Dear good people on this noble platform sure your day is going well? Please pardon me for bothering you with an issue that is supposed to be private.

I need your candid advice on this matter; i am in a relationship i considered to be the best in the last six months. i have a good job in one of the top multinational oil firm in Nigeria. just recently i decided to find out if my woman loves me for who i am or what i have. Before now, i provide anything she ever asked for but now all that stopped and i started singing the "i am broke music". each time she requested for money or any other thing my response will always be that "i am broke babe try and understand" and she will be like "whatz going on this is not you"

The "i am broke" tunes keep playing for a very long time. My fiance became restless and uncertain if she should continue with me or not. From my observation if was obvious that her interest was on the decline and that never made any sense to me. Most times she grumbles of being tired of hearing "i am broke i dont have money for now" yet she is gainfully employed with one of the old generation banks in the country. I care less about what or how she spends her money. At the moment, she have moved out of my house on the excuse that she will be going for a six months training outside the shores of nigeria but from my investigation, i found out she lied about the six months training abroad.

I have made series of efforts to reach out to her but all to know avail. Please friends what do you advice i should do? Our wedding comes up in few months time but am in a dilema of how to handle this situation for now. Should i continue with her or let go off her?. Your candid advice will be highly appreciated. Thanks and have a blessed day

Your wife to be is something else sorry to say.

she was in love with two things:you and ur money.Since d main one isn't available for now,it simply means she can't b wit the available one.Take heart bro......

igwegeorgiano:
Dear good people on this noble platform sure your day is going well? Please pardon me for bothering you with an issue that is supposed to be private.

I need your candid advice on this matter; i am in a relationship i considered to be the best in the last six months. i have a good job in one of the top multinational oil firm in Nigeria. just recently i decided to find out if my woman loves me for who i am or what i have. Before now, i provide anything she ever asked for but now all that stopped and i started singing the "i am broke music". each time she requested for money or any other thing my response will always be that "i am broke babe try and understand" and she will be like "whatz going on this is not you"

The "i am broke" tunes keep playing for a very long time. My fiance became restless and uncertain if she should continue with me or not. From my observation if was obvious that her interest was on the decline and that never made any sense to me. Most times she grumbles of being tired of hearing "i am broke i dont have money for now" yet she is gainfully employed with one of the old generation banks in the country. I care less about what or how she spends her money. At the moment, she have moved out of my house on the excuse that she will be going for a six months training outside the shores of nigeria but from my investigation, i found out she lied about the six months training abroad.

I have made series of efforts to reach out to her but all to know avail. Please friends what do you advice i should do? Our wedding comes up in few months time but am in a dilema of how to handle this situation for now. Should i continue with her or let go off her?. Your candid advice will be highly appreciated. Thanks and have a blessed day

Wrapped with a woman? Drama, drama, drama!

Without money, your marriage with her is as good as gone. Think twice brother! She doesn't love you wholeheartedly. She's only interested in her comfort.

Nigerian girls(not all) are just crazy!!

This is what happens when u start a relationship with spending on the lady. Anyways keep observing her, she will soon start cheating on u if not that she’s doin so already.

When the money goes, will the honeys stay, when the grey skies replace the sunny days.....

@OP: You yourself, do you like to hear that you're broke?!

igwegeorgiano:
Dear good people on this noble platform sure your day is going well? Please pardon me for bothering you with an issue that is supposed to be private.

I need your candid advice on this matter; i am in a relationship i considered to be the best in the last six months. i have a good job in one of the top multinational oil firm in Nigeria. just recently i decided to find out if my woman loves me for who i am or what i have. Before now, i provide anything she ever asked for but now all that stopped and i started singing the "i am broke music". each time she requested for money or any other thing my response will always be that "i am broke babe try and understand" and she will be like "whatz going on this is not you"

The "i am broke" tunes keep playing for a very long time. My fiance became restless and uncertain if she should continue with me or not. From my observation if was obvious that her interest was on the decline and that never made any sense to me. Most times she grumbles of being tired of hearing "i am broke i dont have money for now" yet she is gainfully employed with one of the old generation banks in the country. I care less about what or how she spends her money. At the moment, she have moved out of my house on the excuse that she will be going for a six months training outside the shores of nigeria but from my investigation, i found out she lied about the six months training abroad.

I have made series of efforts to reach out to her but all to know avail. Please friends what do you advice i should do? Our wedding comes up in few months time but am in a dilema of how to handle this situation for now. Should i continue with her or let go off her?. Your candid advice will be highly appreciated. Thanks and have a blessed day

If you know what is good for you dump that lady without thinking thrice..


# A word is enough for the wise.

#Words of an elder.

thesicilian:
[s]@OP: You yourself, do you like to hear that you're broke?![/s]

She's broke herself so she has no right to get angry if he's broke.



BTW the guy isn't broke he's just testing her to see if she's a wife material or she loves him for his money
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Guys and their testing of ladies ..lol. She's giving you space probably because she thinks your job is at risk so she doesn't want to be with a man who doesn't have money and she doesn't want to be the bread winner of your soon to be family since its looks to her that she's the solvent one. Best you know now anyway, before you tie yourself down with that headache.

What were you thinking when you were giving her money all this while?
The lady obviously loves your money more than she loves you and you are asking us what you should do.
Go back and continue what you started,
Give her more money!

