Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,152,327 members, 7,815,651 topics. Date: Thursday, 02 May 2024 at 03:55 PM

I Need Your Opinion On This - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / I Need Your Opinion On This (1870 Views)

Your Opinion About This Father And Her Daughter In The Bathroom (pic) / What's Your Opinion About Taking Showers With Your BF/GF? / Guys & Girls That Wear Glasses Are Safe To Date - Opinion (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

I Need Your Opinion On This by Alexaonfleek: 10:31am On Nov 13, 2018
Ive noticed that guys who tend to be aggressive towards women are all broke ass niggas.why is this so?and for some weird reason ladies who date violent and aggressive guys don't want to leave them.why?

4 Likes

Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Ayomathy01(m): 10:36am On Nov 13, 2018
For the guys I believe one of the reasons is frustration of being broke that makes them aggressive.... But the reason why the girls don't want to leave them.. Well ask the girls
undecided

2 Likes 2 Shares

Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Alexaonfleek: 10:49am On Nov 13, 2018
The annoying thing is when guys start taking out their frustration on ladies and hitting them,like wtf.its not their fault the guys are broke,they can blame buhari instead.

1 Like 1 Share

Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Oluromantic: 12:28am On Apr 27, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
Ive noticed that guys who tend to be aggressive towards women are all broke ass niggas.why is this so?and for some weird reason ladies who date violent and aggressive guys don't want to leave them.why?
Some ladies enjoy aggressive guys naturally. But the violent part are endured for different reasons ranging from no other option/job/family members who care/deep love etc.
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Nobody: 5:24pm On Oct 26, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
Ive noticed that guys who tend to be aggressive towards women are all broke ass niggas.why is this so?and for some weird reason ladies who date violent and aggressive guys don't want to leave them.why?

Because the DlCK is so good, that's why.

1 Like

Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 5:42pm On Oct 26, 2019
Violence and (excess) aggression is a turn-on for some women. It means "love" to them. Some women respect them more.

Some women grew up with this kind of person at home so they take it as a good thing

Aggression is a desirable male trait if it is expressed correctly. Most men express some form of aggression to an extent due to their high testosterone level

Being broke is a source of frustration...the guy will be aggressive to everyone but will have a perception that a woman will disrespect him (as some women would) for his low financial status. So they start acting up

In fact they dont have to be broke...if some certain guys perceive that you are superior to them in any way they can become very nasty to try to overcompensate

You see that a lot even in this forum

4 Likes

Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Pubichairs(m): 5:52pm On Oct 26, 2019
:Dur urine gonna taste great like kunu
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Alexaonfleek: 8:09pm On Oct 26, 2019
[quote author=midnighter post=83484247]Violence and (excess) aggression is a turn-on for some women. It means "love" to them. Some women respect them more.

Some women grew up with this kind of person at home so they take it as a good thing

Aggression is a desirable male trait if it is expressed correctly. Most men express some form of aggression to an extent due to their high testosterone level

Being broke is a source of frustration...the guy will be aggressive to everyone but will have a perception that a woman will disrespect him (as some women would) for his low financial status. So they start acting up

In fact they dont have to be broke...if some certain guys perceive that you are superior to them in any way they can become very nasty to try to overcompensate

You see that a lot even in this forum[/quote]at the bolded.i know that some women get turned on by BDSM,but BDSM is consensual.both the lady and the guy are in agreemet,and besides there is also the safe word too.but what about women who aren't into BDSM but still stay in abusive relationships?
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Alexaonfleek: 8:10pm On Oct 26, 2019
truthsayer009:


Because the DlCK is so good, that's why.
is that really a good reason for a lady to stay in an abusive relationship?all because of penis
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 8:23pm On Oct 26, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
at the bolded.i know that some women get turned on by BDSM,but BDSM is consensual.both the lady and the guy are in agreemet,and besides there is also the safe word too.but what about women who aren't into BDSM but still stay in abusive relationships?

