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Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by UyiIredia(m): 6:36pm On Jan 20, 2019
Women never approach men. Despite all feminist talk of equality and such they never want to share hard responsibilities men must take. It is always a man that bulks up and walks to a lady he likes to ask her out. Women never do this and the best you can expect if they really like you is the indirect method of dropping clues.

Not that I don't have my ideas but ladies feel free to tell me why this is.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by lilmax(m): 6:50pm On Jan 20, 2019
this is what happens when nigerian women copy and paste without environmental consideration


imagine men should give up their pride in Nigeria but women should keep theirs grin
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by UyiIredia(m): 6:59pm On Jan 20, 2019
It is their keeping their pride that makes them sitting ducks. Men have a more control over which partner they settle with since they approach women. Women make do with the best that comes to them.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by Newboss(m): 7:04pm On Jan 20, 2019
Demand and supply. Inflation and deflation. If you understand these, you will know why women hardly do such in Nigeria but do in other parts of the world. You check the average Nigerian slay queen's post on Facebook, you see hundreds of likes in less than an hour. You check their counterparts' in the west, you hardly see 50 except she's a celeb.

I've been approached by Nigerian ladies again and again tho. So they still go for what they want, but the problem is that sometimes they may not really want you, so it's not their fault that they didn't approach you.

Also, the orientation of the society has a lot to do with it. Things are changing, but it'll still take some time to get to that level angry
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by Anniie4u: 7:08pm On Jan 20, 2019
Who says ladies never ask men out? Just say a lady hasn't asked you out.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by UyiIredia(m): 7:15pm On Jan 20, 2019
Anniie4u:
Who says ladies never ask men out? Just say a lady hasn't asked you out.

Madam a lady asking man out is like finding the red-headed agama lizard. Seriously over rare. You wey dey talk don ask man out.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by ubunja(m): 7:15pm On Jan 20, 2019
Anniie4u:
Who says ladies never ask men out? Just say a lady hasn't asked you out.
how many men have you approached yourself?
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by UyiIredia(m): 7:18pm On Jan 20, 2019
Newboss:
Demand and supply. Inflation and deflation. If you understand these, you will know why women hardly do such in Nigeria but do in other parts of the world. You check the average Nigerian slay queen's post on Facebook, you see hundreds of likes in less than an hour. You check their counterparts' in the west, you hardly see 50 except she's a celeb.

I've been approached by Nigerian ladies again and again tho. So they still go for what they want, but the problem is that sometimes they may not really want you, so it's not their fault that they didn't approach you.

Also, the orientation of the society has a lot to do with it. Things are changing, but it'll still take some time to get to that level angry

Even abroad and in the US with their post-modern feminist oga it is still men that mostly ask women out. What you can assume is that more women ask men out over there compared to here. But even then women mostly wait for men to approach them. Men who criticize feminist sometimes point out the hypocrisy.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by Anniie4u: 7:20pm On Jan 20, 2019
UyiIredia:


Madam a lady asking man out is like finding the red-headed agama lizard. Seriously over rare. You wey dey talk don ask man out.

When there's some familiarity, yes, I can ask a guy out.
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by UyiIredia(m): 7:24pm On Jan 20, 2019
Anniie4u:


When there's some familiarity, yes, I can ask a guy out.

I didn't say whether 'you can'. I asked 'have you?' Have you asked a guy out?
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by DANO1011(m): 7:26pm On Jan 20, 2019
Ladies do give signs to guys they admire.
In fact most times body language will tell you undecided
Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by Newboss(m): 7:44pm On Jan 20, 2019
UyiIredia:


Even abroad and in the US with their post-modern feminist oga it is still men that mostly ask women out. What you can assume is that more women ask men out over there compared to here. But even then women mostly wait for men to approach them. Men who criticize feminist sometimes point out the hypocrisy.

My brother, female feminists are not trying to out do men. They're trying to create an equilibrium.

A woman won't approach you when she doesn't give much fūck about you. Men don't approach women because they are women but because the men in question give a fūck about the women (mainly for the pussy, which men have made an invaluable commodity by making excessive demand for it. In fact, women see men as super cheap and always on heat). An average lady gets a lot of attention from guys every single day. Imagine if taxi men lined up at your door daily to pick you up for free, wouldn't it be stupid to go to the motor park to get taxi? Demand and supply! Blame the taxi men!


So men are their own problem. They should lower the demand for pussy.angry

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by UyiIredia(m): 7:56pm On Jan 20, 2019
DANO1011:
Ladies do give signs to guys they admire.
In fact most times body language will tell you undecided

Na their style. To give signs. But to man up and toast a guy. Dem no fit. So are ladies created to be cowards in that respect. I just dey wonder.

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Re: Ladies Tell Me Why . . . by UyiIredia(m): 7:58pm On Jan 20, 2019
Newboss:


My brother, female feminists are not trying to out do men. They're trying to create an equilibrium.

A woman won't approach you when she doesn't give much fūck about you. Men don't approach women because they are women but because the men in question give a fūck about the women (mainly for the pussy, which men have made an invaluable commodity by making excessive demand for it. In fact, women see men as super cheap and always on heat). An average lady gets a lot of attention from guys every single day. Imagine if taxi men lined up at your door daily to pick you up for free, wouldn't it be stupid to go to the motor park to get taxi? Demand and supply

You get point sha.

Newboss:

So men are their own problem. They should lower the demand for pussy.angry

But you know that cannot happen. Men are helpless for the pussy and the boobs, plus the ass.

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