Should I Walk Away Or Not - Romance - Nairaland
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Should I Walk Away Or Not (1170 Views)
To Send Her Away Or Forget The Past As If It Never Happened. I'm In A Dilemma / Why Most Men Walk Away Or Play You / I Gave Him An Ultimatum To Marry Me Or I Walk Out,but I Got The Shock Of My Life (2) (3) (4)
| Should I Walk Away Or Not by freshyoladipupo(m): 3:53am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Hello Romance ander Im in a state of dilemma and i need ur candid opinion... im in a relationship of over 8 years now, everthing seems to be going well until recently when i have the feeling that my supposed partner lacks interest in education...mind you, she will be 26 years in couple of months but can easily mistaken for 18 years. Im still hustling, currently on a teaching job of 40k monthly...........back to her matter, she once worked for a while and gathered a reasonable amount of money close over half a million cos ahe saves alot which im aware of...I have adviced her countless time to get kickstart a business with just a little amount and see see how it works which im quite optimistic about couple with the fact that i even got her an O level result to seek admission into at least a nearby polytechnic but she would have none of it.....mind you she was raised by a single mother .... This is a person i love dearly and want to build home with but she seems not to know what to do with her life again ever since we were both denied US Visa(separately tho!) My fears Now are 1. i dont plan to have my kids with a clueless woman cos most things about children revolve around mother and Talking about EDUCATION she is on the low side which is giving me concern 2. She was born a muslim but now go to church due even before i met her but she knows better that her being converted can not be bargained unless we are not meant for each other Pls i need ur candid opinion because we all know NO RESPONSIBLE WOMAN WILL WASTE HER TIME WITH A MAN WHO IS DOING NOTHING TO SECURE HIS FUTURE AND THE SAME GOES FOR MAN because if i were to be in her shoe, she might have moved on (all women would) and i will be tagged irresponsible guy. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by MANNABBQGRILLS: 3:58am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Sit her down. Talk to her. Ask her questions. Relationship is a talking thing. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Cutehector(m): 4:05am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Send her to school, she will use your money and sleep with those small small boiz. Be wise. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Ahmed0336(m): 5:34am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Cutehector: Nawa you o  |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by udemejack(m): 7:39am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Ahmed0336:that is the bitter truth,so deal with it. Be wise for once 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by ednut1(m): 8:25am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Who OND epp  U wey go school no be 40k job u dey do ni. Tell her to start a business |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Bluezy13(m): 10:53am On Jun 10, 2018 |
You don't love her 1 Like |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by freshyoladipupo(m): 11:45am On Jun 10, 2018 |
Bluezy13: Lol....After how many years.I could have left since but she once did the unthinkable for me which makes her earn my respect. im just trying to help her get her life cos im certain of being a beneficiary and this is someone i intended building home with. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by freshyoladipupo(m): 11:50am On Jun 10, 2018 |
ednut1: is there any harm in combining both....she seem to be not that intelligent to me, at times she call to ask how to get things done on her phone and some other little things. I just attribute everything to lack of interest in education and fear of the unkown to start a business. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by freshyoladipupo(m): 11:53am On Jun 10, 2018 |
post=68337973: She seems not to be interested in talking about it too. the last time we met was december 2017 but she will come around in couple of weeks time. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by ednut1(m): 11:57am On Jun 10, 2018 |
freshyoladipupo:den move on. One man wey no send go marry her |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by mimimile93: 12:04pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
freshyoladipupo: If she's well mannered (as good character) forget about education. Most of these educated women are feminists.. P. S: Never ever send a woman who is not your daughter to school.. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Bluezy13(m): 1:18pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
freshyoladipupo: There is a saying that if you can't convince them, join them. Either way, don't be their enemy. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Bluezy13(m): 1:21pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
freshyoladipupo: Now this story is getting complicated. You should hinted this in the original post |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
freshyoladipupo: |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Nobody: 1:39pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
freshyoladipupo:u think she is a savage u ar trying 2 help.... yet u say u love her, it might just be ur character. stop being funny u... daht bad. |
| Re: Should I Walk Away Or Not by Lalas247(f): 1:51pm On Jun 10, 2018 |
Op The bitter truth is School is not for everyone ... You should speak to her about courses .... like if she wants to do catering or baking .. maybe open a small shop .she can start by doing courses which doesn’t seem as daunting as School school! Tailoring etc . Try that approach ... As for her religion she has already converted that chapter is closed .. you both decide to raise your future kids the Christian way .. that shouldn’t be an issue .. even in Islam the wife submits to husbands wishes so there you go .  |
(1) (Reply)
Tomboy Proposes To Her Girfriend And She Said Yes / The True Love. / I'm Heartbroken And Confused; Help Me!
(Go Up)
| Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 36 |