TonyeBarcanista:
On the contrary, men aren't bitter they are only being real!

Love in Naija is a scam, especially within the context of man and woman. A woman's definition of "Prince Charming" is the unfortunate rich or pseudo-rich dude that will lavish his fortunes on them, inherit her problems and labour for her to eat. Care to a Naija lady is proportional to the amount a guy is willing to part with and spend on her. Sadly, they have nothing to offer except the vagina, which is not enough reasons to be in relationship for the man.

Should money/financial gains be taken away from relationship, Naija women will have no reason to "remain in love" with their men - to them, being in love means being in a job with the man as the employer but without any responsibilities for them (the women)

This is without prejudice to the hardworking ladies that doesn't possess such ideology as listed above, ladies that see relationship as commitment between two people to birth and advance a new family unit. Sadly, these ladies are in the minority and definitely they aren't social media slayqueens.

TonyeBarcanista:
On the contrary, men aren't bitter they are only being real!

Love in Naija is a scam, especially within the context of man and woman. A woman's definition of "Prince Charming" is the unfortunate rich or pseudo-rich dude that will lavish his fortunes on them, inherit her problems and labour for her to eat. Care to a Naija lady is proportional to the amount a guy is willing to part with and spend on her. Sadly, they have nothing to offer except the vagina, which is not enough reasons to be in relationship for the man.

Should money/financial gains be taken away from relationship, Naija women will have no reason to "remain in love" with their men - to them, being in love means being in a job with the man as the employer but without any responsibilities for them (the women)

This is without prejudice to the hardworking ladies that doesn't possess such ideology as listed above, ladies that see relationship as commitment between two people to birth and advance a new family unit. Sadly, these ladies are in the minority and definitely they aren't social media slayqueens.

franchasng:
If not for money, financial and material favors, 99% of Nigerian women home and abroad won't marry or date any man!

The most annoying part is the latest bandwagon of Nigerian ladies trying hard to form feminists seeking for equal right, which to me is very good, but where it gets so annoying is in the fact that Nigerian women and black women in general only want to become feminist in order to get highest paid easy jobs, top political positions without stress and best jobs to earn higher income than men but will reject feminism when it requires them to spend equally with their men, how selfish a group can be

You want equal opportunities with men but you hate equal financial responsibilities with men, isn't that mental disorder

I laugh at some guys who feel dating or marrying a Nigerian lady from rich home or a Nigerian lady that's earning big salary will make things better, it even gets worst because to majority of Nigerian women, their man's money/wealth = our money/wealth, but their own money/income = their money that their man dare not talk about or expect a dime from, it is shameful sha oh

My advice to every Nigerian young man out there: work hard, add smartness, pray for divine favor and right timing, and forget about getting any favor or financial help from any woman you are going to date or marry....zero your mind, if at the end nature and God throws one outstanding lady that proves you wrong your way, then thank your God but don't expect anything from any woman.

Your highest expectation from women that aren't your mother and sisters and relatives is sex, babies and maybe homekeeping if she is humble enough to offer.

Expect nothing from women so you can have a happy life free of disappointments and heartache

franchasng:
If not for money, financial and material favors, 99% of Nigerian women home and abroad won't marry or date any man!

The most annoying part is the latest bandwagon of Nigerian ladies trying hard to form feminists seeking for equal right, which to me is very good, but where it gets so annoying is in the fact that Nigerian women and black women in general only want to become feminist in order to get highest paid easy jobs, top political positions without stress and best jobs to earn higher income than men but will reject feminism when it requires them to spend equally with their men, how selfish a group can be

You want equal opportunities with men but you hate equal financial responsibilities with men, isn't that mental disorder

I laugh at some guys who feel dating or marrying a Nigerian lady from rich home or a Nigerian lady that's earning big salary will make things better, it even gets worst because to majority of Nigerian women, their man's money/wealth = our money/wealth, but their own money/income = their money that their man dare not talk about or expect a dime from, it is shameful sha oh

My advice to every Nigerian young man out there: work hard, add smartness, pray for divine favor and right timing, and forget about getting any favor or financial help from any woman you are going to date or marry....zero your mind, if at the end nature and God throws one outstanding lady that proves you wrong your way, then thank your God but don't expect anything from any woman.

Your highest expectation from women that aren't your mother and sisters and relatives is sex, babies and maybe homekeeping if she is humble enough to offer.

Expect nothing from women so you can have a happy life free of disappointments and heartache

Amakavula:
Men used to be the champions of love, profusing underlying love upandan, but it has all changed these days with most of them bitter and angry if a lady talks about love.

So this lady on Twitter " Chioma " talks about getting "LOML " ( Love Of My Life ) before the year runs out, but her thread was overwhelmed by defeated angry men calling her a scam because of her declaration.

https://mobile.twitter.com/__chinomso/status/1059728315580379138?p=v


The case is worse on Nairaland with thousands of threads opened each day by bitter misogynists bashing women who wouldn't spread their legs for them out of pity.

So why are men so bitter and angry these days, do you all not have other things to do other than attack women?

highqueen:
Lol.
God will never allow me meet those ones.
Frustrated and bitter ones, God forbid.

Akinwale14:
na their type u go marry, don't worry I will witness ur wedding ceremony: D

rex444:
me too...send me invite oooo...highqueen

highqueen:
Lol.
God will never allow me meet those ones.
Frustrated and bitter ones, God forbid.

evy800:
It baffles me when I hear people say Nigerian ladies only look for guys who would lavish money nd all the nice things it could buy because I 4 one have never known that feeling...for more than I could remember I have always provided for myself materially so I ask am I just unfortunate or do guys just say things like this to massage their ego