When I said a "turn-on", I wasnt necessarily talking about BDSM but you're right, thats one part of it and it will probably be consensual. I meant more that some women take an violent man to be more "manly" or "able to handle himself"

There are many reasons for women staying in (violently) abusive relationships. Social, psychological, emotional

Some women feel like beating means that the guy loves them and takes them seriously. In fact some purposely annoy their man just to see if he will get angry and beat her. They get some satisfaction out of being able to stir that kind of emotion in him

Some women dont have the self-confidence to leave or rely on the abusive partner for finances or some social status

Some just love the guy and choose to overlook the violent part of his character
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Nobody: 8:27pm On Oct 26, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
is that really a good reason for a lady to stay in an abusive relationship?all because of penis

It's wrong but yea, thats the answer.
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by ImaIma1(f): 8:33pm On Oct 26, 2019
For the guys, it could be frustration while for the lady staying could be because of emotional blackmail from the guy. Or he has something she cannot resist
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Depressed101: 9:14pm On Oct 26, 2019
cool
midnighter:
Violence and (excess) aggression is a turn-on for some women. It means "love" to them. Some women respect them more.

Some women grew up with this kind of person at home so they take it as a good thing

Aggression is a desirable male trait if it is expressed correctly. Most men express some form of aggression to an extent due to their high testosterone level

Being broke is a source of frustration...the guy will be aggressive to everyone but will have a perception that a woman will disrespect him (as some women would) for his low financial status. So they start acting up

In fact they dont have to be broke...if some certain guys perceive that you are superior to them in any way they can become very nasty to try to overcompensate

You see that a lot even in this forum
you are a smart axx grin
midnighter:
Violence and (excess) aggression is a turn-on for some women. It means "love" to them. Some women respect them more.

Some women grew up with this kind of person at home so they take it as a good thing

Aggression is a desirable male trait if it is expressed correctly. Most men express some form of aggression to an extent due to their high testosterone level

Being broke is a source of frustration...the guy will be aggressive to everyone but will have a perception that a woman will disrespect him (as some women would) for his low financial status. So they start acting up

In fact they dont have to be broke...if some certain guys perceive that you are superior to them in any way they can become very nasty to try to overcompensate

You see that a lot even in this forum
you are a smart axx
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Depressed101: 9:23pm On Oct 26, 2019
midnighter:


Some women feel like beating means that the guy loves them and takes them seriously.

I've met people like this, they believe a boyfriend who doesn't beat them once in a while, doesn't trully love them..
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 9:27pm On Oct 26, 2019
Depressed101:


I've met people like this, they believe a boyfriend who doesn't beat them once in a while, doesn't trully love them..

Yeah, exactly. Its like a warped kind of affection to them. If he doesnt beat her she thinks hes no longer interested

Some girls sha
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Depressed101: 9:31pm On Oct 26, 2019
midnighter:


Yeah, exactly. Its like a warped kind of affection to them. If he doesnt beat her she thinks hes no longer interested

Some girls sha
This is peculiar with girls without father figures all through their growing up.
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 9:35pm On Oct 26, 2019
Depressed101:
This is peculiar with girls without father figures all through their growing up.

I can imagine. There must be all sorts of complex psycho-sexual reasons for peculiar mentalities such as that.

1 Like

Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by midnighter(f): 10:03pm On Oct 26, 2019
Depressed101:
cool you are a smart axx grin you are a smart axx
cheesy
Re: I Need Your Opinion On This by Alexaonfleek: 3:13pm On Oct 27, 2019
midnighter:


When I said a "turn-on", I wasnt necessarily talking about BDSM but you're right, thats one part of it and it will probably be consensual. I meant more that some women take an violent man to be more "manly" or "able to handle himself"

There are many reasons for women staying in (violently) abusive relationships. Social, psychological, emotional

Some women feel like beating means that the guy loves them and takes them seriously. In fact some purposely annoy their man just to see if he will get angry and beat her. They get some satisfaction out of being able to stir that kind of emotion in him

Some women dont have the self-confidence to leave or rely on the abusive partner for finances or some social status

Some just love the guy and choose to overlook the violent part of his character
hmm.i get your point.

(1) (Reply)

Nigerian Woman Cries Out After Horrible Date With An Igbo Man In The UK / She Lied That She Was In Choir Practice While Receiving The D From Me(video) / Questions You Should NEVER Ask A Girl.

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 77
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.