Be very careful who you call your boyfriend or lover..As you strip unclad in his room to have sex', are you sure a camera is not there capturing your moanings & sexual displays... Are you sure he is not keeping a video of you so as to extort money from you when you become (1) a pastors wife (2) a society woman (3) an academician (4) a moral feminist (5) A billionaire woman....

Not every boyfriend is "human being", not everyone calling you baby is a lover.. You might be dealing with a boy enemy that is there laughing with you, but plotting to ruin you when you breakup.

Be careful...Sex in marriage is the only way...