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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Tonero231: 10:03am On Jan 11, 2019
EmmaOgbu:
I think you should take it easy.

Let her socialize. Girl that will cheat on you will still do, inrespective of her marital status.

Giving out her number to guys does not really mean she is planning to cheat on you or she is cheating on you. Show her love and she won't cheat on you.

Don't worry about it, let ur heart be free and you will enjoy ur marriage to her when you do marry her.



Another sissy spotted

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Bestchoice4me(m): 10:04am On Jan 11, 2019
No mind those mumu up there.. because they are birds of a feather.. I was about to bash them b4 seeing ur comment.. Senseless being
DMerciful:
I don't know why girls support themselves in foolishness! Look at the preposterous comments above!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by gentleedu(m): 10:04am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction
my guy i don't know who you are but i will tell you the truth, i don't think this kind of girl is good for you. marriage is not a child's play and you must be wise in your decision..

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:05am On Jan 11, 2019
rame18:












Op is confused na,that water will give him a clearer vision of what is happening around him.
gringrin
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by jakandeola(m): 10:06am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction
and u no use slap scatter her stupid mouth for that phone. who be the barstard DAT didnt let ur girl eat with u. guy if it was me take the phone form her and smash it on the floor. my girl cant try that with me.I tell my girl d day we get married I will brake her sim card and get her new one

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by ofiko123(m): 10:06am On Jan 11, 2019
I came to read comments...
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:08am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



thanks 6... just wish mine can borrow your behavior

I will tell you the truth.Your woman doesn't find you attractive at all.I think she is beginning to be irritated,its higly possible she is wrapping her arms round the unclothedness of another guy or seriously anticipating it.Her mind is elsewhere.Free her please.Talking from my own experiences.A woman who is ready for you completely will be the one touching you every time you guys are together.

Women appreciates the use of love making to calm quarrels,and most men understand this.A situation where even love making seems like a war at this early stage is a red flag.She is confused about someone that is not YOU!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by AgbalagbaAwo: 10:09am On Jan 11, 2019
Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.
Deal with your insecurity
Shut the f*ck up!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by rame18(f): 10:09am On Jan 11, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
gringrin












Laugh o,op doesn't mean anything to the babe, she doesn't respect and love him and he is disturbing peoples e-space. Only thing I can tell him is this NEVER WAIVE AWAY WARNING SIGNAL.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:09am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:


it's not insecurity my Dear... I have gotten list from their family... against my Coming by Easter with my family... or do you think I don't see beautiful girls out side that I will flirt with or give my number to....


Most of these gals don't know what they want. They want to eat their cake and still have it. A girl that is on her way to getting married still giving her number to Men is not ready for marriage.

I pity a lot of our gals. see the way Nairaland ladies are supporting her action.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by AgbalagbaAwo: 10:09am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry
Just shut the f*ck up!
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by boomssey(f): 10:09am On Jan 11, 2019
delugajackson:
You need to establish some rules in your relationship. I see she's the type that direspects you and I wonder how you both will cope during marriage. But it's up to you, if you keep acting like a sissy, you will get treated like one. Respect is earned.

You need to make her understand that she's no longer available to other men by virtue of the engagement ring. If she finds that too difficult to understand then she's free to walk away. Life is too short to make mistakes. And stop with the "I love her" crap line. You can't sacrifice your sanity and peace of mind on the alter of love.
and if she doesn't u can always let go cos d way I c it d babe ain't ready u just wanna tie her down.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by 1miccza: 10:10am On Jan 11, 2019
Jennyhot:
So r u telling me since u engaged her, you've not given out your No 2 girls? U go swear??
Chai! Men with their insecurity... Don't u know that you guys r not to be trusted... U only engaged her & not to cage her... Have seen engagement that lasted over 7yrs without even proper introduction; we called that type monitoring spirit & destiny destroyer...When u marry her u can as well change her phone /sim card, Ok?

And is it supposed to be a competition in the relationship now??

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by michaelwilli(m): 10:10am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

Sweet baby Jesus. Better pick race

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by boomssey(f): 10:11am On Jan 11, 2019
I don't understand y some ladies here are supporting d girl.this ain't right at all.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:12am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

When will you guys ever fvcking learn to read the signs.. These signs means the same thing.. You are in love with a ho.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by CyberWolf: 10:12am On Jan 11, 2019
rame18:











You will end up beating someone's daughter for nothing o.
My woman can’t try that in my presence, she knows me very well. When I tolerated bullshits like that has passed, not now again.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Sheggy13(m): 10:12am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
Common sense isn't common after all.

It is a known fact that opposite sex relates more on phone then people of same sex. A brief scroll through your contact is a proof of this. As a guy how many guys' number do you have on your phone compared to the ladies? Same thing applies to the ladies.

Op, that you are engaged to her doesn't mean she has to cut others off, as long as she's faithful and has regards for you, there is no problem. As for the odd calls, seat her down and talk about it together like adults. Communication is the key.


To the foolish ones ranting, may God help your foolishness! I'm out!
Your first sentence is a pure lie, perhaps it's true for girls like you. No serious-minded guy will have contacts of ladies more on his than those of men. As business partners or what? lol.. Will those ladies contacts fetch money for him or what? Only players and guys that don't want they want have lots of female contacts on their phones except relatives, colleague and few other acquaintances.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by cabilla(m): 10:12am On Jan 11, 2019
MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak! angry
see them
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:13am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:


it's not insecurity my Dear... I have gotten list from their family... against my Coming by Easter with my family... or do you think I don't see beautiful girls out side that I will flirt with or give my number to....
Perhaps the concept of marriage hasn't dawn on her yet. Tell her u no longer sure of the own thing (just a bluff) just to see her reaction.

