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Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by poseidon12: 4:45pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
emmytech2: Exactly. Just a Phone call to explain that he couldn't make it to the meeting would have prevented this embarrassment. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by pitsonbay: 4:48pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Inefficiency eficha Ukwu Otele |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 4:53pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
pitsonbay: Meaning? |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by darlenese(f): 4:55pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969: that we do not reason alike, is why we are unique. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by darlenese(f): 4:56pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969: that we do not reason alike, is why we are unique. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 4:58pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
darlenese: Ok, bye. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:01pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Mr tunji, Family meetings precedding a wedding are very important, they cannot be avoided, by refusing to attend the meeting you dishonor the father and the brides family, that cannt be condoned. Your money is useless, this is not an afonja wedding where men reason with their pricks. And dont expect a refund. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:04pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969: There must have been some casual discussions earlier on concerning a sensitive issue they probably disagreed on or didn't entirely agree on. The old man may have wanted to get a firm promise, an assurance, a commitment about the issue on the eve of the wedding, so he can hold the young man to his words if he violated it. It could be that he won't take a second wife, he won't maltreat the girl, he will do a court wedding to make the marriage legal etc. The boy, not wanting to commit, tried to smartly dodge the meeting, so that after the girl becomes his wife, he would tell the old man off! Men take their daughter's wedding more seriously, as she's changing surname and keeper. They always want to get certain assurances from the prospective son-in-law, especially given what's happening in society now. 2 Likes |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by HIPROFILE(m): 5:08pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
imaging this fools... a father was not too busy to train his daughter from birth till she grown a marriable woman. and a dumb ass man became too busy with wedding plans to attend a day meeting with expectant father in-law which supposedly a crucial part of whole thing. though his action is harsh but then the root cause. The man possibly considered his negligence or absent to the meeting as insulting, disobedient, arrogant and humiliating. He should have aligned with the man prior to coming with his people... |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:08pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
WritePal: Is the meeting' usually about this sort of example/instance you have mentioned above? |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:08pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Arkayn:even if you keep d Bible aside, b4 Africa was colonize, everything we did then was traditionally, white marriage was not recognized. even common sense will tell you that we aught to take permission from our parents b4 getting married because they are our earthly parents and of which they deserve to be respected. even if they are wrong we still need to respect them, wisdom is everything. sometimes we have to act foolishly to prove what is right. of course the brides father might be wrong but wisdom is profitable to direct, two wrongs don't make a right. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by HIPROFILE(m): 5:10pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
WritePal: You deh reason well my brother dont mind all this children coming here to insult the man am even suprised at the comments from the grooms sister so immature |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:12pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969:abi..? my dear this is Nigeria and we are talking about Nigeria culture. let's stop imitating other countries and keep our dignity and culture with high self-esteem and pride. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:13pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
GistFullGround:She is married traditional wedding was done before the church wedding. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:16pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: Some aspects of our culture, tradition & customs are incongruous with modern day aspirations. We need a significant shift from the barbaric stuff. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:19pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Arkayn:The couple in question are Christians. Christianity has most of it's doctrines from the bible. The bible never condemned traditional wedding in fact it supported it. Traditional wedding was the recognized wedding the bible mentioned in many cases not church wedding. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:21pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
EmpresFIDEL: We Africans must be very respectful this is why we cheer our rogue polithiefcians on, even though they are wrong... Nonsense! |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:21pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
Arkayn:The couple are Christians. The rule guiding Christianity is the bible. Forget that stupid assumption of "we are Africans". If the bible didn't support traditional wedding, it would have stated it there. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by oruma19: 5:22pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
these are the kind of men that Bleep their daughters. idiot. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:22pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969:I don't reply bigots ,bye too |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:24pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
frenzyduchess: I asked if you're from Edo as well & all of a sudden that makes me a bigot....wow! You're amazing honey! Bye |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:25pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
oruma19: Lol |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:26pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
asuustrike1: That wrestles with the point you're trying to get across. Of course we are Africans! |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:28pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969: Yes, omooba, more or less. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:29pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969:so because the man is from Edo everyone who comments must be from Edo ,shift abeg make I see front . . Don't mention me again. Thanks. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:32pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
WritePal:Taking such harsh decision affects the bride more than the groom. The groom's father in-law is mischievous hence I advice the groom to forget about the wedding. Whatever that can't be settled during traditional wedding shouldn't rise up on church wedding. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:35pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
frenzyduchess: If I stated clearly that you're from Edo, then I may be wrong or perceived as misguided but in this instance I asked if you're from Edo in response to your comment & I feel a simple YES/NO would have saved you&I this fuckery you started. This is paranoia & you don't have to take out your frustration on moi. Bye |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:35pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969:The bible is the standard for Christians. The same principle applies to all in any part of the world ( Christians globally) |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:37pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
poseidon12:My brother there is no excuse whatsoever the father has to justify his actions. Whatever can't be settled on traditional wedding shouldn't rise up on church or court wedding. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:38pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
asuustrike1: I am not disputing this but you can refer back to the line I quoted. |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:39pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
omooba969:Go Sidon |
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 5:40pm On Nov 04, 2018 |
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