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Before U continue let me give U some advice, Never go after the crusher. Chances are they have U on a pedestal and U wil not be able to keep up with the imaginary U that's perfect in ther heads. If U must go after a crusher, pls do when the crush has abated and he/she just see's U as a normal person. U'll have better chances of having a more stable and meaningful relationship that way.

Emmayur:

I need an advice so i dont make any mistake. Three years ago,i met a girl called R who i became friends with.We were close but just friends on my own part.Friend started telling me she had a cruch on me,even her family members.I took it with a pinch of salt until one night we were together(this was 1 year after we became friends).We started from 5pm in the evening and we talked till 5am(it was a field at a camp we both went for).There i tried to convince her that she could trust me and so it started.Two days later,she called via extracool(infact she got me into talking at night with people) and told me she had a cruch on me, there and then,i asked her out, It was a wonderful time we had together-those TWO years we dated.In the month of Febuary, continued shortly,

Is this a nollywood story or what?

continued, Tragedy broke on the 4th of FEB.2010, a woman whose brother-in-law that was interested in her,called her to her house and lied about things that i knew nothing of.She sent me a text saying she wanted a break-up. I tried to mend it but it was not possible infact she asked me to stop calling.April came and she tried to talk and sent messages of LOVING ME but it was late,i had made up my mind to forget her.The issue is a child of the friend of same woman who lied to break up my relationship likes me and truly,i like her.But is it adviceable,after all that happened as the girl in question stays with the woman. Pls i need this advice.Thanks.

Two possibilities:

1. She's clearing way for her daughter, in which case U can go ahead.

2. She really doesnt think much of U and was making way for her in-law. Advice - love urself and find another girl especially if U don't have what U'l need to wage war against her and Ur ally isnt courageous enough to stand by U thru it all.

Emmayur:

continued, Tragedy broke on the 4th of FEB.2010, a woman whose brother-in-law that was interested in her,called her to her house and lied about things that i knew nothing of.She sent me a text saying she wanted a break-up. I tried to mend it but it was not possible infact she asked me to stop calling.April came and she tried to talk and sent messages of LOVING ME but it was late,i had made up my mind to forget her.The issue is a child of the friend of same woman who lied to break up my relationship likes me and truly,i like her.But is it adviceable,after all that happened as the girl in question stays with the woman. Pls i need this advice.Thanks.

Na u sabi, if you want make that woman control you for house no wahala u can move on with her daughter. your girl couldn't stand the test of time but everybody deserves a second chance. whatever you do don't fall prey to evil scheme, look for someone else or go back to the other girl,

join the 2 stories together, summarize it, n paste it, cos i dont understand the in-law breaking u up cos she n someone likes u

Emmayur:

I need an advice so i dont make any mistake. Three years ago,i met a girl called R who i became friends with.We were close but just friends on my own part.Friend started telling me she had a cruch on me,even her family members.I took it with a pinch of salt until one night we were together(this was 1 year after we became friends).We started from 5pm in the evening and we talked till 5am(it was a field at a camp we both went for).There i tried to convince her that she could trust me and so it started.Two days later,she called via extracool(infact she got me into talking at night with people) and told me she had a cruch on me, there and then,i asked her out, It was a wonderful time we had together-those TWO years we dated.In the month of Febuary, continued shortly,

Emmayur:

continued, Tragedy broke on the 4th of FEB.2010, a woman whose brother-in-law that was interested in her,called her to her house and lied about things that i knew nothing of.She sent me a text saying she wanted a break-up. I tried to mend it but it was not possible infact she asked me to stop calling.April came and she tried to talk and sent messages of LOVING ME but it was late,i had made up my mind to forget her.The issue is a child of the friend of same woman who lied to break up my relationship likes me and truly,i like her.But is it adviceable,after all that happened as the girl in question stays with the woman. Pls i need this advice.Thanks.

Emmayur:

continued, Tragedy broke on the 4th of FEB.2010, a woman whose brother-in-law that was interested in her,called her to her house and lied about things that i knew nothing of.She sent me a text saying she wanted a break-up. I tried to mend it but it was not possible infact she asked me to stop calling.April came and she tried to talk and sent messages of LOVING ME but it was late,i had made up my mind to forget her.The issue is a child of the friend of same woman who lied to break up my relationship likes me and truly,i like her.But is it adviceable,after all that happened as the girl in question stays with the woman. Pls i need this advice.Thanks.

thanks everyone for your advice.Let me say that the woman had a brother-in-law who well even i felt she was trying to help out.But for the girl i am concerned about,she is a daughter to the woman's friend.I really want to know if it is wise to date her, she has been supporting me even against her mother's friend's(who is responsible for her bills)will.

Emmayur:

thanks everyone for your advice.Let me say that the woman had a brother-in-law who well even i felt she was trying to help out.But for the girl i am concerned about,she is a daughter to the woman's friend.I really want to know if it is wise to date her, she has been supporting me even against her mother's friend's(who is responsible for her bills)will.

Don't understand a word u said

cant make head or tail of your story but from the title i guess you're trying to describe a romeo and juliet scenario.

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190 seems confused
i need an injection

OMG! I confuse me with this thread ooo. . .LOL

@Poster-- ur girl didnt trust u enuf. U r in love with the enemy's daughter. Take this advice--give ur girl a second chance, jus drop d idea of loving d daughter of that enemy woman. Her behaviour alone shows she's a schemer, and schemer are calculating and dangerous people to get mixed up with.
Bottom line---giv ur girl a second chance