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Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by fof1: 1:00pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
christyanah: DEMONIC ACTIVITIES AT PLAY. GENUINE SALVATION IS TO UR RESCUE. LESBIANISM IS SATANIC and UNGODLY. GOD'S PURPOSE IS MAN AND WOMAN... |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Boxer007(m): 1:10pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
oaselemi: Brother. Can you suck a man's dik while he taking a $hit?. We call it gallop. It's the new thing in town. Gay is best. Brorher Please can I know you? |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by biodunid: 1:15pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Pls search for Mike Davidson on Youtube. He might be able to point you in the right direction for effective help. May God's grace suffice for you in Jesus name. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Mayor101010(m): 1:23pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Ur hubby is prolly not good in bed. If I were him I'd have f*cked d lesbianism out of ur system. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:23pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
ednut1:OP is a troll |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by ChiefSweetus: 1:26pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
cenaman: |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by OrireSA(m): 1:44pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Wow! I was actually talking about a similar situation with my Nigerian friend, I really wish some countries would stop being so judgmental towards gay people, a lot of Nigerian men in South Africa have wives back home but they dated other Nigerian men here and hearing their stories is really sad because some of them only got married because of the word " abomination ". I just think everyone should be happy and not be judged on his or her sex. Please my nigerian people don't attack me o 2 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by chinnyonwu(m): 1:52pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Yoshy:She has been fighting |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by chinnyonwu(m): 1:55pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
sparkle6:People are born gay. Just because you aint gay doesn't mean some people aren't born gay. Self decision? You think all the gay men in Nigeria choose to be gay in such a homophobic country? And mr, it's not as easy as "getting the shitty mindset" off her head. If you read her post well and wasnt so focused on attacking, you'd find out she has been battling that orientation for years. 1 Like |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Image123(m): 2:01pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
calliope: Prayer changes things, so yes prayer can change the madness. You can't live selfish all through life only doing what you feel like. Many people feel like cheating, lying, stealing, abusing and other such sins like homosexuality. It's called temptation, which can be overcome. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by simplesearch: 2:02pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
JasonScoolari: Her marriage only? or her soul in particular. The desire for anything that negate natural attraction between a man and a woman is referred to as inordinate affection by God, whether between a woman and a woman or a man and a man, daughter in law, sister in law or even someone else's wife or husband. She may have open up some spaces in her life for intrusion by some spiritual forces who might be hell bent on luring her back into her old ways. The end might not augur well for her if she reclines, the solution is for her to sincerely open up to her Husband and together they can seek help from a true man of God, except she's made up her mind on toeing such dangerous path. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Image123(m): 2:07pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
FluidQueen: What sexual orientation. Is rape also a sexual orientation, because there are people who want to do it. And stealing phones, money, pick pocketting, sleeping with animals, corruptions. These are things many people are inclined to do but for one restraining factor or the other. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Image123(m): 2:10pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
chinnyonwu: All men are born sinners and don't have to remain so. Some are born killers, thieves, liars, cheats etc. Many others pick up these so called orientation from school, media and friends. Should they all give in to these sickness? |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 2:34pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
cenaman:And this person will call himself a Christian.SMH |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Kingzra1(m): 2:57pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
bro ...u can fall hand ehnnn
lol
thanks for falling her hand biko |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Yoshy: 2:58pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
chinnyonwu:She hasn't fought enough or doesn't have the will to fight long enough. 1 Like |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
christyanah:Sorry |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by simplesearch: 3:10pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
chinnyonwu: Just stop the crap, nobody is born gay, most of this filthy lifestyle is the result of either voluntary or rarely involuntary actions. Voluntary actions such as developing and imbibing of wrong culture, exposure to obscene and morally debasing materials, allowing the environment to freely dictate ones lifestyle without questioning, desire to experience everything practically, low self-esteem and sometimes an unwritten code in some fraternity which is usually obligatory. Involuntary actions, like early child abuse experience whether for pleasure or ritualistic purposes. Nobody is born to be attracted to people of same sex, it always has a starting point from where if allowed to fester unchecked can develop into something bigger beyond one's immediate and wishful control as obtained in most addiction cases. Some people develop appetite for alcohol very early in life, this definitely does not translate into been born an alcoholic or possessing an alcohol induced gene, this is what most deluded advocate of same sex relationship refuse to think or accept. 2 Likes |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by ottohan: 4:58pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Eberechi24:Those full breasts of yours can easily make a 1 minute man turn to an hour man |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Rajosh(m): 4:58pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
