Apology for my lengthy story but let me make it as brief as I can.
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There is this girl (Abigael (not real name)) I've been dating since last year May to be precise. We so much love each other to the extent that she is always ready to lose anything for me only to hold to my love. This girl is well endowed both front and back (I love boobs a lot. Lol. ) and I so much love her attitude and everything pertaining to her. Let me not forget to add that she's very submissive to me as well and in fact, she's the best lady that has ever showed me love to this extent. Meanwhile, there's another girl (Bola (not real name)) I've been dating as well since 2015, before you crucify me of double dating, Bola has always been a type that neglects and won't show enough care and always denies me her attention despite the fact that we both stay in the same city. Even when I ask her why. All she will say is "I love you and I mean it" even though I can remember how I visited her when she was still schooling in another state but this girl never visited me throughout my stay in OAU. To cut the story short, being a fresh graduate of Great Ife (yes, Great Ife!!!) waiting for my NYSC mobilization this month, I went for my medical fitness test last month and I eventually came to realize that my genotype is AS (I never knew before because I had never gone to a hospital for such test). Meanwhile, Bola's genotype is AA while Abigael's is AS like myself. I have browsed a lot about genotype compatibility and I discover it's very medically risky for AS to marry AS. I really love Abigael so much and would love to see her carrying my baby because Bola is just a type that I have stopped loving but only acting up so it doesn't look I wanna break her heart even since these days. I've discussed this issue with Abigael and after much deliberation, we've agreed we'll still marry despite the danger ahead. Please, doctors in the house, what should I do? Is there anything we can do to prevent giving birth to SS child(ren)? Can I break up with Abigael and restore my feelings for Bola? What can I do please?

Please help a brother!!!

All this story because of woman.

Hm

Dont marry any of them
In fact, dont marry anybody in ur life.
Cut off that your d*ck and donate it to charity.
Cos it seems like you dont have luck when it comes to love matters.

Oboy go find something doing please, there are many things you should focus on while waiting for your NYSC

Your lengthy story didn't really piss me of but 'I love boobs'? Really? You had to add that to your post? And Great Ife too? Anyways, my advice is: make enough money to take care of a sickle cell, you'll need it.

You just had to put "she's submissive" there, really?? what is with guys and this submission thingy smh!!! better go for your nysc and forget about marriage for now, it's too early, you have a whole lot ahead of you.

Surely, marrying her will be a decision you'll regret. Love is blind BUT MARRIAGE DEY SEE ROAD.

If you want to be stubborn, be our guest.
We love them submissive

Biglittlelois:
You just had to put "she's submissive" there, really?? what is with guys and this submission thingy smh!!! better go for your nysc and forget about marriage for now, it's too early, you have a whole lot ahead of you.

U never get work,U never go Service,U never buy land,u never buy car,n u done dey discuss bout marriage with innocent gals,make sure u do not miss this year's SHILOR,but meanwhile place both hands on yuh head lemme pray 4u,Now Repeat after Me,my fada my fada whomever placed dix curse on me n my likes,dat we would always be jumping over what is necessary in life 2d Unnecessary should die by fire,die by fire,die by fire!!!!! C'mon brethren pray 4yuhself...

Are you for real?

You know the repercussions of marrying an AS patient yet you want to take the risk

Are you okay at all?

marrying her is a decision you will regret later life... is better you cut the relationship now to avoid stories!!!

you can marry the one you love that is an AS afterall love is blind and love conquers all

U ar tinkin of marriage because u wanna start earning 19800 per month.. dis is serious. Anyways minimum wage will soon b increased so u cud take care of d first SS wit d 30k (lol). Jokes apart bro, u av alot ahead. Naija too tough des days... n even wen u ar settled,never get married 2 an As like u...If u av ever witnessed any SS crisis b4, u'd knw beta

I will advice not to marry any of them, you can't handle sickle cell children and Bola do not love you.

If you are not getting any extra money somewhere during the service year hunger will reshaped you thinking and you will forget about marriage and hustle

Na mumu him be. Dem no dey compatible but e won shook head. It's advisable that AS should not get married to AS. Bone if both of them love each other. Na d children (SS) go suffer everything .

TarOrfeek:


All this story because of woman.

