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Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by YoungDaNaval(m): 5:29pm On Sep 07, 2018
lefulefu:

6he way some nigerians embarras themselves over food is amazing cheesy.go to some ceremonies and u will some ppl fighting over a plate of badly cooked jellof rice and half done meat cheesy.
There's hunger​ in the land bro
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by Nobody: 5:36pm On Sep 07, 2018
YoungDaNaval:
oga but the girls supposed dey use their head na. one wey I carry go see movie. when we wan go, she begin other for shawarma. not one, but three!!! can you imagine that? first date oooh!
three sharwama?shocked. Na where she wan see d stomach to eat am? Anyway na mostly the local mbeke babes dey fight over food. A girl dats exposed wont be embarrasing her self over food.forget d makeup and jeanscheesy.u will still identify a local mbeke even if she dey on makeup and wig.
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by YoungDaNaval(m): 5:41pm On Sep 07, 2018
lefulefu:
three sharwama?shocked. Na where she wan see d stomach to eat am? Anyway na mostly the local mbeke babes dey fight over food. A girl dats exposed wont be embarrasing her self over food.forget d makeup and jeanscheesy.u will still identify a local mbeke even if she dey on makeup and wig.
Abeg forget mumu girls Matter make we talk better thing. how far na? e don Tay ooooh
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by Nobody: 5:43pm On Sep 07, 2018
YoungDaNaval:
There's hunger​ in the land bro
this ppl i am talking about are ppl who are well dressed and they dont look hungry. I remember one friday ceremony i attended and this very fat woman was just making noise and attacking the rice and meat like someone who hasnt eaten for three weeks. As she was attacking the food she was still collecting takeaways and putting it inside one big black polythene bag. Her husband jus siddon for one corner dey look. Na so we jus dey watch her as she dey attack d food and down a bottle of small stout.i never see person chop like dat b4 shocked.
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by Nobody: 5:45pm On Sep 07, 2018
YoungDaNaval:
Abeg forget mumu girls Matter make we talk better thing. how far na? e don Tay ooooh
mehn i dey fine jor.long time .hmm i be dey think say u be don evacuate comot from earthcheesy.
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by YoungDaNaval(m): 5:46pm On Sep 07, 2018
lefulefu:
this ppl i am talking about are ppl who are well dressed and they dont look hungry. I remember one friday ceremony i attended and this very fat woman was just making noise and attacking the rice and meat like someone who hasnt eaten for three weeks. As she was attacking the food she was still collecting takeaways and putting it inside one big black polythene bag. Her husband jus siddon for one corner dey look. Na so we jus dey watch her as she dey attack d food and down a bottle of small stout.i never see person chop like dat b4 shocked.
Forget packaging ooh! hunger dey oooh! not all that glitters is gold. For my area for pH, you go see fine fresh guy with well ironed fitted senator​ with nice shoe dey beg you 100naira make them use drink Garri. Ogbeni things hard ooh
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by YoungDaNaval(m): 5:49pm On Sep 07, 2018
lefulefu:
mehn i dey fine jor.long time .hmm i be dey think say u be don evacuate comot from earthcheesy.
Hahaha I still dey Earth ooh! na one mod lie put for my head knack me ban. I report give seun to check my post if I've ever Insulted ipob before. he no reply me. me wey dey support biafra ooh!
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by motherfucker: 11:39am On Sep 08, 2018
mysticgal:


That's correct. But imagine if that lady was taking to a highbrow restaurant that costs over 10k angry

How can you say 10k is expensive? Mschwwweee but u sabi chop boy money wey pass 10k.

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Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by mysticgal(f): 12:01pm On Sep 08, 2018
motherfucker:


How can you say 10k is expensive? Mschwwweee but u sabi chop boy money wey pass 10k.
10k would buy me 2 clothes on Instagram plus delivery...so don f***ing tell 10k ain't expensive.
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by OgogoroFreak(m): 1:15pm On May 01, 2019
Why would a sane bitch leave home for a date without raw cash, her atm card or with an empty bank account?
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by Yem007: 1:41pm On May 01, 2019
OgogoroFreak:
Why would a sane bitch leave home for a date without raw cash, her atm card or with an empty bank account?

Hungry hoes everywhere


lol
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by Nat404: 11:48am On May 05, 2019
mysticgal:
It is now a new trend in Nigeria (as it may seem)to leave dates stranded with bills and this is tilting towards the female folks.
Guys, leaving a lady at a restaurant without paying your bills after you both agreed to meet doesn't make you much better than she is. Besides, calling her a slayqueen and still trying to take her out meant you needed to know her,date her or even have sex with her prompting the meet up which makes it a good oppourtunity to reason together in order to avoid conflict of interests. Forget the flimsy excuse you are about bringing up in your mind already. No one held you at gun point to pay for the food or even say no to the bogus request by the lady. You could tell the lady how much you intend to spend for the date and if she refuses that,then the date could be called off. What fun is derived from embarrassing her?

Look, i am not trying to justify a lady bringing her friends to a date or even requesting for really expensive meals. All I'm saying is that, taking the right and moral step to curb an excess like this would as well bring change like the stranding brouhaha.

Meanwhile Ladies,you can't keep putting unnecessary tags to dates especially first dates. "It must be an expensive restaurant, i must drink wine, I must take away for my friends"..that is bull crap. The culture of cutting your coat according to your cloth needs to be reiterated to you girls. You don't need to look and eat expensive to make a date a good one.

Fam,the term ' Date' does not necessarily have to be attached to food,malls or restaurants. There are museums and other fun places you could go to for dates. Save yourselves the embarrassments.
Truthfully, for dates,I have eaten in 5 star restaurants countless of times without me requesting to be taken there, neither have i been left stranded with bills. All i am just saying is that we should be matured about this whole thing and focus on making ourselves better. Be matured fam.

From a concerned Nigerian Lass.

Cc...lalasticlala,Rocktation,farano
I think the best thing here is to go Dutch. I pay mine, you pay yours. But in Africa, it's a different ball game in the sense that the women expect you to pay for theirs.

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Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by mysticgal(f): 11:49am On May 05, 2019
Nat404:
I think the best here is to go Dutch. I pay mine, you pay yours. But in Africa, it's a different ball game in the sense that the women expect you to pay for them.

it depends on the circumstance tho
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by Nat404: 11:55am On May 05, 2019
mysticgal:


it depends on the circumstance tho
In fairness, it doesn't. If these Nigerian women could first of all ponder this, no man or guy will take them for a ride.
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by y3mi(m): 12:12am On Jun 14, 2019
mysticgal:
It is now a new trend in Nigeria (as it may seem)to leave dates stranded with bills and this is tilting towards the female folks.
Guys, leaving a lady at a restaurant without paying your bills after you both agreed......
Superb, mind you Nigerian gals just like the majority of the Nigerian people in general always continue to get a whole lot of concepts behind so many western practices wrong and twisted. Not just dating where everyone thinks if two people are dating, no other has a access to either of them, forgetting that two people dating are different from two people actively in a relationship. Cos, that's the impression people who talk about dating or seeking out to date somene tend to give mw. Feel me?

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Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by ojuu4u(m): 4:51am On Jun 14, 2019
Some guys also in habit of doing that, immediately you call them for a drink, he/ they would be calling their friends too as if they have met ATM, to me, if you don't have a dime to add, you don't have reason to call your friends to join you
Re: My Personal Views On Leaving Slaymama's Stranded by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jun 22, 2020
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