I decided to (today) delve into some of the physical appearance of women that set off wrong signals. Some women might think that they are doing the right thing but actually the reverse is the case as the effect they hoped to get from such does not really work that way.

It takes a man to reveal to you those things that attract them to woman and those things that turn them off.

Your clothes/dressing: it is said that the way you are dressed is the way you will be addressed. You can not be going about half unclothed and expect to attract Mr. Right. The fact that such dressing attracts stares and “wows” from male onlookers does not imply that they are impressed with you or your looks. Some of them would without doubt want a “relationship” but be sure that such desire is just to have a piece of the advertised merchandize and move on! Incase you do not know, there is no right thinking man who loves and cares for you and that have future plans for you would want you exposing some vital parts of you body to other people.

Your make up: it never ceases to amaze me when I see some women wearing excessive makeup. The essence of makeup is to fine-tune and bring out that natural beauty that you possess. Some women wear make up that instead of making them look more beautiful and attractive, they end up looking like masquerades and disgusting to even look at! Please stop that. Your eye shadows, lipstick or lips gloss should all be applied moderately. Too much of everything is bad.

Your nails should be well trimmed and clean. Use responsible colors when painting your nails. Do not leave them too long either. We were coming from church the other day when we saw this girl going to the same church! She looked like a LovePeddler to put it mildly! Her nails had different colors of nail polished (black, blue, green etc!) I could not help but ask her if that was the latest style/trend in town. If you were a man, would she be attracted to you? I seriously doubt it!

Some ladies has also decided that to attract the attention of a man that loose fitting bras that would allow the bosoms to be “dancing” uncontrollably are to be worn! This is wrong. I personally admire a lady with a full bosoms but it turns me off when I see one flaunting them with reckless abandon! This does not appeal to the good sense of Mr. Right either.

Wearing of padded bras! This is one thing that has saturated the fashion industry in recent time. Bras with foams! My sisters, if you are not well endured up there, use what nature gave you. There is no point wearing falsies! Suppose you succeeded in attracting a guy with your falsies only for him to discover that what he thought you had were fakes? Besides, a train eye always sees and recognized such padded bras! Who is fooling who? If you have them (full bosoms) well okay but if you do not, make do with what you have. Stop trying to saw saw dust! Bear in mind too that not all men are big-bosoms-crazy!

Use deodorant and nice smelling perfume to add class to your appearances:  funny as this might sound true still remain that some people still feel that wearing perfumery is a sign of dirtiness and worldliness! Where they got such ideas from I still do not know. My sister, there is nothing worldly or dirty in one using deodorants and perfumery! Look great without been bash and smell good without been offensive. We all do not like offensive smell and your Mr. Right is no exception!

Shoes, bags and hairdos should be done with care bearing in mind your color, size, shape and all. It is not every style you see in the magazine or movies that you should imitate. Fact is that in most cases the people you see in movies/magazines with some kind of crazy styles use what you see them wearing for just that appearance and nothing more. You will never see them on the street dressed like that and some of these people you want to imitate are into show biz. Those dresses are just for business and nothing more!

I could go on and on but the above should be okay for now least I start boring you. To cap it all, decency is the watchword.

Culled from: “10 WAYS TO KEEP YOUR MAN COMMITTED TO YOU” by the poster

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i pray in the name of God the most high that they read and take lessons from above

insightful

fizzybaba:

i pray in the name of God the most high that they read and take lessons from above

insightful

EXACTLY my brother!**wheeeew **

fizzybaba:

i pray in the name of God the most high that they read and take lessons from above

insightful

Can u pls summarize the post for me? Just too tired to read all that

Ok.

Noise!!!

Turn on and Turn off (s) are totally subjective. . . . .They cannot be generalized.
One man's Quiet is anatha man's Din.

9ice one and very true!

Missy B how you dey na? will like us to have a chat later

LOVE.4BUG:

Missy B how you dey na? will like us to have a chat later

I'm aiight, thanks. I wouldn't mind.

mr poster speak for yourself, what if i told u i totally dig all those ur yeye points?

i like masqurades, i like multicolored nails, fake weaves, fake boobs, fake women in short!!!
fake accents, airs, fake smiles, fake niceties

and i totally hate perfume on women, i prefer the smell of stale sweat and probably some odoriferous matter from down-under (australia)

i love bogus hairdo, the crazier the better, i like the tits bouncy all around, the butt shaking like its gonna fall off, in short i like jezebel

BITE ME!!!!

who tell u say na this ur post be the koko, girls DONT LISTEN TO HIM, PAY HIM NO ATTENTION!!!! see those shoes like 10 inch heels u have been dieing to wear to church, pls put them on, why use make up if u gonna be stingy using it, apply liberally!!!, very short skirts, ditch the bra if u big, if not add more foam to the padded one
forget the panties abeg, only when on shld u use them, i love when u climb a bike and i see the crack in ur ass

just send me a pic

This post is refreshing, first time for everything. I have to agree with this post from a male person on women. Most of the above mentioned urks me too as a woman. Good post!

@carol speak for urself, some of us like plastic women and some women love been plastic

we match.

if u cant buy makeup in bucketloads, or cant shake ur tits why complain abt those who can?
MYOB abeg

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Missy B how do we get in touch

This post is wrongly titled. It should be title Sure Turn Offs For Julian H!! Ladies please if you are not amply endowed boobs. wise PLEASE wear padded bras ohhh!! The dude you are planning to hook may find out that he was deceived when you do take your bra off but hey by then it is too late. So go make bra sellers happy and buy out all the padded bra.

See as some girls just dey provoke on top this thread dey form "I no fit read." If the topic were "How to go down on a woman and make her love U more" or smth like that and it was 10pages long dem for read am plus wetin person wey start thread no even yarn.

LOVE.4BUG:

Missy B how do we get in touch

Erhmm . . . .Ionno. Help me do the thinking.

@poster, i agree to an extent with ur post though some guys actually like plastics(girls) but am of the opinion too that things should be done in moderation but like the saying goes; one man's food is another man's poison.

Talking about physical appearance, I get turned off when I see ladies wit tartar clogged on or between their teeth. Ah! Horrible sight 4me. Some with brownish green layer like algae on their teeth. Meeehn! Some of them dress well & u stil see these things.

@ missy B

How are you? Not seen you 4 a while here. Kinda miss u. Hope u good?

[s]I can't remember distinctly, on what occasion, I had sum'n' to do with this User.[/s]

I'm fine and I've been very much around, thanks! You aiight?

People, This is not just my personal opinion (even though i detaste those traits i pointed out), i did my homework.

Like a poster said, some people like "falsies" but i happen not to be one of them!

AND NA TRUE TALK, ONE MAN'S MEAT IS ANOTHER'S OTAPIAPIA!

Just two words "masquerade indeed".

I quite agree with the poster

The major summary of the whole post is that ; Most men prefer the neat and presentable ladies over the beautiful but untidy ones.

mmmm,
that's quite true, but hw do we (girls) know when we're hooking the right guy that likes our type of make up (masqurade or holy sister is it)??

I hate men who kiss like frogs.

I hate men who think they deserve the best looking girl in town but they are below average.

I hate conceited ass men but confidence is a must, especially if you got the looks to back it up. If you be wor wor face-y oh, abeg, PLASTICSURGERY!!! !