OladimejiRufai:
Dont marry any of them
In fact, dont marry anybody in ur life.
Cut off that your d*ck and donate it to charity.
Cos it seems like you dont have luck when it comes to love matters.

OladimejiRufai:
Dont marry any of them
In fact, dont marry anybody in ur life.
Cut off that your d*ck and donate it to charity.
Cos it seems like you dont have luck when it comes to love matters.

teamobanabo:
marrying her is a decision you will regret later life...
is better you cut the relationship now to avoid stories!!!

Thanks. I understand.

sherylbakky:
U ar tinkin of marriage because u wanna start earning 19800 per month.. dis is serious. Anyways minimum wage will soon b increased so u cud take care of d first SS wit d 30k (lol). Jokes apart bro, u av alot ahead. Naija too tough des days... n even wen u ar settled,never get married 2 an As like u...If u av ever witnessed any SS crisis b4, u'd knw beta

I'm not saying I'm getting married now. Besides, I only want to know what to do when the time comes.

viktor88:
I will advice not to marry any of them, you can't handle sickle cell children and Bola do not love you.

If you are not getting any extra money somewhere during the service year hunger will reshaped you thinking and you will forget about marriage and hustle

Thanks even though you savaged me

viktor88:
I will advice not to marry any of them, you can't handle sickle cell children and Bola do not love you.

If you are not getting any extra money somewhere during the service year hunger will reshaped you thinking and you will forget about marriage and hustle

Thanks even though you savaged me

Dmpaul:
Surely, marrying her will be a decision you'll regret.
Love is blind BUT MARRIAGE DEY SEE ROAD.

Dmpaul:
Surely, marrying her will be a decision you'll regret.
Love is blind BUT MARRIAGE DEY SEE ROAD.

WinningEleven:
Hm

Space booker spotted. Abeg say something jare

WinningEleven:
Hm

Space booker spotted. Abeg say something jare

OladimejiRufai:
Dont marry any of them

In fact, dont marry anybody in ur life.

Cut off that your d*ck and donate it to charity.

Cos it seems like you dont have luck when it comes to love matters.

Lol. is cutting off the head the medicine to cure a headache?

Headlesschicken:
U never get work,U never go Service,U never buy land,u never buy car,n u done dey discuss bout marriage with innocent gals,make sure u do not miss this year's SHILOR,but meanwhile place both hands on yuh head lemme pray 4u,Now Repeat after Me,my fada my fada whomever placed dix curse on me n my likes,dat we would always be jumping over what is necessary in life 2d Unnecessary should die by fire,die by fire,die by fire!!!!! C'mon brethren pray 4yuhself...

Bad belle

your moniker tells a lot about you

If you want to marry I'm okay with it but tell your child(ren) not to disturb us like living dead of Romance section

akinwale701:



I'm not saying I'm getting married now. Besides, I only want to know what to do when the time comes.

Was only kidding in d first place...U cud see i later wrote "jokes apart". As u can also see av given u d best advice dat came straight from my simple heart...Kudos 2 ur maturity tho, i can see u take tins simple, u even replied d other guy wit a smiley emoji...Other posters on nairaland wud av started insulting all of us dat replied in dis manner...Not knowing we ar spicing our advice with jokes just 2 keep tinz cool...Keep it up dear, u av done well. I wish all nairalanders cud b like dis...Smiles

Goan make money first..

You are AS, you are considering marrying AS? Seriously?

AS -AS, cancelled. Don't give it a second thought

Marriage should be the least thing on your mind right now because you are definitely not ready for it. If you are ready for it, you will definitely know the answer to this question and not come here to ask people for advice.

sherylbakky:

Was only kidding in d first place...U cud see i later wrote "jokes apart". As u can also see av given u d best advice dat came straight from my simple heart...Kudos 2 ur maturity tho, i can see u take tins simple, u even replied d other guy wit a smiley emoji...Other posters on nairaland wud av started insulting all of us dat replied in dis manner...Not knowing we ar spicing our advice with jokes just 2 keep tinz cool...Keep it up dear, u av done well. I wish all nairalanders cud b like dis...Smiles

Thanks a lot for your sincere words of advice. You earn my respect. Kudos to you!!!