cenaman:The lady needs help, she's acknowledged that and you're here condemning her. Even Jesus won't do that. Don't judge others because they sin differently than you. Let he who's without sin be the first to cast a stone. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by cenaman(m): 5:08pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Rajosh:any man or woman who has sexual feelings for same sex is a davil incanate, no pity for such people. even the bible is against homosaxual. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Nobody: 5:16pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
ednut1: Maybe she is asking for a friend who is related to lai Mohammed |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by chinnyonwu(m): 7:01pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
simplesearch: Ive heard you, and i still ask you, do you think any Nigerian will choose to be gay in a homophobic country like this? Many stories I've heard of gay people has to do with people who have tried their best to convert from their sexuality for obvious reasons to no avail. Some even end up marrying the opposite sex and find out later they just can't build that connection (just like OP) and will either spend their lives in silent depression or accept their sexuality and damn the consequence. Talking about exposure to obscene materials, desire to practice everything is just laughable. All your secondary school mates who u watched pron with are gay abi? Even the people who might have voluntarily got themselves into fcking same sex will probably be BI SEXUAL since by your logic, nobody was born gay and therefore they must have been attracted to the opposite sex at some point. Thats not the case of most gay people. They simply don't have sexual feelings for the opposite sex period. If i were to succumb to your opinion now and ask you to profer a solution to these gay people, you'd probably reply that they should keep praying. Something most gays esp in Nigeria would've been begging God to make them normal ever sinxe to no avail. 1 Like |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Oyindidi(f): 7:08pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Boxer007:Why you no want come back? We dey miss you plenty |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by kremzo: 7:11pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
How did you know?you know the op? Nwodosis: |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by chinnyonwu(m): 7:14pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Yoshy:How do you know she hasnt fought enough? Someone that gave her life to christ and thought she had overcome it all these years and even got married. I believe a lot of men comitiing suicide and jumping off 3rd mainland are closet gays. They've probably been praying and battling it in their private places and cant handle the guilt and depression anymore.. How can someone choose to be gay in Nigeria? For the fact that a guy can see a nice shaped pssuy and not get attracted to it should be mind boggling. Its not a thing of choice. Even if i CHOSE to ignore a nicely shaped woman standing nekkid infront of me, my prcik must stand and obey the clarion call. Its easy to judge if you aint gay. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by chinnyonwu(m): 7:19pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Image123:Theres a BIG difference between those people and gays. Gays dont cause harm to an external person by their actions. A killer takes a life he didnt create.. A thief takes what doesnt belong to him etc. I dont prefer if my son was gay.. But why i speak up in gays favour a lot is that they are being ostracized for something they have little control over, which doesn't even harm anybody. Its also a bit hypocritical cos some people that can't understand gays have anal sex with their babes, and a whole lot of them enjoy anal porn. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Yoshy: 7:46pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
chinnyonwu: I'm not judging, but what am saying is habits can be unlearned. I still maintain the fact that being gay doesn't happen at child birth, it's an external factor. If all gays can be realistic and honest, they will attest to this. My point is, that she hasn't dropped this habit doesn't mean that she is not trying, but there is still an existing chance of getting reoriented again. Some don't have this strength and they say "Well, that's who I am" lies from the pit of hell. Both science and religion agreed on this one. You can unlearn anything within 90 days. |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Eagleword14(f): 8:01pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
Trash!!! |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by EmmanuelCena(m): 10:03pm On Nov 05, 2018 |
sparkle6: I wonder where you people get this idea that gayism is a western thing. How well do you know your history? Homosexualism is as old as the existence of man itself. Reference to it can be found in ancient Roman, Egyptian and African history. The holy books make reference to them. 1 Like |
Re: I Married A Man But I Think I Might Be A Lesbian by Image123(m): 3:56am On Nov 06, 2018 |
chinnyonwu: The point remains that being born a particular way or having a certain orientation doesn't mean you must remain the same. Some people are born with some sickness, inability, weakness for instance. But they do things to overcome it, not just excusing it as born that way. Illiteracy, fear, some bodily weakness are things many are born with. We cannot just wave them off as right or harming no one. What is not good enough is not good enough. |
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