Ayanfeoluxyz:
See another dumbhead e tiya were sir!

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Why are you so abusive? Learn to be civil in public forum who knows if your husband is following this thread

Another fuçk boy on the loose.
The irony of asking for mature minds only when you're acting like a fuçk boy, her marriage crashed is worryng but your marriage that crashed is what??

Tell her you're don't want to be in a relationship anymore and let her move on and find someone. I'm sure she already knows.

samguru:
For mature minds only.

I need your advice on how to dumb a lady which I don't like but we have been dating in the last 5 months.
She was introduced to me by a friend and since then I thought the relationship can lead to marriage but my instinct keeps telling she is not the one.

I have had sex with her anyway but her antecedents is something to worry about as she has been married and the marriage crashed without a child.
I have also married with a male child but the marriage crashed due to crazy intolerable behaviours of my ex.
This lady has shown some signs which my ex possessed and I don't want to experience such marriage again.

Please how do I dump her without having any feeling of guilt.

Please feminists should keep off this thread.

BafanaBafana:
I let a lady like that go some weeks ago. Very nice and pretty. But she had some traits which I have seen and don't like in women. She is still hurting but she will be fine. I miss her too.
I told she is nice and the prettiest girl I ever dated but I am not convinced she is the one for me to marry because I loose my peace whenever I think of settling down with her. So it's best I let her go now so I don't end up breaking her heart later, which will be more difficult for her to bear.

sorry for intruding tho...but wat were the traits??

y'all females here should calm down...the issue is not about the sex...I'm not supporting fornication...but.. they are both adults.. and they obviously enjoyed it...did the Lady tell y'all DAT she didn't want to f**k...instead of emphasizing on him having sex with her...help his situation...this man is obviously not a fuckboy.....how can he be a fuckboy at his age??
now.... it is better for him to tell her DAT it can't work.. than deceiving her..and making her have high hopes for marriage...she would feel used and pained.. sure...but with time she would move on...instead of being in a relationship DAT won't work at last... I dunno about other ladies...but I will like if a man tells me if he wants the relationship or not...I can't force anybody to love me or marry me.
.again...he should endeavor to check his own character...find out where he is wrong.. it is definitely not only the Lady DAT is at fault .and I feel he is very intolerant too... he is too quick to judge.. at least.. before making conclusions to sumo her..sit her down and talk to her.. tell her where u think she's at fault... and tell her the characters u don't like in her.. she might change 'em..communication is key..you are matured enough to communicate..one thing I hate is a man who can't communicate...
he should also learn to tolerate... it's not every time you jump into conclusion.. life na jeje...nor go dey make mistakes DAT u will regret later... nobody is perfect

ladykolly:

Last last she will be alright and plan evil for him, don't underestimate a lady when she is hurt badly.

.she would find a better man if she moves on...planning evil for him will hinder DAT...

BafanaBafana:
I let a lady like that go some weeks ago. Very nice and pretty. But she had some traits which I have seen and don't like in women. She is still hurting but she will be fine. I miss her too.
I told she is nice and the prettiest girl I ever dated but I am not convinced she is the one for me to marry because I loose my peace whenever I think of settling down with her. So it's best I let her go now so I don't end up breaking her heart later, which will be more difficult for her to bear.

Indulge me please. What were those traits? I'm too curious, as I can learn a thing or two. I await your reply. Thanks in anticipation.

UyaiIncomparabl:



Indulge me please. What were those traits? I'm too curious, as I can learn a thing or two. I await your reply. Thanks in anticipation.

MannieA:



sorry for intruding tho...but wat were the traits??

Well, like I said, she is homely decent and nice, but
She is selfish. Toddler selfish. She comes to my house every time she sees something she likes, she wants to go with it. She asks for money for something not minding your financial state at the time and she will whine and cry till you give her in full. She has this irritating habit of asking "what will you bring for me" whenever I go out.
And she once saw a colleague of mine whom she just met once buying suya and asked him to buy for her too! She claimed she was only joking though and he did buy for her and she pretended to decline and he insisted..

BafanaBafana:

Well, like I said, she is homely decent and nice, but
She is selfish. Toddler selfish. She comes to my house every time she sees something she likes, she wants to go with it. She asks for money for something not minding your financial state at the time and she will whine and cry till you give her in full. She has this irritating habit of asking "what will you bring for me" whenever I go out.
And she once saw a colleague of mine whom she just met once buying suya and asked him to buy for her too! She claimed she was only joking though and he did buy for her and she pretended to decline and he insisted..

