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5 Types Of Guys That Will Always Keep In Touch / I Have A Crush On My Course Rep, He Comes Close But I Ignore Him / Should I Ignore This Knacking In Advance? I'm A Gentleman (2) (3) (4)

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. by Juliusdaughter: 7:39pm On Jan 27, 2019
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Re: . by DWJOBScom(m): 7:43pm On Jan 27, 2019
Noone wants to give attention to someone and later be told,'i never said YES na'!

The dude doesn't want to assume too

so call a meeting and let him know your position and check carefully to see if both of you are now on the same page

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Re: . by Newboss(m): 7:45pm On Jan 27, 2019
Don't throw yourself at him. The signs are obvious. Back off.

This is not about yes or no. He's lost interest. Do not initiate contact again. And don't raise the issue again until he gets into it again angry

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Re: . by Yudee8(m): 7:46pm On Jan 27, 2019
The guy probably has more important things to do. It is good for you to call and make the first move in a relationship but don't do all the work. If he can't find time to call you or message you or keep in touch, then you are wasting your time. Never throw yourself at someone.

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Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 8:13pm On Jan 27, 2019
Newboss:
Don't throw yourself at him. The signs are obvious. Back off.

This is not about yes or no. He's lost interest. Do not initiate contact again. And don't raise the issue again until he gets into it again angry
Thank you. I'm starting to feel like I'm forcing myself on him. He reads my messages sometimes and doesn't reply until I send another one again. But he is hardly online too
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 8:13pm On Jan 27, 2019
Yudee8:
The guy probably has more important things to do. It is good for you to call and make the first move in a relationship but don't do all the work. If he can't find time to call you or message you or keep in touch, then you are wasting your time. Never throw yourself at someone.
Thank you
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 8:24pm On Jan 27, 2019
I really need more views!!!
Re: . by jonath0012(m): 8:25pm On Jan 27, 2019
Op, I understand this wella... He maybe interested in you, but will never ask you out. If you like wait till enternity you will not even hear that from him.

What the guy did was to make himself attracted to you and you fell for it ( It is not a crime anyway). You are the one crazily in love with her and you are losing your mind.

Whether he feels the same way about you, nobody can say. It's 50/50 chance.. When a guy uses such a technique to get a lady it is difficult to tell his true intention, because he is in control of his balls

There are three things I think you can do:
1. Act the same way. No matter how long, do not call him or message him. ( I know you can't do this 'cos your emotion is involved). This is the best to know his true intention.

2. Make your feeling known to him and hear him out.

3. Continue the way you been doing with him maybe he will have a change of heart.. lol
Re: . by Juliusdaughter: 8:43pm On Jan 27, 2019
jonath0012:
Op, I understand this wella... He maybe interested in you, but will never ask you out. If you like wait till enternity you will not even hear that from him.

What the guy did was to make himself attracted to you and you fell for it ( It is not a crime anyway). You are the one crazily in love with her and you are losing your mind.

Whether he feels the same way about you, nobody can say. It's 50/50 chance.. When a guy uses such a technique to get a lady it is difficult to tell his true intention, because he is in control of his balls

There are three things I think you can do:
1. Act the same way. No matter how long, do not call him or message him. ( I know you can't do this 'cos your emotion is involved). This is the best to know his true intention.

2. Make your feeling known to him and hear him out.

3. Continue the way you been doing with him maybe he will have a change of heart.. lol
Thank you
Re: . by Nobody: 9:35pm On Jan 27, 2019
Someone is taking his attention.

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