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Marriage Dilemma by Hiploko(m): 6:31am On Nov 28, 2018
Dear Nairalanders,

Please what is your advice for a planned marriage with scenario stated below

1. 12 years age difference (Man 38, Lady 25)
2. Man works with about 100k salary and Lady a 200 level student
3. Both seem to believe in each other
4. Both on the "short" side of height
5. Have known each other for one month
6. The man's mum is worried about the height issue and desires a taller lady
7. Both attend the same church

The responses will be appreciated....
Re: Marriage Dilemma by duduade: 6:41am On Nov 28, 2018
Hiploko:
Dear Nairalanders,

Please what is your advice for a planned marriage with scenario stated below

1. 12 years age difference (Man 38, Lady 25)
2. Man works with about 100k salary and Lady a 200 level student
3. Both seem to believe in each other
4. Both on the "short" side of height
5. Have known each other for one month
6. The man's mum is worried about the height issue and desires a taller lady
7. Both attend the same church

The responses will be appreciated....

As long as the lady will be loyal and submissive


But shey the 38 year old man cannot toast by himself, even as ladies yaapa in Nigeria

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Re: Marriage Dilemma by Hiploko(m): 7:33am On Nov 28, 2018
duduade:


As long as the lady will be loyal and submissive


But shey the 38 year old man cannot toast by himself, even as ladies yaapa in Nigeria
Thank you
Re: Marriage Dilemma by bigl: 10:52pm On Nov 28, 2018
Hiploko:
Dear Nairalanders,

Please what is your advice for a planned marriage with scenario stated below

1. 12 years age difference (Man 38, Lady 25)
2. Man works with about 100k salary and Lady a 200 level student
3. Both seem to believe in each other
4. Both on the "short" side of height
5. Have known each other for one month
6. The man's mum is worried about the height issue and desires a taller lady
7. Both attend the same church

The responses will be appreciated....

1. Well, 12 years isn't so bad but it would have been better if shorter. To ensure there is lil generational gap. Imagine marrying someone who is a die hard fan of nokia and believes they are still the best and u, a newer generation and lover of Samsung/Android? U feel me (Note: i'm 7 years older than my wife wink )
2. 100k isn't bad to start with but where I have problem is the issue of the lady being a 200 level student: Will u still love him by the time you are done with your programme in school? Will he still appeal to u?
3. That's a good one as long as you are sure of it.
4. Em em ... short as in? 3.5ft? Or shorter? Or you are both ..... undecided
5. shocked shocked shocked Are u kidding me? Eskiss ma, allow the relationship to grow before you get worried o! One month is a bit short to just decide and dive into marriage.
6. That should also get u worried. You need the mum on your side for peace sake but nothing is impossible.
7. I don't give a f****k if u attend same school. Attending same church is not a guarantee for a successful marriage.


I'll advise u finish your school and don't be in a hurry to "get ownership for a mr.dee".

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Re: Marriage Dilemma by babyfaceafrica: 11:07pm On Nov 28, 2018
there is absolutely no problem.. unless you want to create one for yourself


age....doesn't matter just 12/years check tolu Jacobs and joke Silva age

height...who height help...will you rather marry a tall and senseless fellow?



both should give themselves at least three months and marry.. congrats

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Re: Marriage Dilemma by boredom: 11:34pm On Nov 28, 2018
Hiploko:
Dear Nairalanders,

Please what is your advice for a planned marriage with scenario stated below

1. 12 years age difference (Man 38, Lady 25)

[/b]Not an issue[b]
2. Man works with about 100k salary and Lady a 200 level student

[/b]This can barely sustain the man not to talk off a couple. He certainly cannot and will not train u in sch wt this salary....you will be foolish to start a family on this income as a "student wife" and ur schooling will not be a priority to the man[b]

3. Both seem to believe in each other
4. Both on the "short" side of height
[/b]Doesnt matter.[b]

5. Have known each other for one month
[/b]One month is toooooo short to know this mans beliefs on marriage especially for someone whos mum has views on her preferred spousal candidate.[b]

6. The man's mum is worried about the height issue and desires a taller lady.
[/b] I will also say be wary of the mother. She barely knows yoy and is already laying down rules as if her son is doing you a favour by marrying you. Abeg poster, continue de go front, this union has unhappiness and disappointment written all over it.[b]

7. Both attend the same church
[/b]Its irrelevant.[b]

The responses will be appreciated....
Re: Marriage Dilemma by ifyalways(f): 12:50am On Nov 29, 2018
Hiploko:
Dear Nairalanders,

Please what is your advice for a planned marriage with scenario stated below

1. 12 years age difference (Man 38, Lady 25)
2. Man works with about 100k salary and Lady a 200 level student
3. Both seem to believe in each other
4. Both on the "short" side of height
5. Have known each other for one month
6. The man's mum is worried about the height issue and desires a taller lady
7. Both attend the same church

The responses will be appreciated....
1. Twelve years age difference is too much . It wouldnt matter if it were Man 72, woman 50.

2. 200 levels in Nigerian SChool meaning 3 or more years of schooling plus or minus ASUU strike, NYSC and others? The man is just gonna pay school fees for another man cheesy

3. Even Judas at some point strongly believed in Jesus abi?

4,5 and 6. No comment.

7. Na dem sabi

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Re: Marriage Dilemma by Hiploko(m): 4:03pm On Dec 10, 2018
Thanks to All for the advises...

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