dairykidd:
I am guessing the OP is a nurse or something related cos i saw her referring to someone as a patient.. Well let's forget about what they say about nurses

If I was Gbenga, I wouldn't get mad at u at all after the multiple cheating and storehouse of angry, hungry & ready dîcks waiting for the slightest opportunity to murder ur punna, I will continue fûcking u while u stûpidly still assume we're still dating & I will definitely have a harem of thick, hot and Hot bîtches just like u keep ur ready pipes in waiting. Such bullshît, u cheat on him as if that isn't enough u still keep niggas on the side not just the ones u met before him but even new ones... Steady upgrading ur pipes in waiting & u expect a normal guy to act normal with u when u urself are so abnormal. Do that nigga a favour before u turn him into something the next girl will have to suffer for... Leave him while he still has some sanity to condone all ur trailer load of horseshit!!!

Nonsense

Ishilove:

So you intend to keep enduring emotional turmoil for a lifetime? Are you aware that it can kill your self-esteem?

Ask yourself, can you envisage living like this for the rest of your life?

Since walking out is a bit drastic, duke it out with him. Let him know how his distrustful attitude is hurting you, and tell him to stop. You'll be amazed at the things that will come out of his mouth.

This is the price of unfaithfulness and taking a person's love for granted. You're the architect of your own problems but I believe you've learned your lesson.

Be that as it may, you can't continue to suffer for your past sins, you will just die before your time.

Sushsu7:


U will end up messing this man life up if you two eventually get married,mean while na God go punish u idiot....ashawo

Yemaica:


He has a more fulfilling career for someone in his age. Designing stuffs he calls blueprint for business process and enterprise archit...
see i dont know what else to say.

Thank you

Zither:


Guy, what is your problem? Why are you drinking panadol on another person's headache?

dukeprince50:
this woman, tufiakwa, see how u butter olumide,
Of all the things funmisticqueen said the only thing you replied to is his fulfilling carrier, its obvious you like material things and can easily be distracted with those.

Kingdollar28:
Girl u are really cheap just like ur boyfriend said...


U made promise to him not to cheat again right?

And u added olumide's number to friend zone as u claim....why was you moved with his type of business that got attracted to go pay him a second visit...

Girl, u are easily decided with material things..!!

Do that gbenga a favor. And get d heck outta his life..

#ungreatful_thing

Yemaica:
• Yes I made a mistake by cheating on him but I am changed.
• Yes he knows me, maybe a little be more than I know myself
• I tell him everything, he is always there for me when I am down
• Yes he is changing my life for better
• He treats me like a child that needs to be taught how to walk, eat and play even though HE IS 2 YEARS OLDER THAN I AM
• He knows how to touch a woman
• He helped me start a small business by teaching me how to make extra income.

But I am tired of all the questioning thoughts he expresses. I don’t think he trust me and I am trying my best to show him but its just never enough.
If I marry him I feel this will never stop. I don’t know what else to do to make him trust me again.
He planned to go see my parent next month but I have not heard anything since the beginning of this year.

This problem is affecting my work and everything around me. Please I need help.

Yemaica:
So there is this man in my neighborhood I respect alot, I know his family very well, they were my patient in the hospital I used to work with. About 4 weeks ago he called my line requesting that I meet his junior brother (olumide). Was a bit intrigued, I asked him why bust he was beating around the bush. i told him that I am in a serious relationship but he pleaded that there is no harm that I should just meet with him. Out of respect I agreed.

I fixed a date (Christmas eve).A couple of hours before I went to see olumide,I sent gbenga a text that was going to see someone(I later knew that my boyfriend was about to buy me n my elder sis Christmas chicken when he got the text… we ended up eating frozen chicken for Christmas). I went to meet olumide and we had a chat, I told him I am in a serious relationship and he said OK. Immediately I transferred him to my friends zone. Later I spoke with Gbenga and explained everything to him. He was not mad except for the chicken part.

Since then, Olumide calls me to check on me, he was even the first person to call and wish me Happy new year, He made mention in the 1st date that he is into business which caught my interest. So about 2 weeks ago after work right after my shift my boyfriend called and I told him that I was going to see Olumide. He said OKAY NO PROBLEM. I met with Olumide and realized that the business I thought I was interested in never held any water and he was not really into it, he used the meeting as an opportunity to see me again.

