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pansophist:


Why insult her na? You can pass your point without the ad-hominem.

I agree with you though. The problem is that most women do not understand the subconscious filtering system they used in eliminating guys they do not want to date. an important part of what women find attractive in men is his social proof/dominance/status, which is judged instantly by your overall sophistication (dressing, car, place of meet up (if you met in a danfo or in a setting that reflects your social status). Partly a reason why women are so obsessed with social media, it gives an instant album of your life, and they could place you in a hierarchy to know if you worth their time.

Look closely, even the ones here virtue signalling will ignore Dangote if he dressed commonly. It is after you have passed the social test, then the rule of ''I do not care of about his money'' becomes a thing. And do not ever think it is only Nigerian women, women are the same everywhere. Just expressed in different ways based on their cultural dictations.

Guy, You're too sensible

You literally have monopolized the 21st century girl's wisdom

wetdick:


you forgot to write that out of the 7 bilion people in the world and 185 million people in Nigeria, 60 % are women. there are more women than men.

if woman ends up single, she will be miserable forever, when she is old, nobody to look up to or help her, what a sad life.

if a woman cannot be realistic in finding a man then i wish her good luck in finding what she wants. anyway, she can go to social media and continue enjoying her likes in the virtual world.

the dating world is brutal, we guys want the best and we go for the best, we are selective, we want to know your past and present and if you fail the test with all the acting and doing the right things, off we go.

No man is a dirty church rat except he wants to be one, as for me i can't marry a woman that is a dirty church rat and a leech. sorry.

It'll be well with you

Thumb up bro

Saffi:
a woman who ends up single is miserable? A woman who ends up marrying a dirty church rat will be the happiest woman alive abi? What happened to friends, family, her work life and if she has children even better. I’ve realised that woman who are single have less wrinkles, they age better and look much younger compared to their colleagues who look like expired milk catering to their good for nothing husbands. Biko, if you as a man cannot bring substantial money to the table you are practically useless. Will your watery sperm producing penis take care of the bills? If you guys can select the best, women should be able to do so, and I just hope they can wake up and smell the coffee. Life is too short biko.

This is not what you are in reality
stop confusing people
you still drool for rich and dope ass bois
you still wash his boxers and cry your eyes out when you see him Bleep another girl your delusional standard can never match


You see, the problem is not about the female folks
The problem is about the 21st century guy who made women the center of their world because of some dead rotten pussy she can offer. some guys believe that it is only money that can make a woman do his bidding, while this might be true, it still doesn't reflect the true nature of things. The very moment men stop giving you priority, massaging your ego, doing your bidding, THAT'S WHEN YOU WILL KNOW YOU PEOPLE ARE NOTHING WITHOUT A MAN'S VALIDATION. come to think of it, the moment you starts noticing guys no longer click like on your pics on Facebook, what do you think will happen you feel depressed, right

It is high time men stop giving these people some sense of entitlement mentality

This is a taken women's world, you'd agree.
all because of pussies

irumole1975:


Guy, You're too sensible

You literally have monopolized the 21st century girl's wisdom

Lol, understanding women no hard. If you get mama, sister and female friends/girlfriend, and a curious mind to observe, retrospect and connect dots, and a bit understanding of evolutionary psychology, to see them for what they are is easy like ABC.

K

irumole1975:



This is not what you are in reality
stop confusing people
you still drool for rich and dope ass bois
you still wash his boxers and cry your eyes out when you see him Bleep another girl your delusional standard can never match


You see, the problem is not about the female folks
The problem is about the 21st century guy who made women the center of their world because of some dead rotten pussy she can offer. some guys believe that it is only money that can make a woman do his bidding, while this might be true, it still doesn't reflect the true nature of things. The very moment men stop giving you priority, massaging your ego, doing your bidding, THAT'S WHEN YOU WILL KNOW YOU PEOPLE ARE NOTHING WITHOUT A MAN'S VALIDATION. come to think of it, the moment you starts noticing guys no longer click like on your pics on Facebook, what do you think will happen you feel depressed, right

It is high time men stop giving these people some sense of entitlement mentality

This is a taken women's world, you'd agree.
all because of pussies

Omoge87:
Dear OP.

I don’t really understand this philosophy myself. I am a Nigerian lady. I currently work, I bought and drive my own car. Have almost completed my MSc which I paid for myself. My point being as a Nigerian lady I have never cared about what material thing a guy has. What girls think a guy can provide for them- they can actually provide for themselves if they work hard.

I have only been in two relationships in my life - but in those relationships I never cared about anything material. I cared about their long term vision and goals etc... I remember my first ex didn’t drive. I am the one that would drop him home after church etc.. When they had a need I would help. When I had need they would offer to help and I would politely decline - if it was monetary - simply cos I don’t want any guy to be saying he did xyz for me. Also I noticed Nigerian men associate helping their girlfriends with sex - so far as they are gifting you and giving you money they expect sex in return and as I am not a prostitute - I decline such things. I would rather ask my parents if I had any monetary needs. I don’t believe boyfriend should become your driver or your bank when courtship and vice versa. When you are husband and wife - then yes I can accept financial assistance from my husband - but not boyfriend. Why should a boyfriend be paying my fees or rent? I just don’t understand it at all. A girl should learn to be self - sufficient - when she has her own she won’t care if a guy has BMW or plenty money. She will rather want someone who is compatible with her vision and life long goals.

Bottom line my philosophy is if a girl works hard she won’t have to rely on a man for anything- she will not care if he has a car or money as her first port of call. She will be interested in - does he have a Job, is he a Christian, family background etc... because she wants someone likeminded and compatible with her also.

I think it is laziness that makes some girls want to live off a man. I just don’t understand it at all. My brain cannot comphrend the thought. There is nothing like having your own independence as a woman. I am not a feminist oooo. I just believe in hard work so you don’t have to rely on anyone or beg anyone for anything in this life.

On this same forum there was a post that asked would you rather a rich husband that cheats but provides or a poor husband that is faithful but can’t provide. I just shook my head. Why can’t one just have a hardworking husband and a hard working wife who are both faithful and provide for each other’s needs ?

Wow!
I'm attracted by this...You have a good stand sister,keep moving,you have God.
In addition to all you said which is absolutely right, not all guys help a female friend to have sex they call fun, I have friends and a lot of female friends but am telling you ever in my life I've never done anything with any of them.
because to wealth which might seem to attract some and open to all, I help and I know I really do but I have a stand never to loose my Virginity till I step on the alter and joined in wedlock.
Most people miss it and it's rare to find such man around but there are still few.
It's good to have someone of like passion, having same dream, common goal, faithful, someone you really love and all start from being friends but there are many things to considered as u highlighted up there.

God bless

Saffi:
K

You're rude

Why'd you type 'k" to me??

Do you know who I am?

Saffi:
If you like, write essays upon essays to dispute my claims, I speak the truth and that’s facts and that’s why most of you men are triggered. Nothing you say will convince me to settle with a guy who only has potential. If I cannot see something substantial already that can grow, I’m not buying it. Good luck to all the ladies who want to build a man, you will lose more than you gain. Bye bye.

I just pray i marry someone like you

Umm ok

NNAMDIII:
I just pray i marry someone like you