If you could look back at younger you, what would you tell her? I’ve have spent so much time wishing I would have known these lessons sooner. I wished someone would have seen what a terrible mistake I was about to make and told me something… literally anything would have been better than silence.

Life does not work that way.

Sometimes lessons have to be learned hands-on.

Although I wish I could be there for you whenever you’re about to make a huge mistake or make a decisions based on someone’s idea of what your life should be. I cannot. No one can.

My hopes for this post is that you take away at least ONE LESSON. I don’t want you to think that you’re alone in life. That no one is looking out for you.



It’s incredibly difficult to navigate life as a woman, but here at Empowering Women Now I got your back.

1 . High school is weird… for everyone.



Hormones are at their all-time worst. Remember to be kind. At the end of those 4-short years you will never regret being nice. Looking back at those years I regret being so mean. I wish someone would have told me that those things I told those girls would live with them way past the high school years.

There was no reason to be so cruel. When you’re young you do not see the damage, your words can make. You do not understand that the choices you make will follow you for the rest of your life.

Be kind



2. Take care of your body.



Who else ate Hot Cheetos and soda every day for lunch?
Yup, that was me. I did not care about my health and thought, future me will get it together. I wish I would have started earlier. The younger you are the easier it is to start good habits. Just as an example. Me and my friend are the same age, same height, same weight. She ate relatively healthy and played volleyball. I did not. In only 2 years it all caught up to me...Read More at https://www.virtuedigest.com/life-lessons-every-woman-needs-know/