Hi, Got this friend who I feel is already in a mess, 'this is my opinion though'


She doesn't love this guy, but the guy seem to have been ever present in her life. He always wants to meet her need, and he meets them, even without her asking. The wrong she's done is accepting gifts, some of which, of course, at the time, she couldn't refuse as they are stuffs like (Providing sch fees at the dieing minute-You can relate)

She's repeatedly told him she doesn't love him, and had decided to stop contact, only for her to get a threat, like if you do this, I'll make you a male, guys would never talk to you again.

All he wants is marriage, but she doesn't want this.

I tried talking her into liking him, but she said she's tried but she couldn't love him. He threatens any guy that comes around her and looks ready to harm them.

In a situation like this, what should or can she do?

Braveryy:
Hi, Got this friend who I feel is already in a mess, 'this is my opinion though'


She doesn't love this guy, but the guy seem to have been ever present in her life. He always wants to meet her need, and he meets them, even without her asking. The wrong she's done is accepting gifts, some of which, of course, at the time, she couldn't refuse as they are stuffs like (Providing sch fees at the dieing minute-You can relate)

She's repeatedly told him she doesn't love him, and had decided to stop contact, only for her to get a threat, like if you do this, I'll make you a male, guys would never talk to you again.

All he wants is marriage, but she doesn't want this.

I tried talking her into liking him, but she said she's tried but she couldn't love him. He threatens any guy that comes around her and looks ready to harm them.

In a situation like this, what should or can she do?

She's mad.

She doesn't love him but loves his money & gifts.

She must marry him or return everything she has received from him before 21 market days else she shouldn't complain if he kills her.



On a second thought, what kinda low self-esteemed nigga actually spends money on a girl that doesn't give two bleeps about you?

What kinda "men" do I share oxygen with sef?

If a lady is smart, intelligent, responsible, reasonable and contented. She will never accept any gift from a man she rejected his relationship proposal.


If you could say NO to his relationship proposal, you should also be able to say NO to his gifts.

Reason why I'll keep saying an average Nigerian lady is abjectly poor and hungry.

She's obviously paying the price of all the gifts and money she collected from him.


Until she refund him, she should face the consequence of being selfish.

stop killing yourself over people that doesn't regard you. seriously,why is it too difficult for most guys to accept the word 'no.'

ignorance is the best answer for foolish treats like that, but why give him hope by accepting stuffs from him giving him the opinion that he has a chance with her anyway she has nothing to be scared of if she aint interested in him is best she ignores him to the best of her abilities if him seems like a thug and continue with his treats then she can get the authorities involved its dat simple

Some men dont accept no for an answer to their proposals particularly when she says yes to his greek gifts. That was her mistake in the first place. She needs to relocate to avoid coming in contact with him so as to avoid stories that touch.

Bring that your guy head lemme konk sense into it.

Typical Nigerian woman ...happy to receive but always put conditions when it’s time to give.
He should keep up with the harassment she will break. If she is not happy she repays all he has given simple!

WHEN A GUY GETS TREATED BADLY BY A LADY.TWO THINGS ARE INVOLVED IT IS EITHER HE NEVER ACCEPTED A LADY WHO TRULY LOVED HIM OR HE HAD TREATED A LADY SO MISERABLY BEFORE.

Thanks y'all. Am concerned about what she can do now.

Your friend abi u

Never try to buy someone's love.