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Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 11:55am On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:
I said 'most', if you all decide to ignore that, I cannot be bothered.

Goodmorning.

Morning dear smiley

Seems you're not in a good mood today
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by makydebbie(f): 12:14pm On Nov 26, 2018
ikhileomotayo:


Morning dear smiley

Seems you're not in a good mood today
Lol, maybe you are right. smiley
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Xisnin(m): 12:20pm On Nov 26, 2018
You took a risk by visiting a stranger in his house.
Anything could have happened and you would have been blamed for it.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Xisnin(m): 12:22pm On Nov 26, 2018
ikhileomotayo:


This is not you undecided

The makydebbie I know is bigger than this angry
Because she disappointed you this time?
Take heart grin grin
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 12:26pm On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:
Most men are "scum/trash", you just have to pick our favourite "scum/trash" and manage. You will never find the perfect one.

Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by PSTEMMA1960(m): 1:55pm On Nov 26, 2018
grin
makydebbie:
Most men are "scum/trash", you just have to pick our favourite "scum/trash" and manage. You will never find the perfect one.
grin
makydebbie:
Most men are "scum/trash", you just have to pick our favourite "scum/trash" and manage. You will never find the perfect one.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 2:03pm On Nov 26, 2018
Any guy on facebook pestering a girl to come to his house u should know wat he wants naucheesy. So why acting surprised.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 2:06pm On Nov 26, 2018
Xisnin:
You took a risk by visiting a stranger in his house.
Anything could have happened and you would have been blamed for it.
in this buhari era that some guys are stealing girl's panties at gunpoint and some are harvesting bwest and snails.. Na im she jus pack her bags go visit one random facebook guycheesy.she get mind sha.

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Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by 7ftMan(m): 2:11pm On Nov 26, 2018
Men your power is your attention. Take it away and watch girls cry, complain and even come.online to talk about it. Few men know their value. Why rape a brother time, attention and kindness?

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Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Jayslicky: 2:11pm On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:
Most men are scum/trash you just have to pick our favourite scum/trash and manage. You will never find the perfect one.
Are u trying to say your father is either a scum/trash.

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Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Jayslicky: 2:17pm On Nov 26, 2018
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Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Jayslicky: 2:18pm On Nov 26, 2018
Do you flaunt your body assets on social media, that could be one of the reasons he addressed you in such a manner. Many guys don't really want a loving relationship they just need "friends with benefit", I think that's not enough reason to say he's a scum, he only expressed how he felt about you.

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Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 3:07pm On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:


Erhm, take care of your comprehension issues before quoting me. Thank you.



common stfu stupid bltch your Father is a scum as well Ghana freak tongue tongue
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Abortions: 4:56pm On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:
Most men are "scum/trash", you just have to pick our favourite "scum/trash" and manage. You will never find the perfect one.
SEE HOW HUGLY U LOOK LATELY. Got me Wondering What's Wrong

Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by kiahrt: 4:57pm On Nov 26, 2018
To answer ur question, there are guys that want something real in relationship besides sex. Apparently na just lust he gat for u, and again don't be disappointed with d way he acted up, perhaps he had had sex on first date with some ladies in d past and tot u ain't special.

Show him cold feet for cold shoulder
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Abortions: 5:05pm On Nov 26, 2018
[quote author=Sexytemi post=73314611][/quote]Pussy DAH U wud still give him to smash mercilessly lass lass u were still denying him the pleasure till when? Bii
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Hugo55(m): 7:08pm On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:
I said 'most', if you all decide to ignore that, I cannot be bothered.

Goodmorning.

@Makydebbie fine lady.
How are you?
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by makydebbie(f): 7:42pm On Nov 26, 2018
Hugo55:


@Makydebbie fine lady.
How are you?
I'm good dear, you?
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by UGLEEBOI: 7:52pm On Nov 26, 2018
Now has anybody reasoned along the part that OP might have led him to believe she was up for it

There are two sides to a coin... undecided
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by SmellingAnus(m): 8:19pm On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:
Most men are "scum/trash", you just have to pick our favourite "scum/trash" and manage. You will never find the perfect one.
Lol... Let me put it to this way every man/woman has a dirty part of them... It just depends on the type you are willing to tolerate...
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 8:38pm On Nov 26, 2018
Abortions:
Pussy DAH U wud still give him to smash mercilessly lass lass u were still denying him the pleasure till when? Bii


I will definitely have given him someday, but at least he should have been patience until "that" day.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Hugo55(m): 8:39pm On Nov 26, 2018
makydebbie:
I'm good dear, you?
Am OK. just relaxing.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 8:40pm On Nov 26, 2018
kiahrt:
To answer ur question, there are guys that want something real in relationship besides sex. Apparently na just lust he gat for u, and again don't be disappointed with d way he acted up, perhaps he had had sex on first date with some ladies in d past and tot u ain't special.

