THOSE ANYONE IN THE HOUSE KNOWS THE BEST WAY TO APPROACH A LADY FOR THE FIRST TIME FOR A DATE? YOUR RESPONSE TO THIS WILL GO A LONG WAY TO HELP OUR FELLOW FELLERS THAT ARE HAVING THIS PROBLEM OF APPROACHING LADIES, AND IF YOU LADIES DON'T MIND COMING OUT WITH THE BEST WAY YOU WILL LIKE TO BE APPROACH WITHOUT STEPPING ON THERE TOES.

bag your own chicks d ! c k head


as if when u are riding it at 100km/hr u would koll me to help u

approach her when she is alone that way if she rejects you it wont be too public also just be yourself dont come up with some fake lines that no one wants to hear. introduce yourself tell her you think she looks hot and let her know you would like to take her out in an attempt to get to know her better.
Also write your number down on a piece of paper and tell her that you didn't want to take up too much of her time because you are really embarrased and if she would like to give you a chance she can call you when she is available.

then just walk away and dont look back. This way the ball is in her court.

best of luck

omega25red:

approach her when she is alone that way if she rejects you it wont be too public also just be yourself dont come up with some fake lines that no one wants to hear. introduce yourself tell her you think she looks hot and let her know you would like to take her out in an attempt to get to know her better.
Also write your number down on a piece of paper and tell her that you didn't want to take up too much of her time because you are really embarrased and if she would like to give you a chance she can call you when she is available.

then just walk away and dont look back. This way the ball is in her court.

best of luck

why would u want the ball to be in her court,,

Just give her a very hot slap and apologies thereafter,trust me,u'll get her

stevetboy9:

Just give her a very hot slap and apologies thereafter,trust me,u'll get her

that wouldn't work, mine would be to get an AK47 rifle, shoot her on the leg and then apologise. She will ever live to remember you.

Learning

omega25red:

approach her when she is alone that way if she rejects you it wont be too public also just be yourself dont come up with some fake lines that no one wants to hear. introduce yourself tell her you think she looks hot and let her know you would like to take her out in an attempt to get to know her better.
Also write your number down on a piece of paper and tell her that you didn't want to take up too much of her time because you are really embarrased and if she would like to give you a chance she can call you when she is available.

then just walk away and dont look back . This way the ball is in her court.

best of luck

FAIL!

You sound like the shy type , sorry i won't call you back, who do you think you are anyway? When we eventually start dating who knows you might be to embarassed to start or even sustain a conversation not to talk of the intimate ones, lol

O.Y.O

The best way to approach a lady for a date is to engage her in a friendly conversation, chat her up like you've known her for years so she wouldn't think you're a weirdo, then divert to the personal part in a polite way not crude, (like some Nigerian men ) , by then both of you already knows what you want. Exchange numbers if she likes you she would call, if doesn't kall better luck next time

The best way to approach a lady for a date is to engage her in a friendly conversation, chat her up like you've known her for years so she wouldn't think you're a weirdo, then divert to the personal part in a polite way not crude, (like some Nigerian men ) , by then both of you already knows what you want. Exchange numbers if she likes you she would call, if doesn't kall better luck next time

the guy is obviously shy and afraid of rejection and he only has like 10 seconds to make an impression so why not hand over his number and walk away?
Girls already know if they will want to talk to you before you even open your mouth so if she really wants to hook up she will call.

different mentality for different folks

nellaluv:

FAIL!

You sound like the shy type , sorry i won't call you back, who do you think you are anyway? When we eventually start dating who knows you might be to embarassed to start or even sustain a conversation not to talk of the intimate ones, lol

O.Y.O

i am the guy you took home to bone  
Umm if you read the posters initial post he is shy and doesn't know what to say which is why i gave him a plan with a back door.

My advice would be ,be urself, be confident walk upto the chick in question ,tell her ur name ,ask for her's  in return . Don't panic just pick it from there. You would be surprised at the outcomes once the initial barrier has been broken. Try been friends first. Though personal ,i don't like games, i usually  state my goals on the second meeting ,if not on the first.even when the say no,we usually end up friends. So i think why not start from friends ,we may end up ,lovers.

