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Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by slex(m): 3:16pm On Aug 15, 2010
No be all gift i go free ooooo, if i give am Plane i go collect am;no time

abeg o, my babe de laff me 4 here
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by madlady(f): 3:30pm On Aug 15, 2010
I understand the title but not the statement.

It's more than childish to ask for a GIFT back.

No disrespect to you but, if ANYONE asked for a gift back, I would dash it give dem.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by coolier(f): 3:33pm On Aug 15, 2010
Yes, very childish.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by slex(m): 3:43pm On Aug 15, 2010
well i am not in the position just asking cos i overhead  this argument. No offense taken madlady
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Nobody: 3:49pm On Aug 15, 2010
Since you have collected something in kind,you dont need that any more
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by madlady(f): 3:49pm On Aug 15, 2010
slex:

well i am not in the position just asking cos i overhead  this argument.

No offense taken madlady

Thanks honey.

I've heard somethink like that said also, it really sounded disgraceful, actually it was said by a girl to a guy.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by googles: 5:56pm On Aug 15, 2010
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

One time this thing happened in my compound, A guy was dating this girl,my neighbor, furnished her room for her they were so much in loff

blah blah blah. . . . months later the girl broke up cos the guy was acting funny that weekend the guy came to pack all the things he bought in

the apartment. . . the funny part is this guy has no car, he carried the whole rug on his head grin twas really funny dat day cos he looked foolish

they made up weeks later and he used his hands to pack those things back to the apartment. talk about mumurity

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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by slex(m): 6:10pm On Aug 15, 2010
^^^^^^
What shocked that guy is the biggest mumu i have heard of, so what would he have done if he bought her a deep freezer?carry it on his head? chk the scenario

Big Mumu: darling lets make love naaa
Girl: No jor i am tired lets talk about pigeon wrestling
B: What!!! after all i have done for you?
G: what is the noise for?is it because of that tokunboh freezer you bought for me?
B: i am carrying it away now, i hate you.
G: (remains silent)
B:ummm, ummmmmmm, ummmmm(struggling to carry freezer unto his head) well don't just stand there come and help me out.

What a slowpoke
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by philip0906(m): 6:26pm On Aug 15, 2010
googles:

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

One time this thing happened in my compound, A guy was dating this girl,my neighbor, furnished her room for her they were so much in loff

blah blah blah. . . . months later the girl broke up cos the guy was acting funny that weekend the guy came to pack all the things he bought in

the apartment. . . the funny part is this guy has no car, he carried the whole rug on his head grin twas really funny dat day cos he looked foolish

they made up weeks later and he used his hands to pack those things back to the apartment. talk about mumurity

d guy deserves some knocks on his head grin
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by googles: 6:37pm On Aug 15, 2010
philip0906:

d guy deserves some knocks on his head grin

lol me i laffed him o. . . . trust boys now they made life miserable for him

even the chic had to beg us to stop
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Rooneyboy(m): 7:51pm On Aug 15, 2010
That is way tooo childish. Cant imagine myself doing that .
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by double08(m): 10:27pm On Aug 15, 2010
I so hate it

Its so immature
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Ladyjide(f): 1:41am On Aug 16, 2010
Very childish-and petty!
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Smi1(m): 4:59am On Aug 16, 2010
googles:

cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

One time this thing happened in my compound, A guy was dating this girl,my neighbor, furnished her room for her they were so much in loff

blah blah blah. . . . months later the girl broke up cos the guy was acting funny that weekend the guy came to pack all the things he bought in

the apartment. . . the funny part is this guy has no car, he carried the whole rug on his head grin twas really funny dat day cos he looked foolish

they made up weeks later and he used his hands to pack those things back to the apartment. talk about mumurity


boyz should have flogged the hell out of him for acting so low and stupid
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by kobikwelu(m): 3:55pm On Aug 16, 2010
What that guy is the biggest mumu i have heard of, so what would he have done if he bought her a deep freezer?carry it on his head? chk the scenario

Big Mumu: darling lets make love naaa
Girl: No jor i am tired lets talk about pigeon wrestling
B: What!!! after all i have done for you?
G: what is the noise for?is it because of that tokunboh freezer you bought for me?
B: i am carrying it away now, i hate you.
G: (remains silent)
B:ummm, ummmmmmm, ummmmm(struggling to carry freezer unto his head) well don't just stand there come and help me out.

