i dont know y av neva been lucky with guys and relationships. its either i love d person and he doesnt or he loves me and i dont reciprocate his feelings. am so confused. av had two relationships so far, the first, i loved him wholeheartedly but he travelled out of the country without telling me, d second one was a long distance relationship, i couldnt stand it becos he wasnt making any move for us to see, so i quit. And there isa guy that has been asking me out for the past 2 years but am not in love with him, he loves me to a fault but i just cant reciprocate his feelings, honestly, i couldn't deceive him coz i didn't just love him!
I never thot i could love again,
Finally, i met some1 who i thot loved me so much, i loved him BADLY! he made me fall in love again and i trusted him! am a kind of person that loves some1 with my entire being, i loved this guy so much!!!! i did things that i thot i could never do for this guy, i sacrificed some things, went tru risks, infact i almost lost my vir*** to him, (i thank God it didnt Happen). But what happened? he suddenly called me one day to tell me his girlfriend had come back from a trip, (a girl he never told me about!) he told me as if it wasnt a serious thing, infact he said it so easily, He dumped me like a pack of cards!
I was so sad! I almost lost my mind! but i thank God for his mercies!
Now i just can't seem to trust guys! i dont think i can even bring myself to love again! its been 2 months now!
I feel so lonely with a broken heart! i nd someone to love me but i just dont think i can find love,
dis brought me to d question "WOULD I EVER FIND LOVE??"

Lola.

Lola,
Pele, it happens in life, the person you love does not love you back, the ones you don't have feeling for will be the one after you.

The ones you are mutually together having almost the same feeling for might suddenly be unavailable may be due to some natural circumstance.

many married people did not marry their best, most did not, if they do, they might not be the love of the other spouse.

Take your time , Pray hard, you will meet somebody that loves you and you love back. It might not be 50 50 though.

You would find love when you look for it in the right places.

i don't blame you for feeling the way you do but relationships are a 50/50 situation you just have to be patient and the right on will come along.

everyone has an idea of what the perfect mate will be but the mature way of being successful in a relationship is realising that no one is perfect and you adjust with the different flaws you find because trust you will find flaws. I wish you the best and i hope the right guy meets you and you love that person

Come to me, i wouldn't play with ur heart. I will mend ur broken heart

@poster here is my mail gbachano@yahoo.com, make sure u message me before today runs out, i may b d one to love u.

@leadteam, thanks a bunch for the advice!

@ otokx, what right place thanx nyway!

@ omega, thanks so much! you're right no 1 is perfect. i guess i wud just have to accept dat!
but honestly, av put it off my mind, am in no hurry! infact, am already fed up!, if i d right guy comes my way, fyn! if not, lyf goes on, av got my education to face! and its the top thing on my mind for now!  

@ ice, lol, u're not serious o!!!!!! lol  

The right place is just around where you are; only this time be vigilant.

@GB102, i'll send u a mail, but might not be 2day!

@ otokx, thanks for d advice!

omolola don't worry u will find love very soon. just be patient

Good thing you have decided to face your education

Omolola1:


@ ice, lol, u're not serious o!!!!!! lol  

if am not serious i wouldn't have posted that. I might be the one to mend your heart, the one to give you the joy and love you have always carved for. If you think am not serious. Say whatever you want me to do to prove it and watch me do it

@poster.you are a virgin,right?most guys want to do it,they want to sample the kitty.if you are not game,am afraid it will be a little difficult;it is difficult for gurls who are busy painting town"RED"with their kitties not to talk of gurls who don't obviously"give"like you.
Do go out to enjoy and be seen to be enjoying yourself.the man will come.most peeps like jolly-go-happy peeps;it lift one's spirit and beside's happiness is infectious!

GB102:

@poster here is my mail gbachano@yahoo.com, make sure u message me before today runs out, i may b d one to love u. 

eri were

@ you will find your love

@poster
its called life .whatever you do, stand your ground and keep looking at it positively!
just because these 2 guys were not meant to be, doesnt mean that the next one will be the same.
just make sure you USE what you've learn from dating these 2guys, to your advantage, in your next relationship. dont assume anything.

spare a thought and put yourself in the shoes of the guys who loved you and you didnt feel the same way in return.

@ice, i shuld ask anythng? ok, cn u get my no witout me givng u!? @whiteroses, lol, dt ws quite funny, tanx 4 d advice!

@mrbrown, thnx a whole lot! av definitely learnt some thngs dt i wud mk gud use of! trustn 2 much is 1 of dem!

lol that's how life is.
trust me, only d lucky ppl in life find true love.

u'd be surprised how many married ppl in this world are without love.
just because ur in a r/s doesn't mean the couple love each other. most r for convenience. so don't sweat it. ur in d majority.

wot msg??

ok yes, i rememba, u sent me a msg ds morning wit an mtn line, rite? @ oyinda, tnx lots!

Omolola1:

@ice, i shuld ask anythng? ok, cn u get my no witout me givng u!?!

in as much as i can get it but won't like to invade ur privacy. so i would rather ask u to give me to be invading ur privacy. and pls dont ask me to. cos am a gentleman who respects everyones privacy

@ice, no probs, i dnt av intentions of askn u 2. @ femmy, i did reply your msg! mayb its ntwrk prob.

Omolola1:

@ice, no probs, i dnt av intentions of askn u 2.

so can i have ur no. dont tell me no just complete the missing digits here 08091*29**0. does this look like ur no. if yes complete it

rofmao! so u do av it!y u askn me 2 complete it wen u already av it!

just to be sure. hope u dont mind my calling u