Hello guys here is another thread again Now what I am about to say is going to get people on their nerves but I don't care and I know how quick Nigerians are to insult
All those African men looking for a perfect woman will look and get tired.So what do they mean by a woman should never disrespect their man? Pls somebody should not make me laugh Upon all the disrespect that Nigerian men here display towards their women here is alarming How will somebody come and read things here in nairaland and still marry a Nigerian man for what? Except you want to die early.Look nobody should even try and tell me stories about mothers of those days because my mum is one of them she got married at age 18 which I think is really stupid but anyways,and she does argue with my .What makes you African men think that you will in a marriage where there is no argument? Have you ever seen that type of one before except both partners are mumus
There is a saying that goes we must disagree to agree you see that is the way it is
I cannot even imagine a man opening his dirty mouth to say that nonsense So I should still respect someone who treats me like crap? Some of you are sick in the head
And what is up with this mentality that is only a woman who starts and argument or can insult?
Are you stupid or something?
I for one I am very quiet person when I say quiet I mean very quiet and if you don't believe me ask those who know me I don't talk too much so all this nonsense of the lady speaking more than the guy in a relationship is stupidity. So because I don't talk that much does that all of a sudden make ma a man? I don't think so!
The best thing I do when someone gets on my nerves I mean pushing to the wall like some of you stupid African men claim women do when you also do it is to ignore.I just act as if you're not even there
And nobody should tell me any crap about I don't know Nigerin girls well or Nigerian women.I don't give a Bleep! Honestly! Some of you men and your mentality bleeped Africa into a COMA!! In case you did not.Just because somebody offends me in a relationship does not give me the bases to hit them.Never in my life have I raised my hand to slap somebody? Why in the hell should I do that? What am I trying to tell that person that I am their parent right? When the bible instructs parents to give a slap to a child as a form of discipline people take and want to now use it on adults what!? Since when?! That one is MADNESS!! I will never slap my boyfriend or husband just because he said something to me or cheated but if he does cheat,I will walk out of the relationship like there is no tomorrow
And also to add this one of the most ugly trait in African men is intolerance
HAHAHA!!! I di laff wuna All these people screaming all over the place about intolerance I pity you eh! I really do
Do you think marriage works with magic? No it does not I am not saying it is okay to just disrespect someone all the time but when you do some dumbshit and you expect to be respected THAT IS WHAT I CALL YOU JUST BOTTOMED UP YOUR STUPIDITY!!! NObody should just get up and respect someone because the person is a particular gender NO!! Respect someone for the way the person treats you and carries him or herself.I hate seeing bullshit on nairaland everyday
You don't expect to get respect all the time I mean ALL THE TIME!!! for doing what? Nothing? Madness where did you see that one? And that thing they say that in an argument a woman can say all sorts of things excuse me are they two people arguing or one? I don't understand pls someone enlighten
So when the woman is insulting the man is not also insulting right?? STUPIDITY!! If it is only one person talking then why call it an argument. An argument is a talk between two people.Look I do not discriminate against any gender whether they have a vagina or not.I just hate when people write dumbshit and don't read what they just posted.
And any sane man out there should know that nobody stands and complains for nothing yep if your woman is complaining about a certain thing in a relationship abeg check it and stop behaving too big like what she is saying is not important you just made matters worst because when someone is complaining about something to you and you act like it is not important, just listen you don't necessarily have to do anything actually
Keep asking for a loyal,tolerant and patient person when you don't have any of those traits and see whether that marriage will not collapse because it will be one sided
I am not saying that you men shud be perfect but also you should not expect women to be perfect and superwomen abeg!!
I know there are things you are not even supposed to tolerate like
No respect
No love
Too much disrespect( not never disrespect keep saying never and it will happen
Domestic violence ( this is for both men and women) men do get physically abused
I don't see anything wrong in a guy hitting a girl who hit him first or vice versa I mean why are human beings stupid sometimes.If you want a perfect marriage,then ask God to send you an angel or wants from heaven they are sinless aren't they?
People should try and learn human nature sometimes let's forget about individual nature now
You want to tell me that if you were living in your aunts house and she discriminates against you and treats you like complete trash you will respect her!? That one na craze!
Even in Cameroon here men don't insult women the way you Nigerian men do my goodness!!
And for all those men who say women complain all the time,they are too emotional they can be annoying
Wait men are not annoying oh I forgot African men are saints!! NONSENSE!! I'm not saying that because marriages are not perfect that you shud go and choose a horrible serial killer in the name of a partner no! But just choose someone right but that person will come with a little flaws and that is what we shud be looking for someone with a little flaws that we shud be able to manage and cope not someone with no flaws at all where did that one come from.If you have then that person is not a human being