What a slowpoke


ROTFL

strangely, babes can tell u dis after collecting your stuff

LMAO

abt the topic, mmmmmmmmmmmmm, yeaaa, its kinda childish
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by MOBO444(f): 4:03pm On Aug 16, 2010
It depends, if it is the guy he can have fun with his ex girl (but cant take her gifts), however for ladies they should have nothing to do with their ex guy what so ever. (it a MAN world anyway).
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Ben13: 4:17pm On Aug 16, 2010
Except the gift was for selfish purpose / personal interest.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Nobody: 5:38pm On Aug 16, 2010
IMHO
it all depends on how the gift were given.
if a man gave a gal gifts simply because he loved her and decided to out of his heart and they breakup then he shouldnt ask for the gifts back BUT if the guy gave the gifts because the gal demanded them via false pretence from the damsel then he should get the gifts back.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by iice(f): 3:38am On Aug 17, 2010
Most gifts have strings attached. Unconsciously or consciously. . .people are people after all.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by vivaladiva(f): 3:55am On Aug 17, 2010
ermmmm if ur in d financila position to buy a babe a plane, u prob wont need it bck
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by akwaowoudo(m): 11:28am On Aug 17, 2010
It's bad for a guy to "Timaya" a girl. No matter what, it's a sin.
olas2u:

Since you have collected something in kind,you dont need that any more
What is the kind in "kind"?
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by ak21(m): 1:52pm On Aug 17, 2010
@Poster: Well, it depends on which side of the break-up you are in, if You are at "break" part, then you may be considering collecting your gift items back, but if you are on the "up" side, you may want to move on with your life and forget the gift items. So, that said, i believe you could figure out where you belong and do the right thing. Good luck .
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by wales(m): 2:20pm On Aug 17, 2010
It's very bad to do that, how can you give out and want to collect it back angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Pennywise(m): 2:55pm On Aug 17, 2010
Childish or not, I think its in line with the dictate of natural justice and the norm-you cant enjoy the fruit of one you hate.

And since commonsense has failed the babe in refusing to return what is rightly yours it is only natural that you take back what belongs to you- all of it. Be it cell phone, car, TV, comb, wig, weave-on, kidney, bone marrow etc
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Omolola1(f): 3:08pm On Aug 17, 2010
its not childish, it is stupid!
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by nethacker(m): 4:01pm On Aug 17, 2010
Omolola1:

its not childish, it is silly!
som1 said he is in love wit u grin grin grin grin
i jst say make i do aproko ni ooo grin grin
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by hbabe(f): 4:59pm On Aug 17, 2010
It's childish.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by hackney(m): 5:04pm On Aug 17, 2010
Thing is, if you gave some girl a car and she's now an ex, do you carry
on paying for the road tax , M.O.T and insurance?

I dont think so. cool
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by hbabe(f): 5:08pm On Aug 17, 2010
^^It will be absolute foolishness to keep paying the bills of your ex except you owe her but collecting the car you bought for her back is childish. But if it was a loan to her because you were dating her you should ask for it back.
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Nobody: 5:34pm On Aug 17, 2010
^^^^^i think the foolishness would be if that gal, riding the car i got her, cheated on me and EXPECTS to keep the ride. if she had NO RESPECT for the love/care/help i gave her then she doesnt deserves these gifts.

on the other hand, if I cheated, then the car is all hers lol!
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by hbabe(f): 5:51pm On Aug 17, 2010
^^Now you are saying one should be tied down to a relationship to show gratitude for a gift. What if she/he falls out of love a year or two after the gift?
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex Gf Or Bf by Nobody: 6:08pm On Aug 17, 2010
^^^^ dont misunderstand me.
if someone falls out of love after receiving X amount of gifts then that person should FIRST break up and THEN go on her merry way to have s e x with whoever she pleases.

the act of CHEATING/BETRAYAL is the reason why she wouldnt deserve these gifts any longer.
no relationship lasts forever(some may) but  respect is the least that you should expect from your partner.

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