I feel like each baby is born with natural temperaments, but as they grow older they "find themselves" and the environment often shapes them

An individual is a combination of the way they are through their nature and also their environment

I feel like I have lost myself due to abuse, bullying and society mind control..

I am 24 and a bit lost, especially since the death of my mother / loss of my faith..

How do I find who I truly am?