In the last few months, especially on Twitter
there's been debate of what masculinity (http://www.themencode.com.ng/2017/10/25/masculinity-makes-man-man/)
should be for the man.
Effort also made to make men embrace their feminine side and
see their masculinity has a taboo from the patriarchy society.


Women also feeling their feminine nature makes them seem
weak and embraced their masculine side, so it's expected men
should also embrace their feminine side because it make
them real men. So the false narratives goes.


I have made my position very clear on this issues,
don't want to become feminine. I love my masculinity
whether it's toxic or not, I want to continue to embrace it.
Women should go embrace their natural order of feminity,
everyone is better off in their natural order.


Stay in your lane, do not come to my spot. Masculinity is to the man
as feminity is to the woman. We function and work well in our natural order.


We have also seen how all it's required is for a woman to
say/accused a man of sexual harassment and the hammer
of judgment will mightily fall on the man before trial by any
court to prove him guilty.


All that's needed is what the
woman says and with that his life career is ruined and
integrity destroyed for ever even though it's later
proven that she lied, that doesn’t matter any more.
The man and his career is ruined for life.


It's also appalling to see that a larger number of men
are deeply conditioned to promote the narratives of
the feminine social primacy that, they; like women are
ready to remove fellow men from the equation if it will
make the woman happy.


In their comments and opinions,
there's one common denominator which is in
favor of the feminine imperative, they say it,
implied it and basically think it's the right thing to do.
They now believe owning up to their masculinity is a
taboo except if it's accepted by their feminist princess.


Then there are the men who believe that in the past centuries,
men had it too good and so now it's time to atone for the 'good times'
their fore fathers had by allowing women to invade and take over
the male space and by so doing men compensate
for the past centuries of marginalization the then
women experienced which today women were
never part of and it don’t matter if she's qualified.


Like I illustrated in the Feminism, Egg Freezing, Egg Growing, Equal Pay And The Rest of Us Men,(http://www.themencode.com.ng/2018/02/09/feminism-egg-freezing-egg-growing-equal-pay-rest-us-men/)
If a woman is qualified, nothing stops her from applying for a job today.
To say because men had it too good for so long and she should be given
chances on a platter is half truth and gender bias.


Today women were never part of the struggle
of what happened centuries ago but are brainwashed
by the feminine imperatives using their main organ of
feminism to believe that the history they were never
part of should be use as a tool or leverage to demand
for what they don't deserved without earning it.


After the sexual revolution of the 1950s, access to
opportunities by women has become easier
than it was many centuries ago. Men must realized that the #MenToo
is not a court like following or another #MeToo version,
it's more of an avenue for men any where in the world to
listen to another man, stand together, help each other
and to understand the ever evolving inter sexual dynamics.


For too long, many men have had their voice stolen,
intentions interpreted in acceptable woman primacy
standard and made to believe their masculinity is toxic
and they should never embrace it, so they had it define for them.

Men need to own their masculinity and never get drunk in
the Main Stream Media or popular culture narratives,
it's who we are, we are not feminine and No. Embracing
your feminine side do not make you a real man.

Accepting your burden of performance,
knowing that it's all on you to provide, secure,
and protect your love ones is your sole responsibility.
Focusing on your self improvement physically,
mentally, socially and using the successful outcome
to care for yourself first and then the people/woman
you truly love makes you a real man.

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