We met at secondary school, so we 've being dating for about 5 year now after we finished our final year at school then he  suddenly change not knowing what i did to him so he become too ash to me dat i can't call him and talk to him again, so some months later his freinds call me tell me dat i should breakup with him and i find  dis very difficult for me so i decide to change my environment becos of him and it get to a year dat we've met again after dat year i decide to go back to were am staying before. Returning to my home he came looking for me and start begging dat i should be dating him again but i 've already have another person dat am dating which promise to marry me and every body knows him in my family, so i don't know what to do cos i still have the feeling for him because he is my first love pls advice me on what to do

You posted to the wrong forum. You will get beter responses in the dating/romance forums. Good luck!

Moved to Romance.

Please move on with your life ohhhh, don't wast your time with this boy.

He doesn't care about you at all or either your feelings.

Am sure the is someone out there for you, that will love and cherish you.

But if you are going to give him a second chance think about the outcome.

Goodluck with your decisons

Dearie, don't hook up back with your first love just because he's your first love. "First loves" are always hard to let go even when you know there's no bright future for yu guys, ,

don't continue in your-now relationship just because he promised to marry you and your whole family knows him. Are you dating him just as a rebound but don't truely love him, i guess this is the right time to do him a favour and let him go find his own girl

whta about getting a guy that is your dream-guy, love you as much as you love him, cherises you. treadts you like a princess, gets to know your family and still want to marry you. That is the ideal marriage

marriage is not something you just walk into without being 98% sure of what you're doing. its not something you can just come back here and say "i married him cos i thought i'd love him, but have found out i can't" because dearie, we'd tell you hang on in there for better for worse

now we/you wouldn't want that, would you now?? so don't let that be your case

Dear if you ask me, i'll advice you to search your heart, do you really love this your "first love", are you just after what you guys once had?? you might get back with him and end up dissappointed because he's grown out from the guy you used to love, would you be able to handle it??. If you're sure your heart and body is there, you might give him a second chance and see what happens.

but dearie if your mind is in doubt, i suggest you take a break from both guys, and find yourself first cos it does seem as if you're getting lost in the whole situation

you're not actually sure of what you want and dearie, a confused mind ends up taking the fast and wrong decision. We'll help you in our little ways but at the end of the day, you're the one that would have to carry the cross, so choose the right cross

@delegurl
Tell your first love that he is too late and that he should find somebody else because you are already hooked !

looks like you have no feelings for this your so called present guy,he promise to marry you is not the issue but do you feel anything for him
and if you decide to go back to your old guy,do you consider the present guys feelings.

u don wake?

Serious situation, all i will say is follow your heart.

Goldieluks:

u don wake?

yes dear. How was ur night?

Firearm:

yes dear. How was your night?

was good,how was yours?