if your fiance is twelve years(12) older than you, will you go ahead and marry him?

Why not?

What is he bringing to the bargining table?

Is he an Asset or a Liability?

Can he perform in bed?

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if U love him , age shudnt be a problm

how old r u??

12 years is a lot of years. nigerian women think it doesnt matter but as you both get older you'll realize that it matters more and more. when you get to ur prime he would already have begun his downhill descent very fast . but if you are in love i guess our opinion doesnt count anyway.

n.b i wouldn't

well he is already my fiance isn't he then yeah i will go ahead & marry him.

if u luv him age doesn't count

Yes i will marry him

Age is just a damn #

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Is a fiance not the person you're supposed to be getting hitched to, him being your fiance that is Oh wait, is the scenario like you found out after getting engaged that he was 12yrs older? Am i missing something here

Girl quit it, u are thinking too much.

12 years ain't that bad.

If he was a good man I would do it. Can't let a good one go because of something as trivial as age.

if he is god damn rich, then wat the hell am i lookin for?the world is mine yo

12 years aint that bad
As far as the LOVE is there
But i wouldn't

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i'm 22 and he is 34, i feel like he is just too old for mi.

i no age does nt matter, bt 4 me o dat 12yrs too much.

I must surely would.

If i liked him enough to date him and for him to become my fiance then its all systems go.

I actually prefer older men cause they can handle me better.

yes

i would have preferred it if he was 40 and you were 28, but 22 and 34,gal you must be really way ahead of your time for him not to use your head.gud luck to you, as for me i would not marry a man 12 years older than me if i were 22.

Thanx for all your opinions,i really appreciate.i like him and i belive i can live with him.my family see him as a member.he is really nice and caring.
More opinions are welcome.there is a poll at the top, i'll really appreciate it if you vote.

you like him? what about you Love him?

do you like him because he is caring (and what do you mean ''caring here')

i think love is stronger than like. and if you have both (like and love), then Perfecio!

if you like him enough to marry him, what will happen when aging starts to pay visit after marrying him? will you still like him?

@34 for a guy is a good thing. I think age doesn't matter much but ask yourself, do you LOVE him? if you do, you will be fine.

for me i will marry him if the plan is on and continue with whatever i have going for me (career, school etc).

love is all that matters , so if you do love him then age is nothing but a number

12 years is a lot of years. nigerian women think it doesnt matter but as you both get older you'll realize that it matters more and more. when you get to your prime he would already have begun his downhill descent very fast . but if you are in love i guess our opinion doesnt count anyway.

n.b i wouldn't

Strange response from a WOMAN married to a small boy

plz dont get married out of pity you have to luv him for him else you regret ever getting married to him be sure you want to spent the rest of your life with him.the worst language or word you will use to refer to your spouse is i think i love him you dont think if you love him you love him be sure use you sixth sense

it depend
if he doesnt act it or treat me like his younger one may be
if he does NO way!
but 12 yrs is much for me

Objectively speaking, 12 years is a significant gap BUT if you are sure you love him (like really love him) then it should not be a problem. Besides, at that age he must have attained the level of stability most girls wish for in a man. Bonne chance! (good luck!)