And of course we should stop with the female and male stereotypes it is what is still dragging Africans behind.You think it is economic development?! Forget that thing! Sometimes we just have to look in the mirror and see that we are the cause of where we are still up till today.They say European countries are one of the most developed countries in the world not because of economic development but because of their mentality. If you see the way some of them reason then you wouldn't have to ask why they are so advanced as they are
We should stop saying it is western culture Bleep we shud start blaming ourselves cause we are the real cause.A country is considered from the way it treats it's prisons said by Nelson Mandela in case some of you do not know.And for all those men still complaining about women,pls marry a man and Bleep one if possible it is a free world Do what ever the Bleep you want! Nobody is stopping you
But it will be very stupid of you to complain like that and still marry a woman what is the need? I will understand if some of you base it on race more understandable to me
And aslo one of my most shocking findings is the rate at which lists are made here for women to follow just to please men really!?? Ridiculousness!!!! You will see 1000 threads telling a woman how to do this and that but just open one about men to do just one and see how they complain
Nigerian men are delusional!! You cannot put up a list for someone to follow when the person puts theirs and you complain madness!! Some will even say rubbish! Nonsense! There is no perfect man when you reach this certain age blah blah blah really? So in this age and time people are still frighteninig women with get married or remain single really?

Which marriage for Africa hellep woman? Abeg! Marriage is not for women in Africa don't even see the usemWhat is the need of getting married in a country where one gender will benefit from the marriage more than you or the laws benefit them more? There is no need for it
Same way you African men complain of women in America having too much rights you forget that you also have too much right here too or have you forgotten? When it is women enjoying rights you will complain but when it is men you will not sexist person!! And I also don't like the fact that women have more rights than men in America seriously I don't Why should one gender have more rights because they own a dicck or vagina it is stupid!
And this thing of African men complaining of american women being disrespectful and all I don't think you are quit different from them not at all so why do you complain? They say they are too bossy,controlling and what not.I cannot believe you Nigerian men are complaining of attributes they possess that is bleeped up!! But the same African women you term more respectful and homely get abused more than American women is it witchcraft?? NOPE!! I know there is abuse in America but if we really want to sit down and compare ourselves with them we are making a fat mistake It is like comparing a lion to a cat.
Black men say black women don't tolerate shit but statistics show that marriages between white men and black women last longer than any other marriage in America is it witchcraft l Again no!

And of course just because I am saying these things about African men does not mean I will end up with one.Date one yea but end up with one as a husband! That one is just to bring me to my early grave.See ya guys! Like you get angry it does not concern me

I did not read. Lol.
Now pass your Whatsapp enabled-number because I know you fantasize over Nigerian men.

okwabayi:
I did not read. Lol.
Now pass your Whatsapp enabled-number because I know you fantasize over Nigerian men.

Wow wow wow fantasize about who? Nigerian men? Abeg that one no fit happen! A country full of cheats,liars and wife beaters!?? NO WAY! They are not worth it.They are not the best for husbands

So what's this one about. why are you always going on about Nigerian men. You haven't been to the country before you only watch vids and movies from Nollywood and listen to Nigerian music. You could have just put the threads name at Nigerian Men and they mentality. I doubt if you have even spoken to a Nigerian man more than Thrice sef.

Rexia:

Wow wow wow fantasize about who? Nigerian men? Abeg that one no fit happen! A country full of cheats,liars and wife beaters!?? NO WAY! They are not worth it.They are not the best for husbands

#story.com.
See you pointing out our attractive properties then going ahead to state we make terrible husbands. All your threads are aimed at Nigerian men even though you live in Cameroon. It is obvious you watch porn and fantasize nightly picturing Jim Iyke's face.
Now send your number so you can brag to friends that you finally caught a Nigerian man.

okwabayi:

#story.com.
See you pointing out our attractive properties then going ahead to state we make terrible husbands. All your threads are aimed at Nigerian men even though you live in Cameroon. It is obvious you watch porn and fantasize nightly picturing Jim Iyke's face.
Now send your number so you can brag to friends that you finally caught a Nigerian man.

God!!! You are funny! And no I don't watch porn even though I like Jim iyke as an actor,he is not my type of man

Sinistami:
So what's this one about. why are you always going on about Nigerian men. You haven't been to the country before you only watch vids and movies from Nollywood and listen to Nigerian music. You could have just put the threads name at Nigerian Men and they mentality. I doubt if you have even spoken to a Nigerian man more than Thrice sef.

Emmm....... I don't have to.I am judging from what I hear and by the way,you don't have to worry Nigerian men are not my type of men so its fine

Rexia:

God!!! You are funny! And no I don't watch porn even though I like Jim iyke as an actor,he is not my type of man

I hear. Even with a gun pointed to her head a female will never admit to enjoying pornography, completely disregarding the fact many things depicted in romance novels are far worse in comparison.
Jim Iyke is not your type of man, have you wondered if you are his type of woman to begin with?
Let me do quick and move to another topic before an overzealous mod bans me for 'bullying'. If it's a male vs. female situation the man is always the guilty party in their eyes.

okwabayi:

I hear. Even with a gun pointed to her head a female will never admit to enjoying pornography, completely disregarding the fact many things depicted in romance novels are far worse in comparison.
Jim Iyke is not your type of man, have you wondered if you are his type of woman to begin with?
Let me do quick and move to another topic before an overzealous mod bans me for 'bullying'. If it's a male vs. female situation the man is always the guilty party in their eyes.

Seriously, you men seem to be the ones obsessed with porn,emm you can say that about African men they are not romantic but white men are quite different at least.They are the ones who know what romance is.I don't really care if I am not his type of woman anyway.