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Should I Call Him After Break Up? by Desiree47(f): 9:44pm On Aug 16, 2018
Good evening nairalanders I greet you all.. I really need you advise.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now.. Although it is a long distance relationships.
He was supposed to travel back to Abuja the next day, so he decided he was going to take me out after much talk.. He called his friend,I was really upset with his that because it was supposed to be just the two of us because he has spend some much time with his. This wasn't enough on our way he left me on the other side of the road to greet with telling..after that he didn't say he was sorry he repeated it for the second time I got angry and went back home.so he called and I told him I was at home,he was very angry.that night I went back to this place I wanted to explain how I felt but he was too angry.i told him I was sorry he didn't say a word.the next morning his brother told me he has traveled that my boyfriend was very angry with me.then his brother told me that he said he has already broken up with me but I wasn't aware.he then went ahead and tell me how many girlfriends his brother had and how he lavish money on them and I was really surprised.
I called my boyfriend and he hissed and ended the call.so I sent him message on whatsapp he didn't reply
until the next day..he denied everything,he told me he still loves me, that all the things he did was out of anger, although I didn't mention the name of his brother.
We finally broke up.this the first time we had serious issue that leads to broke up. I don't know if I should call him am missing him already.it really hard for me right now.I still love him so much
Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by SUPERPACK: 9:46pm On Aug 16, 2018
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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by frbona: 10:00pm On Aug 16, 2018
Desiree47:
Good evening nairalanders I greet you all.. I really need you advise.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now.. Although it is a long distance relationships.
He was supposed to travel back to Abuja the next day, so he decided he was going to take me out after much talk.. He called his friend,I was really upset with his that because it was supposed to be just the two of us because he has spend some much time with his. This wasn't enough on our way he left me on the other side of the road to greet with telling..after that he didn't say he was sorry he repeated it for the second time I got angry and went back home.so he called and I told him I was at home,he was very angry.that night I went back to this place I wanted to explain how I felt but he was too angry.i told him I was sorry he didn't say a word.the next morning his brother told me he has traveled that my boyfriend was very angry with me.then his brother told me that he said he has already broken up with me but I wasn't aware.he then went ahead and tell me how many girlfriends his brother had and how he lavish money on them and I was really surprised.
I called my boyfriend and he hissed and ended the call.so I sent him message on whatsapp he didn't reply
until the next day..he denied everything,he told me he still loves me, that all the things he did was out of anger, although I didn't mention the name of his brother.
We finally broke up.this the first time we had serious issue that leads to broke up. I don't know if I should call him am missing him already.it really hard for me right now.I still love him so much
ironic that there's sum guy out there who is willing to pamper you like the queen you are. But you prefer to be treated like thrash and you enjoying it. Its called Stockholm syndrome. You know what to do
Thank me later

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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by Heartbender: 10:01pm On Aug 16, 2018
The mistakes of young lovers. You have seen the signs yet you await a bigger gloom ahead of you. Cheers

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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by Nobody: 10:05pm On Aug 16, 2018
Believe me when I say this "relationship" doesn't have a future the earlier you move on the better.
I checked your posts and saw how troublesome this relationship of yours has been over the years and it's clearly one sided.
I beg you in the name of God pls move on and be the best you can be. The best is yet to come. Forget the fear of the unknown and take the risk. Someday you'll look back to this day and smile.

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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by LuciferKristi: 10:17pm On Aug 16, 2018
Desiree47:
Good evening nairalanders I greet you all.. I really need you advise.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now.. Although it is a long distance relationships.
He was supposed to travel back to Abuja the next day, so he decided he was going to take me out after much talk.. He called his friend,I was really upset with his that because it was supposed to be just the two of us because he has spend some much time with his. This wasn't enough on our way he left me on the other side of the road to greet with telling..after that he didn't say he was sorry he repeated it for the second time I got angry and went back home.so he called and I told him I was at home,he was very angry.that night I went back to this place I wanted to explain how I felt but he was too angry.i told him I was sorry he didn't say a word.the next morning his brother told me he has traveled that my boyfriend was very angry with me.then his brother told me that he said he has already broken up with me but I wasn't aware.he then went ahead and tell me how many girlfriends his brother had and how he lavish money on them and I was really surprised.
I called my boyfriend and he hissed and ended the call.so I sent him message on whatsapp he didn't reply
until the next day..he denied everything,he told me he still loves me, that all the things he did was out of anger, although I didn't mention the name of his brother.
We finally broke up.this the first time we had serious issue that leads to broke up. I don't know if I should call him am missing him already.it really hard for me right now.I still love him so much



Coming from a 47 year old woman!!

Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by 93Miles: 10:31pm On Aug 16, 2018
Desiree47:
Good evening nairalanders I greet you all.. I really need you advise.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now.. Although it is a long distance relationships.
He was supposed to travel back to Abuja the next day, so he decided he was going to take me out after much talk.. He called his friend,I was really upset with his that because it was supposed to be just the two of us because he has spend some much time with his. This wasn't enough on our way he left me on the other side of the road to greet with telling..after that he didn't say he was sorry he repeated it for the second time I got angry and went back home.so he called and I told him I was at home,he was very angry.that night I went back to this place I wanted to explain how I felt but he was too angry.i told him I was sorry he didn't say a word. the next morning his brother told me he has traveled that my boyfriend was very angry with me.then his brother told me that he said he has already broken up with me but I wasn't aware.he then went ahead and tell me how many girlfriends his brother had and how he lavish money on them and I was really surprised.
I called my boyfriend and he hissed and ended the call.so I sent him message on whatsapp he didn't reply
until the next day..he denied everything,he told me he still loves me, that all the things he did was out of anger, although I didn't mention the name of his brother.
We finally broke up.this the first time we had serious issue that leads to broke up. I don't know if I should call him am missing him already.it really hard for me right now.I still love him so much


At the emboldened. It might be a kind of test they are trying to put u tru.

