What To Expect When Dating Or Planning To Marry A Nigerian Woman

Have you heard the saying that “Women are the most complicated beings on earth”? If you have, then you should know that there is some truth in it.

By many standards Nigerian women are among the best in the world; hence, the thought of having a date with them or even planning on getting married with one should be enthralling. However, as simple as that thought is, it is the direct opposite of what you’d expect. Don’t get me wrong though, I don’t mean that dating a Nigerian woman is hectic, or almost impossible, far from it as you will get to know.

The aim of this article is to serve as a guide to men who seek to go on a date with a Nigerian woman or want to marry one. The objective is that after reading through this post you would have gotten secondhand knowledge about the issue.
So, let’s get to it, shall we?

Nigerian women prefer confident men.
If you plan on going on a date with a Nigerian lady more than once, then you need to be confident or exude some confidence at least. Showing your confidence to a woman can be as simple as maintaining eye contact with her when talking with her or by limiting your compliments about her on your date. NOTE: Overly complimenting a lady will not win her to you; rather it does the exact opposite.

Understand that women are different.
Like anywhere, women have different desires and expectations of their “Prince Charming”. Moreover, Nigeria is a culturally diverse nation with multiple ethnic groups and tribes. Hence, what works for a particular Nigerian lady may not necessarily work on another, even when they are from the same ethnic groups. Hence, it might do you a whole lot of good to do your due diligence by making some research before choosing your date.

Nigerian women see their men as providers.
It doesn’t matter whether the woman is a working-class lady or not, as far as she is Nigerian, in most cases, she tends to still depend on her man. So, if you plan on dating a Nigerian woman, you need to put this at the back of your mind. She will try to find out whether you are employed, or not, so as to ascertain if she should continue the relationship or not. To the Nigerian woman, this is not a sign of weakness; on the contrary, she is prideful in it. When she sees her man as a provider and he acts in that respect, she accords him more respect.

She may occasionally ask you for money to make her hair.
While Nigerian women used to wear their kinky hairstyles in the past, times have since changed as they now prefer the Peruvian and Brazilian hairs or braids. It is common for a Nigerian lady to ask her man for money so as to make her hair, so, don’t get surprised when she asks, just give her. Moreover, she is making her hair primarily because of you

Most Nigerian ladies are good cooks.
A good number of women in Nigeria are good at cooking. They have learned the art of getting to a man’s heart through his stomach. It doesn’t the level or class of the lady, inasmuch as she is Nigerian, there is a high chance that she knows how to prepare your favorite meal. However, there is bound to be a bad egg in every egg crate – at least in most cases; there is a chance that you might also come in contact with a Nigerian lady that lacks culinary skills.

Most Nigerian women are faithful.
While it is common for most Nigerian men to think that life is not meant to be monogamous, the opposite seems to be the case with the women. Nigerian women are known for their faithfulness; it is not unusual for a Nigerian lady to snub you when accosted if she is already in a relationship. The reason for this faithfulness is not far fetched: Nigerian women have been brought up to have a high standard of morality that makes them cling to their man even when they are clearly not married.

Nigerian women make good wives.
This is not an exaggeration; most men who are married to Nigerian women can attest to this fact. Besides being faithful to their partners even before marriage, they do more when they finally get married. The culture and society have imprinted it into the minds of the Nigerian woman that obedience and submission to their husband are essential for a good home. This is not to say that there are no defaulters; no, instead what I’m trying to point out is the fact that a good number of them keep their homes in order and give their husbands their respect and loyalty.

They want their men to also respect and cherish them.
As much as a Nigerian lady respects and takes care of her man, she equally desires the same from her man. The first step in winning the heart of your lady is by showing her that you also respect and love her. If you go on a first date with your Nigerian woman, make sure that you come along with some little gift to appreciate her.

Feminism is not the view of a typical Nigerian woman.
While women overseas may be Pro-Feminists or advocates of the movement, an average Nigerian woman does not disturb herself with that. So, if you go on a date, don’t expect your Nigerian woman to pick the tab.

They prefer to marry from their tribe.
Most Nigerian women tend to marry men who are from their ethnic groups. So, if you are an outsider, chances are that you may not get a yes from her when you pop the marriage question. It even becomes more improbable when you are not a Nigerian; this is not to say that they cannot date you though.

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Why do i have the feeling that this is going to end up being a bashing thread?

ImaIma1:
Why do i have the feeling that this is going to end up being a bashing thread?

Ufan afo ame'ma bashing?

Actually none of the Nigerian Ladies have qualities of a good wife.

Ladies of this generation are writtenoff.

How can a girl fixed long nails and you expect her to wash clothes, how can she hold leaves and cut?


99% of Nigerian ladies can't cook a delicious meal.


They can't keep a house neat.

Have you ever entered a female room? If u haven't, please one of these days take a trip to a female hostel and see how dirty those girls are.

The wear one pant for weeks some wear torn pants.

Their rooms are always scattered.

They hardly wash plates after eating..


Their armpits can send you to your early grave.

mimimile93:
Ufan afo ame'ma bashing?

Mmaha bashing

But this is Nairaland where women are recipients of bashing.

All women are useless...all women are gold diggers...all women are trash...all women all women.

It is begin to sound like a song. You guys will soon need Davido to feature on the track

ImaIma1:


Mmaha bashing

But this is Nairaland where women are recipients of bashing.

All women are useless...all women are gold diggers...all women are trash...all women all women.

It is begin to sound like a song. You guys will soon need Davido to feature on the track

Ami mmaha bashing nkoh

mimimile93:


Ami mmaha bashing nkoh

Ame ma bashing. Ndoho afo ke bo "women are useless"

ImaIma1:

Ame ma bashing. Ndoho afo ke bo "women are useless"

Ucod ake nam

mimimile93:
Actually none of the Nigerian Ladies have qualities of a good wife.

Ladies of this generation are writtenoff.

How can a girl fixed long nails and you expect her to wash clothes, how can she hold leaves and cut?


99% of Nigerian ladies can't cook a delicious meal.


They can't keep a house neat.

Have you ever entered a female room? If u haven't, please one of these days take a trip to a female hostel and see how dirty those girls are.

The wear one pant for weeks some wear torn pants.

Their rooms are always scattered.

They hardly wash plates after eating..


Their armpits can send you to your early grave.

What kind of girls were you dating for heaven's sake??

It just seems you were or are a man of little standards.

99%?? Did you take that statistics yourself?

You are really a funny guy. I like your sense of humour

ImaIma1:

What kind of girls were you dating for heaven's sake??
It just seems you were or are a man of little standards.
99%?? Did you take that statistics yourself?
You are really a funny guy. I like your sense of humour

I was dating the ones who watch videos and do what they see.

mimimile93:


I was dating the ones who watch videos and do what they see.

Is it the type of video i'm thinking?