It's obvious you d one begging for d relationship, better u don't stand for an attitude u won't stand for tomorrow. Deal with it.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by richylee(m): 10:13am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction
from my own point of view, I think you should man up and let her know she should change her ways, if you did not stop this now you might end up regretting your marriage with her...
Rule #1 never marry out of pity

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:13am On Jan 11, 2019
rame18:













Laugh o,op doesn't mean anything to the babe, she doesn't respect and love him and he is disturbing peoples e-space. Only thing I can tell him is this NEVER WAIVE AWAY WARNING SIGNAL.
True..... smileysmiley
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by rame18(f): 10:14am On Jan 11, 2019
boomssey:
I don't understand y some ladies here are supporting d girl.this ain't right at all.











Most of them just wanna be funny,they know the truth.
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by mercyymai(f): 10:14am On Jan 11, 2019
U just need to talk to her..she may not see it as something serious so far she dnt have a thing for them. Seriously, some men are frustrating u will just decide to give them ur number to stop them from bugging ur life.

I do that too. But dz year i made a decision not to give any guy my contact. Although my fiancee didnt say anything o but i put myself in his shoe. How will i feel if different girls is calling him in my presence.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:15am On Jan 11, 2019
Before you develop high blood pressure what does she do for a living. In my business the only way you can make sales is if you give your number out to clients. The second I do I make sure to declare my reason I am giving my number and my relationship status it’s important you ask her if her reason is for business or personal before breaking up for nothing

I have two lines one number is for business one number is for personal only a few people know the private number but the business one is everywhere if I give anyone 0909 it’s business I gave my love my new number the second I got it

You need to be sure

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by rame18(f): 10:15am On Jan 11, 2019
CyberWolf:
My woman can’t try that in my presence, she knows me very well. When I tolerated bullshits like that has passed, not now again.











Ultimate warrior!

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by CAPSLOCKED: 10:15am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

GUY THIS "ARTIFICIAL LOVE" IS THE BIGGEST PRISON. YOU KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT ACCORDING TO YOUR BRAIN BUT YOU'RE REFUSING TO DO IT BECAUSE YOU'RE IN LOVE... YOU'S A SLAVE TO YOUR EMOTIONS MY G AND IT NEVER GETS BETTER FOR ANYONE IN THIS SITUATION. YOU'RE HEADING FOR SELF DESTRUCTION ON THIS PATH, IT'S BEEN JUST A FEW WEEKS AND YOU'RE ALREADY DYING FROM THE ACHE, IMAGINE HOW WORSE IT'LL GET WHEN YOU GO ON FOR YEARS.

I WON'T ACT LIKE THE REST ON THE THREAD BY ASKING YOU TO WITHDRAW. YOU NEED TO PROCEED AND GET THE EXPERIENCE YOURSELF, FOR IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO CONVINCE A FOOL IN LOVE. ALL THE BEST.

PS: NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS IN THE FUTURE SNIPER SHOULDN'T BE AN OPTION.

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by frozen70(f): 10:16am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

Something is wrong somewhere and only her can explain what is behind her picking calls at odd hrs or giving out numbers to random men

Ask yourself, is she really read and be committed to marriage or she wants to marry because you propose to her

Is she a wife material or you married her because of her beauty, physic and appearance

Marriage is beyond the above mentioned

I suggest you put on hold the engagement and watch her

There are some women who are faithful but you can't control them and their phone calls

There are some who receive calls at odd hours but strictly on transactions

Observe her bith on phone communication and her attitude for some more time while you prospone the engagement indefinitely.

Marriage is meant for those people that are ready to swim without life jacket and expected to get to shores despite the sea waves

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:16am On Jan 11, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:


GUY THIS "ARTIFICIAL LOVE" IS THE BIGGEST PRISON. YOU KNOW WHAT IS RIGHT ACCORDING TO YOUR BRAIN BUT YOU'RE REFUSING TO DO IT BECAUSE YOU'RE IN LOVE... YOU'S A SLAVE TO YOUR EMOTIONS MY G AND IT NEVER GETS BETTER FOR ANYONE IN THIS SITUATION. YOU'RE HEADING FOR SELF DESTRUCTION ON THIS PATH, IT'S BEEN JUST A FEW WEEKS AND YOU'RE ALREADY DYING FROM THE ACHE, IMAGINE HOW WORSE IT'LL GET WHEN YOU GO ON FOR YEARS.

I WON'T ACT LIKE THE REST ON THE THREAD BY ASKING YOU TO WITHDRAW. YOU NEED TO PROCEED AND GET THE EXPERIENCE YOURSELF, FOR IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO CONVINCE A FOOL IN LOVE. ALL THE BEST.

PS: NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS IN THE FUTURE SNIPER SHOULDN'T BE YOUR OPTION.

grin grin grin

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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:18am On Jan 11, 2019
Lordbellish:



she always telling me she dry, baby can't u see am dry and me being dry means I'm not in the mood...

or if she concepts to making love, once she cums, she pushes me away... and now do a hand job on me b4 I cum... (sorry I'm spelling everything out like this) I'm seriously hurting
The sign is obvious. she does not love you

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