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HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Pharaoh001(f): 10:58pm On Aug 05, 2018
There was this my friend, boyfriend which I so much admired. We're best friend during secondary school days but now we ain't really close like before. She and her family just relocated to our area and that's how we've started to see and meet together.Sometimes we met at market and other times we both fixed an appointment to meet at saloon and our houses.
I got to meet her bf couple of months ago when she invited me for her mum's birthday. The guy was so nice,adoring and has everything a woman could ever wish for. I really don't think my friend deserves him coz she has some other bf, whom she extort a lot. I expected her to be faithful coz the way have always see the guy(her real bf) he looks so faithful,innocents and a kind of God fearing type.
I'm so confused coz I really like him and I want him. Have already got his number cunningly through my friend's phone but I don't want to make the first move.more so,I'm feeling reluctant to call or what'sapp him,so that he won't be thinking that I'm a cheap type.
Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Nofav0rs(m): 11:02pm On Aug 05, 2018
If I read and understood your story perfectly, you saying you want your friend's BF?

You are an...

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Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by dingbang(m): 11:02pm On Aug 05, 2018
Oya dey your lane na .
Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Kharol1234: 11:07pm On Aug 05, 2018
u wan steal ur frnd bf if she pour u acid nw u go say d grl do u bad weras na u look 4 trouble u beta dae ur lane or u get crush

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Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by HouseOfWine: 11:17pm On Aug 05, 2018
Its as simple as ABC...

Since he doesn't appear as a monster or a hideous creature to U

First say Hi on whatsapp/Txt msg and let the convo flow..

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Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by SoapQueen(f): 11:27pm On Aug 05, 2018
Your profile says you are not a bad person.
I agree with you, you aren't bad!

You are Evil!!

Woe betide friends like you that only wants what belongs to others. Olé ni e!

Stealing a man's number from your friend's phone. In this 21st century. She doesn't deserve him, you that you are a deserver wants to be his savior. Traitor!

I bet your friend is drop dead gorgeous, that's why no one wants you. If she is a cheat, she will meet her Waterloo.

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Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by DeBrain045(m): 11:38pm On Aug 05, 2018
Kharol1234:
u wan steal ur frnd bf if she pour u acid nw u go say d grl do u bad weras na u look 4 trouble u beta dae ur lane or u get crush
Nofav0rs:
If I read and understood your story perfectly, you saying you want your friend's BF?

You are an...
Kharol1234:
u wan steal ur frnd bf if she pour u acid nw u go say d grl do u bad weras na u look 4 trouble u beta dae ur lane or u get crush
SoapQueen:
Your profile says you are not a bad person.
I agree with you, you aren't bad!

You are Evil!!

Woe betide friends like you that only wants what belongs to others. Olé ni e!

Stealing a man's number from your friend's phone. In this 21st century. She doesn't deserve him, you that you are a deserver wants to be his savior. Traitor!

I bet your friend is drop dead gorgeous, that's why no one wants you. If she is a cheat, she will meet her Waterloo.
Umo see finishing am not sure this op will come back to her thread again.

Anyway she is just seeking advice from birds of same feather if you are not that type you could back off her thread

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Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Nobody: 11:45pm On Aug 05, 2018
Hahaha. cheesy grin This is why I don't have a female friend. The ones I know are acquaintants, and if any hurts me, I won't break a sweat. That your friend should be weary of you 'cause your types kill their friends over a man out of desperation to have him. Just imagine how you even washed the girl to justify your intended actions. Go find your own man!
Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by donjobill: 12:02am On Aug 06, 2018
SoapQueen:
Your profile says you are not a bad person.
I agree with you, you aren't bad!

You are Evil!!

Woe betide friends like you that only wants what belongs to others. Olé ni e!

Stealing a man's number from your friend's phone. In this 21st century. She doesn't deserve him, you that you are a deserver wants to be his savior. Traitor!


I bet your friend is drop dead gorgeous, that's why no one wants you. If she is a cheat, she will meet her Waterloo.


