat the course of infertility in some christian homes 2day is due to the intimacy before marriage, trying to make GOD to be a liar, so that is the reward of sin. when GOD plans anything for u HEwill not change

vocalist:

well i always beliefe in the bible principle, which state dat marriage is honourable above all the bed undile, i think dat the course of infertility in some christian homes 2day is due to the intimacy before marriage, trying to make GOD to be a liar, so that is the reward of sin. when GOD plans anything for u HEwill not change

Are u saying this to me? Pls I was just asking a question ooo. I

pre-marital intimacy and fornication are the same thing and a sin before God. It brings the wrath of God upon a marriage it doesn't matter how long it takes to come. Building your marriage on the foundation of sin is not advisable. It is because the world is becoming too wise in their own eyes that's why they don't trust that God can give them children rather they believe in their wisdom of trying first. Again it is a wicked act for a man who is impotent to go and marry a lady without letting her know what he is suffering from. Above all, its better you pray for Gods direction when u want to go into marriage. Lastly, every marriage has its own problems, times of trials and temptation of which its only God that helps out. God bless you.

i dont see anywhere in the bible that encourages premarital sex.

anyone in such a lifestyle, should just admit they're acting on their lusts, and not try to justify it with some meaningless "what ifs".

engaging in premarital sex is no guarantee a man cannot become impotent later, or that a woman will not experience infertility.

you can have the premarital sex, discover the man is 30 inches, and after marriage, he can decide to spread his 30 inches everywhere.

any girl who goes around "feeling up" men for whatever reason, is simply a n.ympho. And will be called worse names by these same men. If that's ok with you, then good for you.

pardon my language.

tpia@:
i dont see anywhere in the bible that encourages premarital sex.

anyone in such a lifestyle, should just admit they're acting on their lusts, and not try to justify it with some meaningless "what ifs".

engaging in premarital sex is no guarantee a man cannot become impotent later, or that a woman will not experience infertility.

you can have the premarital sex, discover the man is 30 inches, and after marriage, he can decide to spread his 30 inches everywhere.

any girl who goes around "feeling up" men for whatever reason, is simply a n.ympho. And will be called worse names by these same men. If that's ok with you, then good for you.

pardon my language.

chei, is this why you dug up a 3 yr old thread?
Ogbanje

@ OP: Pre-marital $€x is fornication in Christian-speak.