queeneve:

*looking at my original post*

I said IF I don't want to have intimacy, I don't have to. I did not say that what I am doing at this moment, saying whatever I decides I don't want none, THEN I DON'T HAVE TO, if he decides he don't want to give me none, THEN THAT ON HIM, men can't live without sex for no more than five days, WOMEN can tolerate the lack of sex longer than men,

Marriage has nothing to do with sex and sex is part of human function naturally. It has nothing to do with marriage, and Marriage is a union between two people in the sanction of God that it. Nothing more nothing less. People add stipulations on what marriage should be about, the FIRST UNION were about companionship and committing with one another in partnership, SEX IS CREATED FOR PURPOSE OF CHILD BEARING, NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS,

People need to stop enforcing their views and opinions on others, EVERY MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT AND THERE ARE MARRIAGES THAT ARE SEXLESS, HAVE YOU BEEN READING THE NEWS PEOPLE?!!!

queeneve:

*looking at my original post*

I said IF I don't want to have intimacy, I don't have to.  I did not say that what I am doing at this moment, saying whatever I decides I don't want none, THEN I DON'T HAVE TO, if he decides he don't want to give me none, THEN THAT ON HIM, men can't live without sex for no more than five days, WOMEN can tolerate the lack of sex longer than men,

Marriage has nothing to do with sex and sex is part of human function naturally.  It has nothing to do with marriage, and Marriage is a union between two people in the sanction of God that it.  Nothing more nothing less. People add stipulations on what marriage should be about, the FIRST UNION were about companionship and committing with one another in partnership, SEX IS CREATED FOR PURPOSE OF CHILD BEARING, NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS,

People need to stop enforcing their views and opinions on others, EVERY MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT AND THERE ARE MARRIAGES THAT ARE SEXLESS, HAVE YOU BEEN READING THE NEWS PEOPLE?!!!

2 Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.
3 Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband.
4 The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife.
5 Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

1Cor.7:2-5

queeneve:

if i dont want to give my husband none for a whole year, i dont have to give him none,

queeneve:

*looking at my original post*

I said IF I don't want to have intimacy, I don't have to.  I did not say that what I am doing at this moment, saying whatever I decides I don't want none, THEN I DON'T HAVE TO, if he decides he don't want to give me none, THEN THAT ON HIM, men can't live without sex for no more than five days, WOMEN can tolerate the lack of sex longer than men,

Marriage has nothing to do with sex and sex is part of human function naturally.  It has nothing to do with marriage, and Marriage is a union between two people in the sanction of God that it.  Nothing more nothing less. People add stipulations on what marriage should be about, the FIRST UNION were about companionship and committing with one another in partnership, SEX IS CREATED FOR PURPOSE OF CHILD BEARING, NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS,

People need to stop enforcing their views and opinions on others, EVERY MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT AND THERE ARE MARRIAGES THAT ARE SEXLESS, HAVE YOU BEEN READING THE NEWS PEOPLE?!!!

queeneve:

I can see comprehension is not  A HOT item, neither I am a tape recorder,


What do you think STARTS the quest for CONSENT WITH TIME process?  A spouse had to show desire for a "break" in order for the discussion of Consent with time to take place, then again of course MEN start barking when a woman opposed to the latter, and KING James was a homo, just so you know,

harakiri:

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When need be, parents DO give advice you their children especially when the see them making grave mistakes that they would eventually regret or making certain decisions that would affect the children negatively.


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Whether you are a Nigerian or just an attention seeker on nairaland, (we get lots of those). . .no woman in good health would deny her husband seXXx for more than 3 months after childbirth.Even in bad health, the woman still manages to give oral seXxx to keep the man at bay.
I COMPLETELY AGREE WITH U: THIS ONE IS CERTAINLY AN ATTENTION SEEKER: SHES SO ADAMANT TO THE RIGHT THING: ON THE OTHER HAND IT COULD BE PLAIN IGNORANCE: SO I SUGGEST WE SAVE OUR ENERGY FOR BERA THINGS '& LEAVE MADAM ALONE:
Western culture has it's good and it's bad.This type of "Hollywood" mentality is the reason why almost all marriages NEVER last in the western hemisphere. They brainwash the public (ESPECIALLY WOMEN) that they are "free" to do whatever they like to their husbands and kids, they make it seem like the whole world is about "them", they encourage the women to divorce their husbands for the most ridiculous of excuses (e.g they got bored or they aren't happy) and the list goes on.I don't live in the western hemisphere but i do visit the US and UK from time to time and i have lots of relatives there especially aunts of mine WHO ARE LOYAL TO THEIR HUSBANDS and each of them has lived there for at least 30 years! ! ! So what the hell are you talking about? I see their daughters and they are well behaved (to the best of my knowledge).

There are women and there are ho's. . .it doesn't matter what country they are from.If you're a ho in the US, you're still be a ho in India and a ho in Bangladesh.Don't come up here rambling like some retard.

harakiri:

@adaphik

I agree with you.There's no point arguing with an attention seeker who probably has a long history of mental health problems!

queeneve:

Adaphi work on the jealousy sweety, people who claim other people are attention seekers often do not have anything witty to say so they resort to "YOU ATTENTION SEEKER" like that profound, ANYWAY,

Harakiki, you sound kinda hurt, did ex wife denied you love making?  I am sorry, wasn't intentionally trying to bring up bad memories for you, it gon be okay,

You sound kinda defensive for something that has nothing to do with you, but you welcome to step in my office, LET TALK, let me grab my pad and pen, now when was the last time you had some,

Afamdman:

Thanks harikii for telling her some truths. Seems 2 be hitting home. For her sake i hope her opinion changes, or your poor husband will just be labelled a cheat all becos of you.

queeneve:

Adaphi work on the jealousy sweety, people who claim other people are attention seekers often do not have anything witty to say so they resort to "YOU ATTENTION SEEKER" like that profound, ANYWAY,

Harakiki, you sound kinda hurt, did ex wife denied you love making? I am sorry, wasn't intentionally trying to bring up bad memories for you, it gon be okay,

You sound kinda defensive for something that has nothing to do with you, but you welcome to step in my office, LET TALK, let me grab my pad and pen, now when was the last time you had some,

queeneve:

Adaphi work on the jealousy sweety, people who claim other people are attention seekers often do not have anything witty to say so they resort to "YOU ATTENTION SEEKER" like that profound, ANYWAY,

Harakiki, you sound kinda hurt, did ex wife denied you love making?  I am sorry, wasn't intentionally trying to bring up bad memories for you, it gon be okay,

You sound kinda defensive for something that has nothing to do with you, but you welcome to step in my office, LET TALK, let me grab my pad and pen, now when was the last time you had some,