Show him cold feet for cold shoulder

Thanks o...I definitely will o
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Quorax: 9:49pm On Nov 26, 2018
Sexytemi:
So there's this guy I met on Facebook who's been disturbing me to meet with him for the past two years, and during those two years its either he texted me when I'm about to go back to school or when I'm not just in the mood to see anyone.
Then came last week or so he chatted me up again asking for a meet up, and yours truly is now through with school and very less busy so I decided to go see the person who has been disturbing me for almost two years(if not more).
Last Friday was the day we met for the first time and he looked okay, and very outspoken(although it was kinda uncomfortable because he was a bit lousy) but I was okay with it, on my way home I forgot my small phone in his car and I found out while I was in the market doing weekend shopping, I thought I had even misplaced it, I called him and told him what had happened and I asked him to continue help me in calling the number until someone picks so I can know where it was, he later called to say the phone was found in the car and I should come get it the next day(been Saturday), I told him I couldn't but would come after service on Sunday( my church wasn't really Far from his place). So immediately after service I took cab to his place to go get my phone, when I got there I asked for the phone and he gave me and went on about how we needed to talk and all, and that he wants a serious relationship( I have no p with that because I'm single) and I told him I'll think about it, before you know what, he started talking about how he wants me to kiss him and cuddle him, and I'm like"hollup guy, I haven't decided if I want to date you or not, and since I came in you didn't even offer me even if its a glass of water and you're talking about cuddle and kissing, please o park well", he kept pestering and pestering to the extent that it almost looked like he was going to rape me, I got pissed and decided to leave, just couldn't stand the nonsense no more, and the next thing he did was give me cold shoulder, didnt talk to me till I left, and even while I was leaving he just ignored me like I didnt exist..
All that got me thinking, is there any guy out there who would let a relationship grow first before demanding for anything?, and why is it so difficult for most guys to respect a lady, because she's in your house doesn't give you any right to want to abuse her na...I'm still in shock at the way he acted yesterday, still baffling.

Lol there are guys actually... At least I have never asked the one I met here for sex and I do show I care about her in many ways... Even gonna get a new machine for sewing, 90k is the cost according to what she told me. I have not told her cos I want it to be a surprise to her. She didn't ask me to get it for her like she hardly does, I just do it cos I know it is the right thing to do.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by pomide(m): 10:25pm On Nov 26, 2018
I Feel If A Girl Needs To 'Think About It' When You Ask Her Out, Then She Is Not Really Into You... Or Your Ask Out Was Premature.
If You Feel She Is Into You, And It Wasnt Premature To Ask, but The Reply is Still 'She Will Think About It', Then thats A Kind Of Defensive Mechanism And If you Stylishly Pressure Her To.... Jeez, I hate typing!
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by makydebbie(f): 10:50pm On Nov 26, 2018
SmellingAnus:
Lol... Let me put it to this way every man/woman has a dirty part of them... It just depends on the type you are willing to tolerate...
Lol, you've summarised all I was trying to say in a subtle way.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by makydebbie(f): 10:50pm On Nov 26, 2018
Hugo55:


Am OK. just relaxing.
Okay, do have fun.
Goodnight.
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by courna(m): 11:30pm On Nov 26, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


MANY OF SUCH INCIDENTS ARE AS A RESULT OF THE USUAL CONFUSED STATE OF THE NORMAL NIGERIAN LADY. YOU CAN NEVER TRULY KNOW WHAT THEY WANT OR WHEN THEY WANT IT. THEY NEVER DO OR SAY ANYTHING.. ONLY MOPE LIKE SHEEP.

IT'S EASIER TO BED THEM THAN CONVINCE THEM TO DATE YOU.
WHEN THEY'RE BEING ENTERTAINED THEY GET LOST AND CARRIED AWAY... THEN KISSES FOLLOW, FOLLOWED BY THE REST.

BY THE TIME THEY REALIZE WHAT HAS GONE DOWN THEY START CRYING AND ASKING THE USUAL "WHAT ARE WE NOW?", "WHAT AM I TO YOU?"


SO WHEN MOST MEN DO THIS IN SOME CASES IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT THE LUST.

MOST MEN KNOW THAT ONCE IT HAPPENS ALL THE SHAKARA AND FORMING BY THE GIRL WILL BE OVER.

MOST MEN UNDERSTAND, AND WILL AGREE WITH ME THAT "SHARP-GUY SEX" IS THE EASIEST WAY TO GET A GIRL TO DATE YOU IN THIS COUNTRY.

IS IT NOT IN THIS COUNTRY THAT A GIRL INDICATES SHE WANTS IT, YOU MAKE MOVE AND YOU BOTH UNCLOTHE EACH OTHER... WHEN YOU'RE ABOUT TO SLIDE THEY START CRYING AND ACCUSING YOU OF DIFFERENT THINGS? ABEG. THIS THREAD IS A MUMU'S THREAD.



my Gawd....



you so on point

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Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by samysmoothfresh: 11:53pm On Nov 26, 2018
Sexytemi:



I will definitely have given him someday, but at least he should have been patience until "that" day.


procastination is bad!!!

While postpone something that can be done today? undecided


you just wicked the bros after 2yrs of patience and perseverance.


Safiaa comman see a lady stingy with her vagina.

I detest stingy girls
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by 2dice01: 12:21am On Nov 27, 2018
The bottom line is


The OP is single and ready to mingle grin

Sharp guys dont miss this awoof cheesy
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Nobody: 12:39am On Nov 27, 2018
makydebbie:
Most men are "scum/trash", you just have to pick our favourite "scum/trash" and manage. You will never find the perfect one.

Na so your father was picked lipsrsealed
Re: The Guy Was A Scum!!!!! by Sexytemi(f): 7:11am On Nov 27, 2018
samysmoothfresh:



procastination is bad!!!

While postpone something that can be done today? undecided


you just wicked the bros after 2yrs of patience and perseverance.


Safiaa comman see a lady stingy with her vagina.

I detest stingy girls



Hmm hmm, sorry o...let me be stingy o, is it not you same guys that will go tell your friends how cheap a girl is just because she slept with him on the first day

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