Biingoo:
Then you're wicked!

Yeah, I know. Thank God you won't get to witness my wickedness.

carter009:
Rotfl, big girl indeed....ode

Asin eeeh! Someone that got busted some days at the Ashawo thread for being a coded olosho despite the fact that she's under a man's roof who happens to be her baby daddy

AryEmber:
Yeah, I know. Thank God you won't get to witness my wickedness.

Amen

Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

R u sure u'r nt my Ex? U sound as stupid as her

Juliusdaughter:

How? I didn't date him then cos I was with someone. Not that I refused to date him because he was broke and now he's rich

What could have been your excuse back then,you have no point,my dear
Were you there for him when he needs you? here you are cooking up stories for us,So you think of considering him when he's making some money right,You too want to fella like anikulapo



You should put yourself in his shoes and think about the consequences before you step into it,you don't know how he got his money,so you think deeply before taking any action.I think yourself esteem is too low,You sound like a Gold digger




Never underrate anyone cos,No oneknows tomorrow

Jonegonu:
My advice for you is that you should not marry him, reason is because you don't love him.

Ladies don't beleive in that advice...they believe it's better to marry someone that loves them even though they don't love the person..it's a fail safe mentality though....so u they dont get hurt when he starts misbehaving or he leaves them

Juliusdaughter:
This guy says he is still interested in dating me even after 5 years of making his intentions known. I kept refusing him because I didn't want to cheat on my ex. He says he is ready for marriage now and he is very okay.
I just want to know how possible for a guy to come back to me after all these years. I don't want to be used...
Your sincere input will be appreciated

I'm sure the bolded is the only reason you are considering him. Had it been the opposite, I doubt you would bring this matter to nairaland.

This story happened to me. I am been after this girl for 6 years. I was able to get her number after a year that we met. I have been asking her out since but she refused. until she saw me of recent, I am now working in Government house. she was just disturbing me about, where is my Girlfriend. I told her she is fine. She told me she had broke up with her boyfriend for cheating n now she is not having bf. I asked her out the last time I saw her n she said yes. well I first think I should play her but I later accept faith that that's the sacrifice of love

AryEmber:
Go about it the right way. Date him, don't sleep with him till he put a finger on it.

Does a ring garantee dat he truly loves her, ,,na wa for u o
Abi u never hear of marriage way last a month....how old are u?

highqueen:
If he's serious with You, then fine but first of all, don't ever have sex with him till he does some marriage rights.


He should visit your parents first since he is all for marriage not friendship.

I go with this also. Probably he approached you 5 years ago just to get you laid. And approached again to satisfy his ego. So, @Op pls be careful. His intentions for coming back might not be as pure as it seems. .
But guys are pretentious, some guys can go as far as not having sex with u until marriage to get what they want . Only for them to change afterwards and start showing their true colors.

Best thing wud be DAT you pray about it

Raalsalghul:
I'm sure the bolded is the only reason you are considering him. Had it been the opposite, I doubt you would bring this matter to nairaland.

Yeah u are a true observer
From her statement we can deduce that the guy didn't tell her openly dat he is OKAY NOW
She just surveyed him, viewed him with her 3rd eyes

All dis kin marriage kw day last walllie

Juliusdaughter:

How? I didn't date him then cos I was with someone. Not that I refused to date him because he was broke and now he's rich

Please, ignore that guy, I mean the one you just responded to here. You can't change his impression about you or women, it's innate.

However, If I may advice you on the subject, I'd say that you guys should start by being good friends for a while. Do not rush into intimacy until you feel that unexplainable 'kini' that would naturally make you realize that it's him. I don't know if you get me?

I have a feeling that you were raised well and are a good person. I wish you luck!

If u rejected a guy, ,,,years ago over and over and over again
Then bummm he just becomes rich after hustling, ,,,and now u are all over him

U b gold digger, ,,,,so all of a sudden, ,,u broke up with ur ex?

Dis story op we kw b children.....

mogbojaiye:


Yeah u are a true observer
From her statement we can deduce that the guy didn't tell her openly dat he is OKAY NOW
She just surveyed him, viewed him with her 3rd eyes

All dis kin marriage kw day last walllie

Na their way.

the guy deserves someone better at least someone who stood by him when he was a nobody, if i was in his shoes the only reason I would take you serious is if you at one point in life influenced me positively.

you can never reap where u didn't sow.

