Because of doubts flowing about the faithfulness of some ladies, people tend to forget that we have several faithful ladies in marriage...On suspicion, fear, doubt, panic of raising another man's kid to university level; some men may desire to go for DNA test to be sure of the paternity of their children....The issue here is, if the paternity test turns out that the man owns all children, their will be a major battle as his wife could divorce him; especially if the test was done without any evidence of infidelity. Again, if the test fails, it will take major grace for the man to keep his wife...

Ladies, if your husband suggests paternity test, what will you do

Do it and let brother ode body come down , i just answered fr many aunties right...?

I'm in support of DNA testing, for me if the test proves me wrong then I owe it to my wife to be more faithful. but never let your wife know about it, just run it codedly and if the result goes otherwise.. handle it like a man, she could go or she could stay your choice.

You can do it without telling her.

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A man has a right to know the paternity of his children with or without signs of infidelity so we shouldn't take it personally. Unless I have something to hide I should be okay with this request. This is a new age and with new advancements so there really shouldn't be any room for stigma. I would be offended if it was done without my consent or knowledge but if I was considered then I'd oblige. there are 3 people in this relationship, a father, a mother, and a child and they all have EQUAL rights so I couldn't put myself before them for the sake of my ego.

She's free to go after the DNA or stay , it's her choice .

In situation where I ain't sure if the child s mine , I will do a DNA .

This is 21th century Dont let no woman take you for a fool all in the name of love .

Tallesty1:
You can do it without telling her.

A DNA test isn't the problem but this deceitful and cowardly way of doing it is the problem. My husband will create an enemy if he did it like this! Hell has no fury like a woman scorned!

Be a man and say what you want after all it is your right to know the paternity of your child!