tobby98:
I have been on this girl for about 2wks now, and she is forming James Bond though she is beautiful young and curvy... My guy in her street told me that the girl is really one 'Hard to get' chick. that he had in the past tried to even initiate a conversation but she is not forthcoming.
What can I do to get her attention and love? Ladies please I need your help on this
Is it because she is introverted or just naive?

Ire2:
Because you are an option.

ZIMDRILL:


well

1 there are taught not to just say yes

2 guys sometimes kiss and tell, she say yes straight away and you sleep with her then dump and you tell friends that she was easy

tobby98:

That's only done if she is too abusive,proud and full of ego... Guys do this to help reduce her ego....though this is mostly immature but decisive in getting her pride in check

ZIMDRILL:


we are saying the samething

like i said there arw brought up being not to accept easily and also to test in you on how patient are you

in doing that she controls the period she wants to keep you in dark, you call it abuse (how) ego and ego but to her she is testing you

tobby98:

Hmm. wordson marbles... are you a female? But for how long will I keep being tested... Test duration on campus doesn't last more than two weeks sef

Ire2:
Because you are an option and not worth it.

lefulefu:
u just a sideguy.she has her main guy dat is rocking her world.

tobby98:

Don't you read?little wonder u got carry over last semester that's if you have ever pass through the four walls of campus...
I said I am a stranger that want to date her.

lefulefu:

she has a guy.she is not interested in u.if the babe dey attracted to u then she for don dey give u postive returns.iyam telling u this now oo b4 u go come start to spend all ur money in a despirate bid to get her attention and after she don chop ur money and no show u will now come to nl and be yelling dat naija girls are gold diggers.

tobby98:

Here u miss it. I go bailout if she ain't interested at all. abi u want make I just dey make empty resolutions every year?
on the interim,i want a hot chick besides while hustling...

tobby98:

Wetin happen bros?
Her eyes never tear reach that side na

dairykidd:

U never ready to hustle hard

tobby98:

Na true but body no be firewood na.... if u die on top ur hustling, ur family fit no even enjoy ur money coz hustling dey make guys too dey show sense... Na those bankers go chop ur money wen u die

dairykidd:

A nice level headed pretty girl will do u much good than the "hot" chick that will only distract u with everything she has.

Dorammy:
A must watch love story of philomena and Philip!





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6kp5-QNqQQg

jonath0012:
All these new comers' to women's world will not seize to amaze me..

How can you profess love to a random girl you don't even know well.. And you expect her to give in?

You know what? You really need to up your game. You are nothing but an AFC ( if you know what that mean by the way).

There are better way you could have gone about it that would make the girl to assume she has found her Prince Charming...unfortunately you don't have such a charisma.



Wonder why you are blaming the innocent girl for you misfortune. See, you need to blame yourself for being a bunch of ignoramus. You are a total novice in the dating game.


AFC = Average frustrated chump

Don't ask me how I know because I was once one

Let me whisper something to your ears... you see, I have never asked a girl out, let alone waiting for her to give me a reply.. It is like handing her my balls, the most expensive thing I have got in this world. Never! I would not do that. And you know what, I get them stuck with me and beg for my love..

Your dressing fine, cash to spend and all those are craps you mentioned will not even get her interested in you.. well it can attract some fake ones to you anyway...

What to do?
First un-learned that craps in your brains on how to get a girl, then we can talk about way to go

tobby98:

Don't you read?little wonder u got carry over last semester that's if you have ever pass through the four walls of campus...
I said I am a stranger that want to date her.

Saintino111:

is this necessary?
For someone that needs advice in a faceless forum, mr professor.

tobby98:

Are you Ghanaian? I admire Ghanaian divas but my taste is classic Nigerian babes