LWKMD !!! grin
Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by donjobill: 12:09am On Aug 06, 2018
kimbraa:
Hahaha. cheesy grin This is why I don't have a female friend. The ones I know are acquaintants, and if any hurts me, I won't break a sweat. That your friend should be weary of you 'cause your types kill their friends over a man out of desperation to have him. Just imagine how you even washed the girl to justify your intended actions. Go find your own man!

That's why I like reading comments from sensible women about the shrewd ones.
Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Nobody: 3:21am On Aug 06, 2018
Resist that your ojukokoro. Leave her man be and find your own.
Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by phemmyfour: 6:40am On Aug 06, 2018
Pharaoh001:
There was this my friend, boyfriend which I so much admired. We're best friend during secondary school days but now we ain't really close like before. She and her family just relocated to our area and that's how we've started to see and meet together.Sometimes we met at market and other times we both fixed an appointment to meet at saloon and our houses.
I got to meet her bf couple of months ago when she invited me for her mum's birthday. The guy was so nice,adoring and has everything a woman could ever wish for. I really don't think my friend deserves him coz she has some other bf, whom she extort a lot. I expected her to be faithful coz the way have always see the guy(her real bf) he looks so faithful,innocents and a typical God fearing type.
I'm so confused coz I really like him and I want him. Have already got his number cunningly through my friend's phone but I don't want to make the first move.more so,I'm feeling reluctant to call or what'sapp him,so that he won't be thinking that I'm a cheap type.
Its easy, look for his needs and meet them

Let him know that your friend is not faithful

Invite him over for a chitchat, once in a while.

Remember his birthday and any other special occasions and make it worthwhile.

Be nice to his family members if you ever meet them.

Make yourself available when they broke up, be a shoulder he can lean on.

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Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Pharaoh001(f): 10:56am On Aug 06, 2018
phemmyfour:
Its easy, look for his needs and meet them

Let him know that your friend is not faithful

Invite him over for a chitchat, once in a while.

Remember his birthday and any other special occasions and make it worthwhile.

Be nice to his family members if you ever meet them.

Make yourself available when they broke up, be a shoulder he can lean on.

Thanks so much!
Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Nobody: 6:03pm On Aug 10, 2018
Pharaoh001:
There was this my friend, boyfriend which I so much admired. We're best friend during secondary school days but now we ain't really close like before. She and her family just relocated to our area and that's how we've started to see and meet together.Sometimes we met at market and other times we both fixed an appointment to meet at saloon and our houses.
I got to meet her bf couple of months ago when she invited me for her mum's birthday. The guy was so nice,adoring and has everything a woman could ever wish for. I really don't think my friend deserves him coz she has some other bf, whom she extort a lot. I expected her to be faithful coz the way have always see the guy(her real bf) he looks so faithful,innocents and a kind of God fearing type.
I'm so confused coz I really like him and I want him. Have already got his number cunningly through my friend's phone but I don't want to make the first move.more so,I'm feeling reluctant to call or what'sapp him,so that he won't be thinking that I'm a cheap type.

My dear, screw your friend, you can never know who you will find your happiness with, they are not married and are in an open relationship. If you want something babe go get it. Funny he might just be another pun in your friends games but a king to you

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Re: HELP PLEASE! How Can I Get Him Without Being A Threat? by Fourwinds: 9:36pm On Aug 10, 2018
Pharaoh001:
There was this my friend, boyfriend which I so much admired. We're best friend during secondary school days but now we ain't really close like before. She and her family just relocated to our area and that's how we've started to see and meet together.Sometimes we met at market and other times we both fixed an appointment to meet at saloon and our houses.
I got to meet her bf couple of months ago when she invited me for her mum's birthday. The guy was so nice,adoring and has everything a woman could ever wish for. I really don't think my friend deserves him coz she has some other bf, whom she extort a lot. I expected her to be faithful coz the way have always see the guy(her real bf) he looks so faithful,innocents and a kind of God fearing type.
I'm so confused coz I really like him and I want him. Have already got his number cunningly through my friend's phone but I don't want to make the first move.more so,I'm feeling reluctant to call or what'sapp him,so that he won't be thinking that I'm a cheap type.
heheheheheheeee....


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