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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by austyn0(m): 7:16pm On Jun 11, 2018
ImaIma1:
This one that is still living with his parents. What does he know?

I have realized that the guys that make such comments are guys that are just developing...probably just passed puberty stage cheesy.

But seriously, no mature man talks or reasons like this. Well, there is still time for him to grow up and get wiser.
You just reasoned like a kid as well via the emboldened....Age is just a number,, growing old is not the same thing as growing up.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by ImaIma1(f): 7:23pm On Jun 11, 2018
austyn0:
You just reasoned like a kid as well via the emboldened....Age is just a number,, growing old is not the same thing as growing up.


Explain how the bolded is reasoning like a kid.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by austyn0(m): 7:25pm On Jun 11, 2018
tiwiex:

Immature statement. He could have done some good ige he got his tenses right though. How in the world is a ladies marriage age his problem? Does it affect him in any way. I think sometimes Nigerians are so insane and bored. They just find anything to trend. The guy did not knockout out any body. Stop supporting cyber bullying of a whole group of people.
We sometimes say "You no fit talk or do pass your sense..."

The nigga said what he thought,, maybe as a joke or something, buh definitely there are niggies that agree to his reasoning.. You can't blame them,, we all no fit talk pass our sense,, I just type in as my sense fit carry.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by austyn0(m): 7:31pm On Jun 11, 2018
ImaIma1:


Explain how the bolded is reasoning like a kid.
You only think childish thoughts are just for the young, I'm letting you know today that adults reason like kids as well and you find young people reasoning more maturedly than adults...

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by ibkayee(f): 7:40pm On Jun 11, 2018
Whenever these types of threads are made, it's usually some bitter, older guy of little accomplishment projecting his frustration grin

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by sixtuso(m): 7:47pm On Jun 11, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
if the man is in his 40s, it is indeed a rescue mission FOR BOTH OF THEM!
No
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by streamsofjoy(f): 7:52pm On Jun 11, 2018
This is how they reason. He's not a man. He's only male. He's just got a cock, thatsall

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by ImaIma1(f): 8:17pm On Jun 11, 2018
austyn0:
You only think childish thoughts are just for the young, I'm letting you know today that adults reason like kids as well and you find young people reasoning more maturedly than adults...


That does not answer my question.

Reasoning like the person on that post is obviously a childish thought of someone that has not experienced life and understands what is important in life. Only sees things superficially.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by NdiaraIGBO: 8:17pm On Jun 11, 2018
babeosisi:
Girls are staying longer to marry for many reasons.
The main reason in Nigeria is that many of you men are unemployed ,unemployable,living with your parents at an age your mates around the world are settling down.
Many of you are unmarriable before 35.
You can't even pay simple bride price without borrowing from relatives

I bet you majority of you on here live with your parents,eating their food and begging for recharge cards ,some are looking for someone to scam.
How una go marry wife
Na who go marry the nwa baby?

Same applies exactly to the vast majority of Nigerian women!
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by SomehowBROWN(m): 8:42pm On Jun 11, 2018
My baby is 30, i'm 26 and if I don't marry that girl, there will b problem...good luck to u and ur mentality. I hope it works out for u, but nigga ur vision is bleak...Lmao!!
IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by boxypane(m): 8:44pm On Jun 11, 2018
All 30s ladies in his village are whores I guess. Foolish mentality.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by victorian(f): 8:59pm On Jun 11, 2018
sexdoll:


no, aunty i don't feel you at all.

i'd rather feel much younger girls. tongue wink






Am not saying that kind of feeling biko :PP

Don't run before your shadow
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by victorian(f): 9:02pm On Jun 11, 2018
Jeferious:
Did you just mention house rent covered? For three bedroom flat/duplex? You didn't even aim for a house owner/landlord?

See how you exposed a f##ked up mentality while trying to describe what you feel are lofty tastes and signs of luxury. From a economical point of view, a bachelor who occupies a three-bedroom flat deserves 100 strokes of cane. He should have stayed in a smaller apartment, paying a less rent while allocating the rest of the money into the building of his own house. Otherwise he is just wasting money.

As for you, make yourself useful. God did not send you into this world with the sole mission of hooking yourself to a financially stable man. Don't make yourself so small







Well I don't need to announce my achievements online .

Then there is no rule in life that say , I must end up with a broke man or marry a broke guy who cannot fend for himself

My man is as successful as I am.

Go figure !


Sorry, what am I even saying ? It will be too tasking for your Brain to figure .

So no need . I understand what u are going thru in life .
Sorry o!
Lol cheesy
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by austyn0(m): 9:04pm On Jun 11, 2018
ImaIma1:


That does not answer my question.

Reasoning like the person on that post is obviously a childish thought of someone that has not experienced life and understands what is important in life. Only sees things superficially.
I wasn't specifically shunning you because of what that guy said.....You generalized a happening, which is wrong.. Read below

ImaIma1:


I have realized that the guys that make such comments are guys that are just developing...probably just passed puberty stage cheesy.