If a guy struts over and hands over his number like he is some kind of p.i.m.p , he will roast till 2100 because no one wants an arrogant goon who thinks he is the sh1t.

Ebonyeyes:

If a guy struts over and hands over his number like he is some kind of p.i.m.p , he will roast till 2100 because no one wants an arrogant goon who thinks he is the sh1t.

it's not about being arrogant and it's not like he will walk up to her and say i kow you want to Fluck me so here is my number. Geez i guess the attitude behind what i wrote didn't translate.

omega25red:

the guy is obviously shy and afraid of rejection and he only has like 10 seconds to make an impression so why not hand over his number and walk away?
Girls already know if they will want to talk to you before you even open your mouth so if she really wants to hook up she will call.

different mentality for different folks

At the bolded part only if you look like a weirdo/perv tryin to engage little girls in conversation.


Doesn't mean that other guys have like 10 seconds to make an impression. When you engage her in a conversation and she's impressed with what she sees then you're game. If you're afraid of been rejected then you probally be rejected. But like you said;

omega25red:


different mentality for different folks

@nellaluv, you mean i should wait to see if the girl will call before i call  her after our first meeting.

IZUKWU:

@nellaluv, you mean i should wait to see if the girl will call before i call  her after our first meeting.

That's if you arrogantlly dropped ur number without collecting hers.
But if you both exchanged numbers You can call her up if you want, she's probably waiting for you to make the first move, like me i'm an african woman

BTW , where are you at ,will like to get to know you ,you sound reasonable.

If you exchanged numbers then heck yeah you should call her ist.

omega25red:

it's not about being arrogant and it's not like he will walk up to her and say i kow you want to Fluck me so here is my number. Geez i guess the attitude behind what i wrote didn't translate.

Yep it didnt translate but still I dont know anyone of my girls who calls a guy who just drops his number and walks away.

IZUKWU:

BTW , where are you at ,will like to get to know you ,you sound reasonable.

Definitely not in Ikom, Akwa Ibom state

nellaluv:

That's if you arrogantlly dropped your number without collecting hers.
But if you both exchanged numbers You can call her up if you want, she's probably waiting for you to make the first move, like me i'm an african woman

Ebonyeyes:

If a guy struts over and hands over his number like he is some kind of p.i.m.p , he will roast till 2100 because no one wants an arrogant goon who thinks he is the sh1t.

i think the guy respects you and so gives you the option of making the 1st move, that way you wont feel so on top of the world

Riiiiht
tell that to the winds

Inked_Nerd:


Yupp, that's the way to a woma's heart--Abuse and attack her. Work all the time eh? If I may ask Specialist900, how will she be able to walk after you've shot her? Will she limp on your date or will you bring a wheelchair?

common gun shot on the leg, she will walk to the date there will be no need for wheelchair,

Be sensitive to the vibes you receive. Introduce yourself and pick something to have a nice involving not-too-long chat about.
Afterwards, you need to seal the deal so things don't "drag". Tell her you have to get back to some things and then engage number exchange protocols.
Extend your hand like a gentleman asking a lady to dance, she'll respond in-turn, then look in her eyes and say "it was nice meeting you". then bounce.

In all your dealings with this new beauty, be friendly and roll with the sarcastic punches (returning in kind), but don't tolerate any blatant rudeness on her part. . .
You DID give her the honor of taking some time out of your day to approach her so she needs to show some respect for that fact.
If you notice she's being a bit too rude, you don't have to hang around and take that sh1t.  Let her know you didn't appreciate the attitude and be sure to tell her it was unnecessary. And then bounce.

Doing so would have her question & critic her own social skills.
If you come across her again, and you notice she's feeling a bit ashamed (preferably a couple of days after so she's had enough time to cry about being stup1d), smile and look at her like she's a kid and tell her "Let's start over."
She'll be happy you gave her a second chance, plus now she knows you're a no-nonsense G so she won't fucc this one up.

^^

all those ones are story

drive up to her with these

the rest are history,

No need 2 even buy Mr.Biggs or drumsticks or recharge cards,

Just drive straight home~

^^ ofcourse 190's (who rides on 23inch rims and stacks mad paper to the ceiling & lives in a 12 bedroom mansion because he's just balling like that) method words fine too