Lol. A typical Nigerian girl. That leechy thingy. Ah, I hate such too, Infact I feel ashamed of people that act like that around me. My sister used to be like that once, with a heavy spanking, Lol, she got back to normalcy. Let me not bore you. I actually thought it was an serious (attitudinal problem) like being too uncouth, lazy or without ambition. I'm not also trying to say being leechy is a good trait, because I actually detest it too. But you know, to each, his/her own. Since that is a dealbreaker for you, then no qualms my brother!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. A typical Nigerian girl. That leechy thingy. Ah, I hate such too, Infact I feel ashamed of people that act like that around me. My sister used to be like that once, with a heavy spanking, Lol, she got back to normalcy. Let me not bore you. I actually thought it was an serious (attitudinal problem) like being too uncouth, lazy or without ambition. I'm not also trying to say being leechy is a good trait, because I actually detest it too. But you know, to each, his/her own. Since that was a dealbreaker for you, then no qualms my brother!

Ok.. You sound like that's a normal thing with girls and now I'm thinking the problem might be with me. I started off dating older girls actually.

BafanaBafana:

Well, like I said, she is homely decent and nice, but
She is selfish. Toddler selfish. She comes to my house every time she sees something she likes, she wants to go with it. She asks for money for something not minding your financial state at the time and she will whine and cry till you give her in full. She has this irritating habit of asking "what will you bring for me" whenever I go out.
And she once saw a colleague of mine whom she just met once buying suya and asked him to buy for her too! She claimed she was only joking though and he did buy for her and she pretended to decline and he insisted..

hmmmmm...I get... not mature enough......how old was she??

MannieA:


hmmmmm...I get... not mature enough......how old was she??

26 or 27. First daughter in her family.

BafanaBafana:

Ok.. You sound like that's a normal thing with girls and now I'm thinking the problem might be with me. I started off dating older girls actually.

Don't get me wrong bro. Like I said earlier, I detest such attitudes in people, females especially. I like that one should have an independent mindset. And NO, it's not normal.

BafanaBafana:

26 or 27. First daughter in her family.

She's just not mentally mature. It has nothing to do with age. I can imagine. Pukes.

UyaiIncomparabl:


She's just not mentally mature. It has nothing to do with age. I can imagine. Pukes.

You sound so..
I would love for us to talk more often.

BafanaBafana:

You sound so..
I would love for us to talk more often.

How do I sound?

Yea. We should.

Hmmn..end time rlshps..be a man sit her down and tell her ur reasons, it shld be done thru a heart to heart discussion..nt phonecalls..note: be calm,be ready for d worst,worst in dis case means a slap etc

UyaiIncomparabl:


How do I sound?

Yea. We should.

Heady, rational, sapient.

BafanaBafana:
You sound so.. I would love for us to talk more often.

na Married Woman Be That o

BafanaBafana:

Heady, rational, sapient.

IamPlato:
na Married Woman Be That o

Your brother married me? Stop raining on my parade.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Your brother married me? Stop raining on my parade.

SMH

UyaiIncomparabl:


Your brother married me? Stop raining on my parade.

You're increasing in size and beauty. Is this the power of money?

Uglymugg:
You're increasing in size and beauty. Is this the power of money?

Lol. You're quite observant.

I've always been beautiful though. Not money, but huhm, just this lifestyle I developed recently.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. You're quite observant.

I've always been beautiful though. Not money, but huhm, just this lifestyle I developed recently.

What kind of lifestyle is that? you worry less about things now?

Uglymugg:
What kind of lifestyle is that? you worry less about things now?

I worry, but I've learnt to worry less, and junkies too.

UyaiIncomparabl:


I worry, but I've learnt to worry less, and junkies too.

Alright, now I'm worried. You should probably dial it down a bit.

Uglymugg:
Alright, now I'm worried. You should probably dial it down a bit.

Lol. I'm not fat. Still that slim. And why're you worried?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Lol. I'm not fat. Still that slim. And why're you worried?

I want you to stay fit for my viewing pleasure. Don't ruin your aesthetic for me.

Uglymugg:
I want you to stay fit for my viewing pleasure. Don't ruin your aesthetic for me.

Look away.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Look away.

You've got that type of armpit that I like. Have I escalated too quickly?

Uglymugg:
You've got that type of armpit that I like. Have I escalated too quickly?

Mehn. Is that your fetish?

UyaiIncomparabl:


Mehn. Is that your fetish?

Just one of it.