Why is it a big deal for a girl to give her number out to a guy who ask politely? does giving out the number automatically means relationship? or does it mean she has lost her womanhood / virtue?. From my own point of view , I think girls need to change that mentality, because you never know who may be of help to you. It's not all about sex or money but building contacts with people because you might need them.

Is it by force? If they refuse to, move on.

It's a private line. Just like your house address. Asking politely does not mean every stranger is entitled to it.

kimbraa:
Is it by force? If they refuse to, move on.

It's not by Force to help na. That was how a girl missed a federal job opportunity from a Minister who asked for her qualifications and her GSM no

heritage2009:


It's not by Force to help na. That was how a girl missed a federal job opportunity from a Minister who asked for her qualifications and her GSM no

So? Do you also have a federal job to give?

heritage2009:
Why is it a big deal for a girl to give her number out to a guy who ask politely? does giving out the number automatically means relationship? or does it mean she has lost her womanhood / virtue?. From my own point of view , I think girls need to change that mentality, because you never know who may be of help to you. It's not all about sex or money but building contacts with people because you might need them.

Sometimes we need to see things from a girl's perspective. I am someone who hates too much phone calls.

I hate calls completely when I am doing something important with my phone. Now imagine if I am a beautiful girl that gives her contact to whoever asks politely.

I will be killing myself slowly y'know.

How can you reason like that Mr. Poster?
Phone number is private, you give it to who you want to wether man or woman.
Is not a must for a girl to give her number to any man that ask them "politely".
Just because you asked politely doesn't mean you will get it.

Do you know that some men are so stupid that they want to collect any number belonging to a woman and be calling and stalk them?
Some can even use the number and call as a different person to try and scam them.

Anybody has the right to choose who to give their number to.
Leave girls that don't want to give their number to you.

thesicilian:
It's a private line. Just like your house address. Asking politely does not mean every stranger is entitled to it.

That's why most people are not moving forward. two things will determine how far you will go in life
1. the books u read
2. the people u meet(contacts)

All our friends today were once strangers. and the world is more civilized and digital.

kimbraa:
So? Do you also have a federal job to give?

To strangers or a person I know?

Tallesty1:
Sometimes we need to see things from a girl's perspective. I am someone who hates too much phone calls.

I hate calls completely when I am doing something important with my phone. Now imagine if I am a beautiful girl that gives her contact to whoever asks politely.

I will be killing myself slowly y'know.

You are probably right but not all guys stalk

heritage2009:

That's why most people are not moving forward. two things will determine how far you will go in life
1. the books u read
2. the people u meet(contacts)

All our friends today were once strangers. and the world is more civilized and digital.

So your definition of progress is dishing out personal information to strangers? You need to change your mindset before you get yourself into trouble. The only acceptable reason for you to demand and feel entitled to my phone number is if it is business related.

But when girls ask for money and you say no then u become the bad/ stingy guy

vertueptime:
But when girls ask for money and you say no then u become the bad/ stingy guy

Abi na

thesicilian:

So your definition of progress is dishing out personal information to strangers? You need to change your mindset before you get yourself into trouble. The only acceptable reason for you to demand and feel entitled to my phone number is if it is business related.

Yet we put our personal details on social media such as facebook n twitter. details such as birthdays, family, work place qualifications etc. Which hostile agents will harvest and use them for malicious purpose. so which one is more disastrous, contact or details on social media?

heritage2009:


Yet we put our personal details on social media such as facebook n twitter. details such as birthdays, family, work place qualifications etc. Which hostile agents will harvest and use them for malicious purpose. so which one is more disastrous, contact or details on social media?

Those who put their 'life history' on social media are not security conscious.