But seriously, no mature man talks or reasons like this. Well, there is still time for him to grow up and get wiser.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by empire2017(m): 9:20pm On Jun 11, 2018
JupiterGeekVII:
Smh. It's always broke, ignorant Nigerian men with no ambition in life who have this kinda absurd mentality. Didn't Prince Harry just marry 36-year old divorcee, Meghan Markle? Props to the real, outstanding men like him out there.
okwu nkasiobi
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 9:28pm On Jun 11, 2018
Are you telling me that there is no virgin at 30? You are so shallow minded...people like you end up marrying a lady that will give you 4 kids, all from another man and you just labor in vain until you are 70+[ cryqquote author=IamD18 post=68375944]Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

[/quote]
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jun 11, 2018
Are you telling me that there is no virgin at 30? You are so shallow minded...people like you end up marrying a lady that will give you 4 kids, all from another man and you just labor in vain until you are 70+
IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!

Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by peetay(m): 9:46pm On Jun 11, 2018
ibkayee:
Whenever these types of threads are made, it's usually some bitter, older guy of little accomplishment projecting his frustration grin

You couldn't have said it better. Thumbs up.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by uzuede4(f): 10:40pm On Jun 11, 2018
Preshy561:
this one is still eating mama thank you.
You qualified him perfectly

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by smeag0l(m): 10:57pm On Jun 11, 2018
Hmmm....I wonder what's wrong with people. When has it become a crime to marry late?Is the lady going to marry herself if the right man doesn't come her way?Or are there no virgins at 30? For me, the only reason that will make m not marry a lady is if she's promiscuous, not God fearing, selfish(with entitlement mentality) and egocentric. Age doesn't matter if you meet a good woman. It's just that they're rare(I'm personally looking for one)

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by ImaIma1(f): 11:26pm On Jun 11, 2018
austyn0:
I wasn't specifically shunning you because of what that guy said.....You generalized a happening, which is wrong.. Read below




Pardon my generalization. I know that there are younger guys that reason in a matured way probably from their upbringing, people they mingle with or some other reason.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by ola753(f): 11:33pm On Jun 11, 2018
Foolish statement
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Brush1: 11:54pm On Jun 11, 2018
IamD18:
Real men don't rescue old evening newspaper, because they know their worth and won't like to settle for less with a used, re-used, re-re-used, re-re-re-used woman in her 30s.

Only desperate and poor men will ever think of marrying a lady in her 30s. Sensible and reasonable men with options will always go for younger women in their 20s because they worth it.

God forbid! Anyone that'll advice me to marry a retired HOE with depreciated body as a wife.

Tufiakwa!!
Abomination!!
I reject such idea!!


So do you really believe in that head of yours that every older lady is a LovePeddler and used up?. Here's the thing, you are ENTIRELY unintelligent.

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by PierreDeFermath(m): 12:08am On Jun 12, 2018
MrBrownJay1:
if the man is in his 40s, it is indeed a rescue mission FOR BOTH OF THEM!
dindirin suffering from low self esteem. you're probably very ugly. Muslims over 40 are marrying girls in their 20's even as second,third wife everyday. speak for yourself. if you're 40,you can never get a woman in her 20's
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Nobody: 2:04am On Jun 12, 2018
AgentGoat:
Me like older ladies cool cheesy kiss




I wouldn't care..
more like me like wrinkled pussyyy. smh
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:38am On Jun 12, 2018
PierreDeFermath:
dindirin suffering from low self esteem. you're probably very ugly. Muslims over 40 are marrying girls in their 20's even as second,third wife everyday. speak for yourself. if you're 40,you can never get a woman in her 20's

Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Westaslave2(f): 7:47am On Jun 12, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Like you know me. I'm in my 50s my son
Awka etiti bu obodo oma ,no be afonja lagos wey igbos dey hide
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Jeferious: 8:42am On Jun 12, 2018
victorian:








Well I don't need to announce my achievements online .

Then there is no rule in life that say , I must end up with a broke man or marry a broke guy who cannot fend for himself

My man is as successful as I am.

Go figure !


Sorry, what am I even saying ? It will be too tasking for your Brain to figure .

So no need . I understand what u are going thru in life .
Sorry o!
Lol cheesy
Who's talking about settling with a broke man? Where in my lines did I advocate that? I even urged you to go for something higher- a landlord. But you are contented with a three-bedroom-flat bachelor because maybe your parent's house is a one-room apartment. Maybe that's why a rented three-bedroom flat is a big deal to you.

Biko shift from my mention. You never reach

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Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by victorian(f): 9:11am On Jun 12, 2018
Jeferious:
Who's talking about settling with a broke man? Where in my lines did I advocate that? I even urged you to go for something higher- a landlord. But you are contented with a three-bedroom-flat bachelor because maybe your parent's house is a one-room apartment. Maybe that's why a rented three-bedroom flat is a big deal to you.

Biko shift from my mention. You never reach










Abeg go and sleep


I don't have your time , early morning

Bye !
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by tunize(m): 10:46am On Jun 12, 2018
Some topic funny oooh 30s now to marry don be bad tin and besides will the woman marry herself? Abi nor be wen she see husband she go marry?.
issues like this makes some ladies very desperate about geeting married to any available tin at the end of the day they come out as "Married single" abeg eeee waitn i know self
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by austyn0(m): 11:02am On Jun 12, 2018
ImaIma1:


Pardon my generalization. I know that there are younger guys that reason in a matured way probably from their upbringing, people they mingle with or some other reason.
Thanks for the understanding.
Re: "Proposing To A Lady In Her 30s Is Not An Engagement But A Rescue Mission" - Man by Euopal(m): 11:23am On Jun 12, 2018
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