Call him.
Plead for forgiveness.
Tell him how sorry you are.
Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by Bluezy13(m): 11:41pm On Aug 16, 2018
Ukoma9:
Believe me when I say this "relationship" doesn't have a future the earlier you move on the better.
I checked your posts and saw how troublesome this relationship of yours has been over the years and it's clearly one sided.
I beg you in the name of God pls move on and be the best you can be. The best is yet to come. Forget the fear of the unknown and take the risk. Someday you'll look back to this day and smile.


What has God to do with the begging
Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by Next2Bezee(m): 11:42pm On Aug 16, 2018
First: You overreacted by going home and leaving him there because he crossed the road to greet someone else. However, this shouldn't have had as much impact as it did on your relationship. You should have seen that as a sign of his unhappiness.

Second: There just may be an element of truth in those "rage-induced rants" that he made to his brother. You may have been the main chick, but he probably considered you replaceable.

Conclusion: There's so much a person should tolerate in a relationship. It's not good to tolerate too much, or your partner would take you for granted; trust me, I've been there. If you contact him, then you've indirectly agreed to put up with crap like this, or worse, when it happens again. Your worth in his eyes will reduce, and he will feel that he's doing you a favor by being with you.

I suggest you fight the urges, depression and whatever feelings you have from the breakup and move on. You'll be happy in the future.

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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by BrokeBoySolow(m): 8:47am On Aug 17, 2018
Desiree47:
Good evening nairalanders I greet you all.. I really need you advise.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now.. Although it is a long distance relationships.
He was supposed to travel back to Abuja the next day, so he decided he was going to take me out after much talk.. He called his friend,I was really upset with his that because it was supposed to be just the two of us because he has spend some much time with his. This wasn't enough on our way he left me on the other side of the road to greet with telling..after that he didn't say he was sorry he repeated it for the second time I got angry and went back home.so he called and I told him I was at home,he was very angry.that night I went back to this place I wanted to explain how I felt but he was too angry.i told him I was sorry he didn't say a word.the next morning his brother told me he has traveled that my boyfriend was very angry with me.then his brother told me that he said he has already broken up with me but I wasn't aware.he then went ahead and tell me how many girlfriends his brother had and how he lavish money on them and I was really surprised.
I called my boyfriend and he hissed and ended the call.so I sent him message on whatsapp he didn't reply
until the next day..he denied everything,he told me he still loves me, that all the things he did was out of anger, although I didn't mention the name of his brother.
We finally broke up.this the first time we had serious issue that leads to broke up. I don't know if I should call him am missing him already.it really hard for me right now.I still love him so much






Yo! Bae You deserve to be happy if you're not happy with the relationship or treated as you ought be treated leave girl.. Don't call him back it makes you needy and guys don't fall for such girls there's no attraction. more like his doing you a favour by being in the relationship, if he loves you he'll call to check up on you..

About the other night you overreacted, if his doing something you don't like talk to him about it.. Set your standards and stick to it..#Done
Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by Desiree47(f): 3:44pm On Aug 17, 2018
He called me and he has been begging me to forgive him..He said he was very angry with me the day I left him and his friend..that his friend was amazed that he doesn't have control over me. Although his brother told me that he could have said those words out of anger that the relationship was over. he never told me it was over between the both of us,i was the one who told him bcus of what his brother told me. I don't know if I should forgive him or just move on with my life...the truth is I still love him and he knows I do love him. am really confused
Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by Nobody: 4:59pm On Aug 17, 2018
No one is perfect ... If you still love him and you are okay with other aspects of his life... Why not continue with the r/ship.... You're not broken, just bent...
















Buy your cheap data ASAP

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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by ultimate77(m): 5:42pm On Aug 17, 2018
young woman, when i came here with my own relationship ish i received this same advice. The guy is just like you've witnessed, he ain't gon change. Yes, we always love people who hurts us so much and forget we have better alternatives.

I moved on, though hasn't been easy but im coping after 5months.

Just pack up yourself, move on. You will be happy you did. More grace.

Peace.

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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by ultimate77(m): 5:49pm On Aug 17, 2018
Desiree47:
He called me and he has been begging me to forgive him..He said he was very angry with me the day I left him and his friend..that his friend was amazed that he doesn't have control over me. Although his brother told me that he could have said those words out of anger that the relationship was over. he never told me it was over between the both of us,i was the one who told him bcus of what his brother told me. I don't know if I should forgive him or just move on with my life...the truth is I still love him and he knows I do love him. am really confused

you women sef get fast mouth. Two of you are short tempered. Better look before you leep all.

Peace

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Re: Should I Call Him After Break Up? by slimanyd: 9:14pm On Dec 10, 2019
Believe me when I say this "relationship" doesn't have a future the earlier you move on the better.
I checked your posts and saw how troublesome this relationship of yours has been over the years and it's clearly one sided.
I beg you in the name of God pls move on and be the best you can be. The best is yet to come. Forget the fear of the unknown and take the risk. Someday you'll look back to this day and smile.

He is about to go back to same relationship now .

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