Banter1:
I disagreed with people saying the guy has low self esteem. what if he genuinely love this lady in question? what if they are destined to be husband and wife? ya"ll need brain surgery.

If you are conversant with recent events, then you'll know that love doesn't exist. The guy Bleep up big time.

tikkykay:
Pray abt it. That way...You won't be misled

praying about it is the best option my sister God will lead you through

Raalsalghul:
Na their way.

We b guys na

No guy man wan don arrive go tell woman say he is ok, ,,,,,,

Na she go talk am

So from her statement she rejected him back then becus he kw hold bread (money)

mogbojaiye:


We b guys na

No guy man wan don arrive go tell woman say he is ok, ,,,,,,

Na she go talk am

So from her statement she rejected him back then becus he kw hold bread (money)

Na so my G. Better oil dey your head.

marvel15:

praying about it is the best option my sister God will lead you through

Prayer warriors (9ja girls)

Instead of u to ask y d break up with d ex
Wats d time interval

U all are saying she should pray
The op kws her intention already for this arrived hot bread ,,,,,,na God even kw if she first lve d guy from the onset

Pesoli:
This story happened to me. I am been after this girl for 6 years. I was able to get her number after a year that we met. I have been asking her out since but she refused. until she saw me of recent, I am now working in Government house. she was just disturbing me about, where is my Girlfriend. I told her she is fine. She told me she had broke up with her boyfriend for cheating n now she is not having bf. I asked her out the last time I saw her n she said yes. well I first think I should play her but I later accept faith that that's the sacrifice of love

Mumu.

Mursz:
How would we know what his intentions towards you are na? Are nairalanders psychic now?

See ehn, the only reason that is pushing you towards him is like you quoted “ he is ready for marriage and very ok”

If he wasnt good enough for you 5 years ago why is he suddenly a candidate for consideration?

That is the long throat that is doing you, the carrot called ok, that is being dangled infront of you.

Biko if you want to eat it go right ahead, dont come and be bugging us with psychic work here!

Nothing but the truth bra, sh1t can't be any realer..

Thumbs up.

Raalsalghul:
If you are conversant with recent events, then you'll know that love doesn't exist. The guy Bleep up big time.

Real Bleep up
Woman way turn u down years ago, ,,,after u don hammer, ,,u still day ask am out, ,,,,1 2 3 she con gree, ,,,,make dat guy day careful o

AryEmber:
Go about it the right way. Date him, don't sleep with him till he put a finger on it.

put *finger* on it? jeeezzzzzz!!

samysmoothfresh:


my brother i tire o.


After 5yrs of multiple sex with ex and maybe 2yrs of freelance sex and one night stands when she dey single, she still dey talk about using.

wetin dem wan use again?

Weyrey guy

Realhommie:
Nothing but the truth bra, sh1t can't be any realer..

Thumbs up.

Woman way turn me down years ago becus I kw hold bread or I still day use leggadis Benz, ,,,i have no business with them after God blessings fall on me

D best I can do is grace their occasion....probably her mama or papa die or e brother wan do marriage, ,or even her marriage with excort o,,,then I go wisper for her ear,,,,SHAE I TELL U SAY MAKE U FRIEND ME DAT TIME

IamD18:
You don't want to be used. How? Are you a virgin? Make una try dey get sense Abeg.

You have been having sex with your ex for five years without any thing to boast of from the relationship, and here you are, talking about being used.

Biko! Fire down with him, if he ends up as your husband, your luck. But if he fvcks, treat you like trash and dump you for refusing him then, you endure and vamoose.

Relationship na luck. No scripts for it.

Your oil shall never run dry baba mi. OP... If you are not a virgin as my oga said, then don't worry about being used No be today yansh dey back

AryEmber:
I guess my advice is on point then, that way, he won't get to shag a poluted septic tank.

Polluted not poluted.

Aunty take it easy with this bullet you are firing na.

mogbojaiye:

Woman way turn me down years ago becus I kw hold bread or I still day use leggadis Benz, ,,,i have no business with them after God blessings fall on me

I agree..

Realhommie:
I agree..

Infact as God day bless me as far say u kw contribute to my success, ,,,i day delete their numbers and contact from my whatspp and phone memory to free space for positive people , ,,,,,,who get time for foes