After wards, I had a conversation with Gbenga regarding the meeting and how pissed I was to find out that the guy just wanted to see me again. TO MY SURPRISE Gbenga calmly and passionately injected insults into my blood stream in form of an advice. It was so painful it pierced my heart real time as I was reacting with rivers of tears on my face.

I don’t think I can do this anymore.

Oluwabash:
If you won't mind, let's talk on phone.

Stay calm and be good to yourself.

Yemaica:
• Yes I made a mistake by cheating on him but I am changed.
• Yes he knows me, maybe a little be more than I know myself
• I tell him everything, he is always there for me when I am down
• Yes he is changing my life for better
• He treats me like a child that needs to be taught how to walk, eat and play even though HE IS 2 YEARS OLDER THAN I AM
• He knows how to touch a woman
• He helped me start a small business by teaching me how to make extra income.

But I am tired of all the questioning thoughts he expresses. I don’t think he trust me and I am trying my best to show him but its just never enough.
If I marry him I feel this will never stop. I don’t know what else to do to make him trust me again.
He planned to go see my parent next month but I have not heard anything since the beginning of this year.

This problem is affecting my work and everything around me. Please I need help.

b0rn2fuck:
Remember you have once cheated and he knew about it, if he forgive you, it will linger in his heart forever, cheating like a relationship is a like broken mirror, if fix , can never be the same again,. The best you could do is stay away from male friends or dumb gbenga that is you will do him a favour , he will at peace rather than suspense of keeping male friends just like we all reason as men, even if you jump into another relationship,if they tolerate same male friends for short time, after they get tired of your pussy, they won't tolerate same male friends again. Its same circle has gbenga reason that will men will also reason, don't smell what you don't wan to eat .

ashawopikin:
she said she cheated more than once, it could be 3,4 times or more

Ishilove:

This is cold. If he insults you, give him double. If you don't have the liver, desire or motivation to give him double, walk out on him and give him the cold treatment.

Moneystopnonsen:
My dear yemaica. All Gbenga is saying about you it's all true.
A guy that pampers you before, can touch you well and ready to go broke all for you and you still cheated on him, thank God you said you cheated for reasons you are not proud of.

And shortly someone calls you, imagine just some one that used to be your patient to go and meet a man, which you had prior knowledge of what will be the content of the discussion, you still sheepishly went, and you said you went out of which useless respect, madam you have no norms and value that guide your lifestyle and even had the courage to tell gbenga where you were going and the confirmed the content of discussion,

That one was not enough for you decided to add olumide to your friend zone so that you can keep communicating.

Madam you have zero respect for Gbenga and sincerely you are all he says you are.

Men like Gbenga make me angry, he is not wise, you have shown your real self, but he is still allowing love lead him, when we the married folks know that love doesn't guarantee a happy home.

Please my candid advice to you, leave Gbengas life as you don't deserve him. With all his good sides and tidings you still misbehave then if he gets married to you and Godforbid a challenge of life comes to him, you will loose respect for him and won't stand by him

Zither:


Guy, what is your problem? Why are you drinking panadol on another person's headache?

Yemaica:
• Yes I made a mistake by cheating on him but I am changed.
• Yes he knows me, maybe a little be more than I know myself
• I tell him everything, he is always there for me when I am down
• Yes he is changing my life for better
• He treats me like a child that needs to be taught how to walk, eat and play even though HE IS 2 YEARS OLDER THAN I AM
• He knows how to touch a woman
• He helped me start a small business by teaching me how to make extra income.

But I am tired of all the questioning thoughts he expresses. I don’t think he trust me and I am trying my best to show him but its just never enough.
If I marry him I feel this will never stop. I don’t know what else to do to make him trust me again.
He planned to go see my parent next month but I have not heard anything since the beginning of this year.

This problem is affecting my work and everything around me. Please I need help.

Yemaica:
I think i have seen enough. i knew this was a bad idea.

Thank you all.

Auladimeji:
You have not seen anything let me call the mod(lalasticlala) to push it to front page for people to eat you raw.Nonsense



Meanwhile Can I be your friend,it seems you are a cheerful giver aka Animashaun