Excuse me o! No vex, Wetin u wan hear from us again na.. I believe u are not blind enuf to see where d ship is sailing to..
She complained cos of d brokenness thereby failing ur test,she left u nd is probably under someone's tutelage as we speak ,she even lied to u nd u knw d truth nd u are still asking for advice
U knw wot?,marry her.....
Fiance my foot...
One day u'll wake up nd find out she has left u...

u r waiting for us to tell u she is after ur money abi?
just wait, we r coming oh, wait.

Do you like to hear I'M ON MY PERIOD

Babe send me your account details is a huge turn on.

Op you probably started the relationship with spoiling her with gifts and money...showing yourself. Now she has got used to it and you are complaining. Why did you start what you could not finish?

It might not necessarily mean she is all about your money. But you have already spoilt her. You will need to discuss with her rather than playing games and pretending to be broke.

One of the topics couples intending to wed discuss in marriage counselling is money...how to handle it. But you can talk to her about it now and let her know you need to start doing investments and you need to know what she does with her own money especially if she is not spending on you. It cannot be one sided.

Nah why I dey use the side of my head nod girls be this...

Just use her + yahoo.... she ain't worth it!!


And to think My babe is going tru a lot over here and yet loves me to the core and prays for me.... even though I'm not giving her much

I'll reward her someday soon ... she's been more than ASSURANCE to me...God bless her...

marvelli:
Guys and their testing of ladies ..lol. She's giving you space probably because she thinks your job is at risk so she doesn't want to be with a man who doesn't have money and she doesn't want to be the bread winner of your soon to be family since its looks to her that she's the solvent one. Best you know now anyway, before you tie yourself down with that headache.

my job is still very much intact and am not in anyway broke. just testing d ocean in which i wanna swim for d rest of my life

He that started a work must finish it..Oga finish your work on the cross of Calvary.

delugajackson:
You see, the first mistake you made was spending too much on her. You gave her the impression that you have the money to spend (you must be generous, i see ) and now you're blaming her for being demanding? [b]Relationship is not a one sided affair, let her make her own financial commitments and see how it goes from there. Testing a woman with money is so lame, I mean, who does that these days? You thought she would say no to your money. You must be living in utopia.

Never try to impress a woman with money under any guise, it's a very unfriutful task. Be yourself, spend wisely and watch a woman's attitude. If she ever turns out to be too demanding, then it's in your place to kick her àss to the curb. For your fiancee, forget her, she's long gone. I wouldn't call her a gold digger cause nigga you caused it. Look for a better lady and set things right this time. Real men don't impress women money.[/b]

you're right man.

Any man who makes money for the sole purpose of impressing a lady or trying to get her attention is a dead man living..

@emboldened you're right... let her contribute to the relationship financially so that she can see what Mr. generous guy has been going through.

delugajackson:
You see, the first mistake you made was spending too much on her. You gave her the impression that you have the money to spend (you must be generous, i see ) and now you're blaming her for being demanding? [b]Relationship is not a one sided affair, let her make her own financial commitments and see how it goes from there. Testing a woman with money is so lame, I mean, who does that these days? You thought she would say no to your money. You must be living in utopia.

Never try to impress a woman with money under any guise, it's a very unfriutful task. Be yourself, spend wisely and watch a woman's attitude. If she ever turns out to be too demanding, then it's in your place to kick her àss to the curb. For your fiancee, forget her, she's long gone. I wouldn't call her a gold digger cause nigga you caused it. Look for a better lady and set things right this time. Real men don't impress women money.[/b]

you're right man.

Any man who makes money for the sole purpose of impressing a lady or trying to get her attention is a dead man living..

@emboldened you're right... let her start contributing to the relationship financially so that she can see what Mr. generous guy has been going through.

marvelli:
Guys and their testing of ladies ..lol. She's giving you space probably because she thinks your job is at risk so she doesn't want to be with a man who doesn't have money and she doesn't want to be the bread winner of your soon to be family since its looks to her that she's the solvent one. Best you know now anyway, before you tie yourself down with that headache.

Did she gives him space when the maga was showering money like king Solomon his mentor

ImaIma1:
Op you probably started the relationship with spoiling her with gifts and money...showing yourself. Now she has got used to it and you are complaining. Why did you start what you could not finish?

It might not necessarily mean she is all about your money. But you have already spoilt her. You will need to discuss with her rather than playing games and pretending to be broke.

One of the topics couples intending to wed discuss in marriage counselling is money...how to handle it. But you can talk to her about it now and let her know you need to start doing investments and you need to know what she does with her own money especially if she is not spending on you. It cannot be one sided.

Dearie, i did not in anyway deliberately impressed her with money and material things. all i did was born of true love for her despite having her own job and earning fat salary as well perhaps it was wrong for me to shower with so much love both in words and deeds

igwegeorgiano:
my job is still very much intact and am not in anyway broke. just testing d ocean in which i wanna swim for d rest of my life

yes but she doesn't know that na. So she's probably looking at other options while she's at this "training". At the end of the day the decision is yours, will you go on with the relationship knowing that without money she'll frustrate your life or are you going to cut your losses now.

who else is thinking this a made up story by a kid seeking for attention?

igwegeorgiano:
Dearie, i did not in anyway deliberately impressed her with money and material things. all i did was born of true love for her despite having her own job and earning fat salary as well perhaps it was wrong for me to shower with so much love both in words and deeds

Well...you should tell her about it instead of playing games. Her reaction should make you know how to proceed.