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I Had : With Her by shakerz1: 11:30pm On May 30, 2010
Society has led us men to believe that our manhood lies not in our bravery or our honour but in the number of women we bed. The more skirts we lift, the more props we recieve. This couldn't be any farther from the truth.

Whenever a female walks by a group of Somali men, at least one of them will claim to have had sex with her. If their claim is true, they have unearthed a secret that Allah has hid from the rest of the world. In a Hadith found in Sahih Bukhari, the Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said: "My entire nation is safe, except al-Mujahirin (those who boast of their sins). Among the Mujaharah is that a man commits an (evil) act, and wakes up in the morning while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret, he says: "O Fulan! Last night I did this and that." He goes to sleep while Allah has kept his (sin) a secret but he wakes up in the morning and uncovers what Allah has kept a secret!". Also Abdullah Ibn Masoud (radiyallahu anhu) related, 'A man came to the Prophet and said: 'O Messenger of Allah! I have mingled with a woman in the far side of al-Medina, and I fulfilled my desire short of actually having sexual intercourse with her. So, here am I, judge me according to what you decide.' Umar Ibn al-Khattab (radiyallahu anhu) then said: 'Allah had kept your secret, why did not you keep your secret?'

If his claim is false and he in fact did not have sex with the girl, then he has fallen into a great sin. Allah says regarding this:
{ إِنَّ ٱلَّذِينَ يَرْمُونَ ٱلْمُحْصَنَاتِ ٱلْغَافِلاَتِ ٱلْمُؤْمِناتِ لُعِنُواْ فِي ٱلدُّنْيَا وَٱلآخِرَةِ وَلَهُمْ عَذَابٌ عَظِيمٌ }

Truly those who make accusations against chaste women who are unaware, shall be cursed in this world and the Hereafter; and there will be an awful punishment for them

Even in the time of the prophet (PBUH), women were defamed and their chastity questioned such so that Aisha (RA) the wife of the prophet (PBUH) was a victim of slander. To read the full story check out http://www.ahmadjibril.com/students/seerahIfk.html.

Let us not bring forth our sins nor should we accuse innocent women of such crimes. May Allah protect us from ourselves

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